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I was just reading through your answers and...that's a load of crap. How dare you say 'blessed be', a Pagan and Wiccan term, at the end of your questions yet call any Pagans who ask questions Satanists? You don't know what you're talking about. Pagans don't worship Satan. I fully expect you to reject this question so people can't see how misinformed you really are, but I thought you ought to know. Grow up and get your facts straight.
Pagan is actually any religion that DOES NOT believe in God and has more than one god of their own. Are you saying that Hindu's and Sikhs are Satanists? Because they are classed as Pagan religions. Exodus may say 'Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live', but have you ever considered that that means evil witches? Pagans are not evil.
Just because you don't believe in God doesn't mean that you are evil. You're a horrible prejudiced little girl and I hope that, for the sake of the people around you, you grow out of these petty beliefs that you and only you are good and right. (link)
Hi Sweetie,
Well I guess I should read through my answers carefully... I did say something like that once, however, I do not recall how I said it but... if I said it a harsh tone and you have taken it the wrong way I sincerely apologyze. I meant to say Pagans do not necessarily worship Satan, however many people believe they do. I just wanted whomever asked that question to be aware of that... there is really nothing wrong with being aware of what others think. I did not try to disencourage Pagans... simply to point out an opinion. It probably was not my place to have done so.
I do not think that not believing in God is evil, and I am very sorry that you would interpret so. I think it is quite rude how you made such harsh conclusions about me in such a manner. I am being mature and I hope that you do not take ANY of this the wrong way or act immaturely upon it, I am simply expressing my opinions and thoughts, which are not necessarily true, perhaps I am misjudging you as well, but from the little that I do know about you, this is what I have to say. I really do not mean to judge you but I am left without a choice. You are the immature "prejudice" child. (At least you have acted like one the very instance you submitted those negative thoughts to me). Perhaps in some ways I am too... but you have pointed my faults without even taking anything I had to say in consideration first. And then you accuse me of horrible things.
And what if (this is a what-if, I really do not feel any hatred towards Pagans) I dislike Pagans and I think they are Satanists. That is my life. I did not post a question in the site... I was not asking for advice to my advice. I was offering advice. If you do not like it-DON'T READ IT. Do not focus on the ignorance of others but be positive and enforce your own life with ease. You are nobody (and neither am I) to judge someone else, much less to condemn that person. I have judged you, and that is another fault I shall add to my list.
Once again I do apologyze if my statement made you (or anybody else) unhappy. I did not mean to make it sound that way, I guess I will try to be more careful in how my words come out next time. (As for the what I wrote, I will look back to my advice and fix it.) I do appreciate you telling me this for it makes me aware of my faults, which I take full responsibility for. Still, I do wish that you consider what I have adviced you.
Take good care, and my best wishes! May you find the happiness you lack... that will fufill the gap in your soul... ~Blessed Be...


i still cant stop wat i look at on my computer, i have tried everything, but, i feel farther and farther away from god every time. Please help (link)
Hi Sweetie,
Block all the evil websites... OR analyze why you want to look at the evil websites and how it hurts God... guilt yourself out. Arrange yourself one last ten minutes to look at the evil websites and get that out of your system. Then rush to God and devote yourself to him until you have no desire of ever looking at the evil websites. Remember: the evil websites are filthy and are the Devil's way of luring you away from God, who loves you, and is hurt by you when you look at the evil websit3es :(
Happy holidays! ~Blessed Be...


Alright yall, i believe in God and that Jesus is the son of God. But i dont like church one bit, and i dont like the bible. I think i'm a good person, but i do also sin (obviously). And i have a wonderful relationship with God. So am i going to hell because i dont like church, and because i dont believe alot of what the Christians believe? Please help me out if you can. Thanks alot. (link)
Hi Sweetie,
How do I say this? There is no easy way to say it... I'll just say it. Yes you are going to hell.I was messing. No you are not going to hell. ...Still messing. Anyway, do you have any idea how those sentences sounded? Of course I do not know what fait awaits you in the after life! I know that there should be this book of rules that told you about these stuff, but there is not (no, the Bible is not that book). It all depends on YOUR and what YOU feel is right.
I personally do not agree with every single word in the Bible or religion... but I do not think it makes me a bad person. I'm happy with how I live my life. Maybe my neighbour thinks you have to do and live by EVERYTHING THE BIBLE SAYS. The turht is, we live by our own standards of what is right. If God would had wanted any other way... it would be that way. As long as what you do is right and you truely believe in God... I do not think you are gong to Hell. But.. that is just the way I think ;-)
My best wishes! ~Blessed Be...


I just recently moved out of my house and into my uncles house and he is a hardcore Christian man and believes that anything not christian is "of the devil", I myself am a follower of the old pagan type religions and he kind of found out and alwayz makes little jabs at me for not believing in god and tells me im going to hell and i dont know how to deal with it..if i tell him that i dont believe in god, he might kick me out of his house....what should i do...pretend not to believe what i do or tell him to stop? (link)
Hi Sweetie,
You don't believe in God? ...Okay... But do you worship Satan? If you are Pagan then he has even MORE reason to kick you out (I'm not agreeing with im, I'm just telling you the reality of what his points of view might be). Well neverless, it depends how strong you feel about your morals. If you feel stronger enough about being Pagan or if you feel stronger enough about NOT beliving in God then be honest. If you don't really care then tell him you moved in with him to observe why he is Christian. If you are strong about your morals and he kicks you out there are several places where you can find shelters.
My best wishes. Hope everything works for the best. ~Blessed Be...


I feel lately that I am a fake Christian. I say I believe in Jesus, God, etc., but I just am not very knowledgable about Christianity on the whole. All I know is, when I'm talking to God, or the few times I go to church, I am very happy, because I do know that God and Jesus love me. And my family - they all believe and everything, we're just not the most religious people, I guess. But I realize that we need to truly accept Jesus into our hearts in order to enter Heaven, and I don't even feel truly like I've done that yet. I've never brought it up with my family, but I really want all of us to get to know God and Jesus so that I can expect to meet them in Heaven, because this is kind of a priority. But how do I do this without basically saying, "Okay, here we go, we are going to believe in this whether you like it or not"? I know that sometimes people get kind of offended because they think I force my ideas about religion upon them... Sorry for the long question - I rate! (link)
Hi Sweetie,
I can relate it a bit... I don't feel a fake Catholic but I feel that ever since my crisis (although it ended) I'm not there yet. For a while I searched for a religion... I realized I DO want to be Catholic and I DO believe... but there's a step in between realizing it IS what I want to be and CONSIDERING MYSELF CATHOLIC. That's analyzing. I have to analyze the "what does it mean to me? What do I believe in? What do I not believe in? What matters to me?" Keep in mind everyone has a different idea of their religion. Two people can be of one religion and have slightly different ideas. Example: Two people can be Christian. One belives going to church every day and reading the Bible means Christinaity. The ohter believes that as long as you don't sin and you believe in God in your heart you are Christian.
Technically you ARE Christian because you DO believe in God. I'm Christian too... except I'm Catholic. (Or I will be once I get some religion meditating time.) Anyway, you have to decide what Christinianity means to YOU. About your family... bring God closer slowly. You can do this by asking your parents questions about God or telling them to tell you a Bible story or something. Ask them how they know they are Christians. Encourage them to go to church more often, maybe. Encourage prayer. Maybe you can all pray together before going to sleep.
I'm sorry I'm no help. I do send my best wishes. And may you find what you are looking for. ~Blessed Be...


my parents get mad at me whenever i say something about religion that doesnt agree with their views. they tell me im to young to have an opinion about that kind of stuff. and i do. and im not that good at communicating. so should i just tell them that i believe in god? even though i have doubts?

thanks. (link)
Hi Sweetie,
I had doubts too. See I was Catholic... thne I entered a dark period in my life and I my doubts were really great. Now... I try telling myself I'm catholic but... I feel I'm not. I'm... what's that word? Forgot. When you don't have a religion. I have to sit down and analyze things one of these days to remind myself why I want to be catholic. Anyway, its very easy to doubt. I cried one day in confession and I told the priest... he said it wasn't something bad... it's not, so you shouldn't feel bad for it. Your parents shouldn't make you feel bad either because this will only encourage your doubts. What they should do is talk to you so you'll know why not everything has an answer... and it'll make sense. Since your parents won't talk to you I suggest talking to someone very involved in religion, such as a priest. Don't argue with him just listen. After you've listened analyze religion... what it means to you... don't analyze why things are the way they are... it's too difficult.
May you find yourself and may you find happiness. Remember: G-d or no G-d do what you feel is the right ... be good to people. And um... its good to believe in G-d. Not because of the Bible or because your family believes in Him or because you believe but because it gives you faith and something to believe in... something to rely on and fall back on... ~Blessed Be...


i'm thinking about becoming wiccan. does anyone know of any good websites or books i can look at?

thank you in advance. :) (link)
Hi Sweetie,
I'm afraid I wasn't too happy about your sentence. ...You're thinking of becoming wiccan? Okay. ...You want to know of good websites annd books? ...What the hell for? For resources and information? No! You don't think of becoming Wiccan and THEN look up books and information. YOU LOOK THINGS UP FIRST AND THEN YOU HAVE BLOODY CHOICES AND THEN YOU MAKE YOUR FREAKEN MIND!
I'm rating your question a sad face. A VERY BLOODY SAD FACE!
...Best wishes, I guess... ~Blessed Be...




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