so, my best friend, can treat me like DIRT.
i mean horrible. she's just sooo rude! what do i do? i mean i love her so much, and shes amazing. but when shes rude i dont know what to do! i just take it. beucase i NEVER want to loose her. i NEED HELP!
15fem.
Hey.
She is your best friend so you don't want to hurt her.
When she is treating you badly just say small things like, "That's not a nice thing to say."
or "Is that something you would say to your best friend?"
Just say small things to make her get the idea.
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I dont know if i should keep the friends i have right now. All they do is complain about their lives and critize other people and when i complain about my life they are all like im sorry i cant do anything about that. And they are rude like it doesnt even matter to them! One of them never even calls me and shes my BEST FRIEND. she never trys at all, like she always tells me that she never ever askes people to hang out. but i told her she needs to ask me because im her best friend. so i just wanted to see what she would do. and now my other best friend is all like calling her all the time and now they are best friends and they always leave me out. we always have history of alot of drama so this time i really want to make our friendship work. OH YEAHH our other friend went to mexico for the whole summer and all she does is gossips about her... and she gossips about my other best friend too so i bet she gossips about me too. and thats the whole reason we got in a big fight last time because she said I gossip to much! but now i try to hold back and shes being a huge hypercryte. Im moving from San antonio to houston and i dont no if its worth being friends with all of them anymore. i feel like ive matured so much and i dont want to be in a little group of gossip anymore, i want to change for the better and just be alot more independent. do you think i should just not be friends with them or what?
Hey.
These people do not sound like good friends.
If they don't care about you or call you then don't both with them because you know you can find nicer and better people to hang out with!
And gossiping about other friends of theres isn't a very nice thing to do because why be friends with someone if you gossip about them in a bad way.
I think you should stop being friends with these people because they might end up getting you into some sort of trouble!
HOPE I HELPED!
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whats with girls and being all "oh my gosh, im so fat, i need to lose soo much weight" when they look really good? are they just fishing for compliments or really think that they are fat?
Heyy
Well my friends used to do this and i think that they just want the compliments.
Because we used to all talk about what shirt sizes and what Jean sizes we were they used to always say "Oh im a 10 but at jay jays im a size 8" Then everyone was like oh my gosh that is soo skinny and she's like well thats just way i am.
They always change there minds because somedayz the'll want compliments but other days the'll be up them selfs about how skinny they are.
SORRY ITS SO LONG
HOPE I HELPED
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ok. I have this friend and we have been friends forever... and I got invited to my friends sweet 16. and she in the past has had drinking problems and has done drugs. but at this time she was clean. well my best friend didn't want me to go to the party, she was scared I wold drink or do drugs (which there weren't any XD) I even told her that there were parents at the party. But she called my mom and told her about the party and how she didn't want me to go because of her suspicion of drugs and alcohol. So no basically my mom doesnt want me to hang around the girl at all. because being the idiot she is my friend used names. and so now my mom things that my other friend ( who I really love) is a druggie and drinks alcohol.. and im really mad at my best friend. she should trust me more. I feel that its not her place to do things like that and "look out" for me. I understand that she was trying to help which is why I dont' want to be mean to her. but im really pissed that she would go behind my back and ruin things like that for me... so Im really pissed off and were now fighting.. any ideas on what I should say to her??
Heyy
I think you should tell her ...
" Hey, i know where fighting but can we please talk without fighting because our friendship is important to me." and she will say ok hopefully and then you say ..
" As a friend we should trust each-other and have support in each other, but at the moment im not feeling the trust. We have been friends for a long time now and you need to think before you say stuff next time because you really hurt my feelings how you told my parents that this girl had drugs and alcohol at her party when there actually parent supervision. Can we please put it behind us and get along because i miss being friends with you...and if we are friends again can you please not say anything with out making sure it's true next time"
--sorry this is long--
But she should understand after this how imprtant your friendship is to you!
Do not apologize as it was her fault for telling your mum false accusations but this is just so she can understand what a friendship means and how much it means to BOTH of you!
--and once again sorry its so long--
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what does a guy look for in a friendship with a girl?
because i think guys think it is easier to talk about things that him and the boys talk about..maybe his life or some problems he may have... sometimes he may be interested in her or one of her freinds or maybe he just wants a friend and wants a change with hanging out with guys all the time.
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My friend sleeps around. Now people think I do. How do I fix my reputation and help my friend?
you could say to people --just because she "sleeps" around with people doesn't mean i do--
and if you are not happy about your friend sleeping around maybe you should say thats not right and it's just leading the boys on because they will start to like her and get a interest in her and she will nagged and she will be leading all these boys on and it's not fair!!
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My best friend (D) told me not to long ago that she had sex when she was 12, now shes 14. I was shocked and disgusted too, because people always thought she was a whore. My other best friend told me that D told her that it happened more than once. Once in the bed, once in the shower, once on the beach, and once somewhere else, and a couple other times. This was all with her boyfriend (M). M died last year, and he was only 13. Anyway, she didn't tell me it happened all those times,because she knew I'd be even more disapointed I guess. When D told me about the first time, I told her I had lost respect for her. I think she is a whore. One time in class we were counting all the guys she dated, and I was naming random names and she would be like Yup. The total was 17. D turned 14 a few months ago. Would you agree that D is a whore? Also, would it be wrong to stop talking to her, because of that.
yess she may be a whore i mean having sex at 12??? that is a bit too young to be having sex...
but not talking to her is a bit much .. i have many friends that have had sex at 12 or 13 and im not TOO happy about it ...but i just forget i never heard it and get on with life... we can't get mad over our friends mistakes because it's none of our buisness what she does with her love life..
you can be concerned about the really bad things she does in her life ...
but her LOVE LIFE is hers and no can interfear with that ..
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