Question Posted Thursday September 22 2005, 6:13 pm
im doing the talent show and im gonna dance to Pon De Replay and S(lets name her S, and shes my friend)wanted to join in, so me and my other priend who are in it said yes but she hasnt practicing or anything. So we decided we want her out, so does anyone know a nice way to tell her???
Ill rate 5's for good answers...
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Xo_SeXy_SaRaS_Ox answered Thursday September 22 2005, 8:56 pm: you should tell her politely that she needs to show up for practices becuase its hard to put it together w/ her missing if shes a true friend she will understand and either say she cant really do it because shes to buisy or promise to show up. Hope we helped!
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keystonian answered Thursday September 22 2005, 8:30 pm: Just tell "S" lol that you and your other friend have been doing this for a while and it would be hard for her to catch up she should understand hope i helped Jessica [ keystonian's advice column | Ask keystonian A Question ]
Rissie022 answered Thursday September 22 2005, 7:29 pm: I COMPLETELY Understand. First what i would do, is explain to her in a calm voice of how you guys feel. And if she understands, great. But if not, then what i would do is just say S, this isn't working out. If you really want to do this with us, you have to do the same amount of work as us. So you have to practice. So im leaving it up to you..... That way, your not really letting it go on her. And hopefully she will understand. Hope i helped. [ Rissie022's advice column | Ask Rissie022 A Question ]
not_your_star34 answered Thursday September 22 2005, 7:18 pm: Go up to her when she isn't in a bad/sad/etc. mood and when other people aren't around and explain the situation to her calmly.
Ask her why she isn't practicing with you two. Tell her that if she wants to do the dance, then she needs to COMMIT and PRACTICE, and if she doesn't, then she can't be in it. It's not fair if you and your other friend practice and work while "S" is in the group but doesn't practice at all.
Explain all of that to her nicely, and you should be okay.
I hope everything goes okay!
SweetxxIntoxication answered Thursday September 22 2005, 7:14 pm: if the talen show is coming up soon, simply tell her, "listen, the talent show is coming up soon, and you havent been practicing or anything, so we think you shouldnt take part in it this time..please dont be mad, i hope you understand"..and if she clearly hasnt been practicing, she should understand... [ SweetxxIntoxication's advice column | Ask SweetxxIntoxication A Question ]
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