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During 4th period yesterday, my friend, Ryan had my cell and I forgot to get it back from him at the end of class. So he had to keep it and his 5th and 6th periods are football. All the football guys know me so I guess they thought they could mess with my phone and it would be alright. Here's just a few things I found out they did:

1. changed my b/f's name to "cock sucker"
2. took pictures of themselves in the shower (surprisingly enough, I wasn't turned on)
3. sent dirty texts to people
4. changed my dad's name to "do not answer"
5. downloaded all these songs and games
6. i have a "never delete" folder for the texts i want and didn't want to delete and they of course, deleted them! (they claim this one was an accident)
7. and changed the language to German

I was furious with them when I saw my cell. Mostly at Ryan for letting them do it. So, I am not talking to any of them until I figure out if they're worth it or not. Specially Ryan. Now, he claims he is mad at me because I had no right to be mad at him because it wasn't his fault! How immature is that? I don't care that they used up my texts or downloaded stuff that cost money and I don't want them to pay me back or anything but what should I do?

thats so wrong you should be very mad the best thing to do is to tell the football coach he will handle this i gurnetee you he will! he will make them pay for that and the probaly all will get in big trouble for taking naked pics.
tell the foot ball coach i promise you football coaches are strict and he was the one that was in controll when this happend so you should most defrentally tell him trust me please rate
Sarah_xO

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ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?


i rate high so please help

Hunni dont worry everyone thats really pretty just gets called a slut hor hoe ect.. your just prettier than everyone else and there jeslous. Because you can get an guy you want but if you still really want to change your image then try to cover up more with clothes thats the best thing i can think of
Good Luck
Sarah

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me and one of my*friends*fight alot and she is mean to me for no reason at all .And she acts like she is not my friend but i dont know if i want to be her friend anymore what should i do???????????????????????????????

Well to me it sounds like this friend isnt a very good *FRIEND* she sounds like she is just using she dosent sound like a good true friend to me.
hope i Helped
Sarah

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my friend dani is a really weird person. she's my friend and all but i don't know how to tell her how weird she is. help me.

Well if she is your friend then why would you need to tell her shes wired?? But if your telling her that because other people are saying that about her then you might want to sit down and tell her some people like think your wired i dont know but if shes ur friend why would u want to tell her she wired?? but if you want to tell her that because you dont want to be her friend thats another story talk to me more about this on aim. my sn is pinknprettychick
hope i helped
Sarah

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My name is Kayla and I live in Houston, Texas. O.K, I have known this guy for about three years. He is a total gentleman. By the way, I'm 13 and so is he. We were born on the same day. He has some sort of autism that causes him to act younger. People at school don't respect him. He has crushed on me ever since fifth grade and now, we're in seventh and he still has this crush. He has asked me out several times and I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO NOT HURT HIS FEELINGS. He likes that "Pokemon" show on WB kids and he's obsessed with "Yugi-oh" and he's just... weird. He's really sweet though. His mom just passed away on Friday the thirteenth and he's really depressed. I called his mom Aunt Paula and he called my mom Aunt Leanne. I love him and all... but not the way he loves me. He's more like... my cousin/brother. Not a boyfriend. I told him I would LOVE to be his friend but I'm not ready for this kind of relationship. A long time ago, he told me he had a dream about me. I asked him what it was about. He got all shy and red in the face and he smiled, showing his braces. Then, I said "O.K, you tell my sister and my sister will tell me." my sister was only 9 at the time. He whispered it in her ear and ran away. My sister Brittany told me and he said his dream about me... naked... making out with him. So, I stopped talking to him for a while because he said he would make a move on me. I was really scared to be alone with him. A few months later, he told me he stopped having those dreams and he was sorry that it scared me so I forgave him and we were friends again. He asked me out again and I told him "No. I only like you as a friend." and he started CRYING!!! He's like a cousin to me but not like that. I really don't know what to say. I rate good answers and will email anybody who wants me to. Please help me!
~~~Luv, Kayla

Dang i know almost ecally what its like well this guy has liked me for along time now too and his parents got divorced and i think or what i relize now is that when that happend he just really needed someone to talk to and be friends with and like your guy his mom just died and he needs someone to talk to someone to love i guess you could put it that way and about him asking you out thats just he thinks your pretty he really likes you as a friend too and he wants to be your boyfriend so that he knows someones there to love him if you kind of know what i mean. When he ask you out and you say no over and over again i get that part same thing happend here to and evtully he got over me and now where just friends so maybe you should just talk to him and tell me like how this works out what ever u can email me at legallybrunette@bellsouth.net or aim me at pinknprettychick if you want to talk about it more. hope i helped
Sarah

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Theres this kid who i am friends with and well hes really ugly (not trying to sound mean) and no one would ever like him like that. Well and hes kind of a loser and this girl he likes is kind of snobby and popular.. And her friend is setting him up so he looks like a fool. Her friend is telling him that she likes him and that she wood say yes if he asked her out. What should i do so he doesnt get crushed?

I would tell him whats going on about her setting him up so he dosent get hurt or embrassed by the populair snob. hope i helped
SaRaH

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OmG! There's this girl that goes to my school, she's one of my best friends. But it seems that she wants to be exactly like me. She bought the same exact digital camera I had, the same battery charger, she has the SAME necklace I have, and the same exact purse. I usually don't get mad over this stuff. But now she's asking for the same cellphone I have. Am I over exagerating?

she sounds like she wants to be just like you lol she needs to get a life if u ask me.
SArah

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Ok heres the deal..im 14 and in the 9 grade and i feel like i have no friends..i mean yea i talk to people at school but idk like at lunch i sit with these ppl that my "friend" sits w. and i dont even sit by her i sit at the end of the table w. these boys and i dont even tlk to them i just sit there and eat my lunch. Then there comes the weekends and i have nothing to do and i usually stay home w. my mom and dad and i come home every day after school its really is pathetic..any idea to help me?

well yea sorry but it dosent sound liek you have alot a friends what you should do is hang out with people that liek do things like you i mean idk what are you preppy gothic punk i dont know but if no ones like you then you should maybe try to get involed in so groups or soething you would meet alot of new friends there maybe idk i tried my best to answer the quest hope i helped
Sarah

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My friend is mad at me for a dumb reason and she says she does not want to be my friend but I know shes lying, because she has done this before. What can I do to so her I want to be her friend?

ok well if she said she didnt want to be your friend before and she was like just kidding she dosent sound like a good friend to me in the first place...

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