hey -

my mom and doctor have told me that you should go to the gynocologist when you turn 18, or you become sexually active. also, if you have a problem "down there", you may want to go to see what it is/fix it.

i have a mom and dad, but my advice on telling your dad would just by saying, "dad, i think i want to go to a female doctor." or something like that. if i was you i wouldnt want my dad like, coming in with me, although he probably wont try to. if he does you could just say in a nice way, "dad, i think i can handle this on my own :)" or instead of your dad take you, have a close older female take you like your aunt, cousin, friend's mom, etc.

good luckk =]

wet can mean like wet from water.. but i think your talking about the sexual wet.

when a girl gets horny, she gets "wet" in her vagina. i think it might be cum, or some kind of discharge, but it gets wet down there. if you get turned on/horny, you might get wet

first of all, don't put yourself down so much. if you're self-conscious, people notice that. if you think your unattractive, so will other people. if you're confident and think you're attractive, it will rub off on other people.

just because you wear glasses doesn't make you ugly. i know girls that guys like even though they have glasses. try to pick a pair that compliments your face and looks good on you, or get contacts if you hate your glasses and if your aloud.

if you want to loose weight, and you should do it for yourself, so you'll feel more confident, not to impress other people, just start eating better and exersizing. eat protein because it will keep you full for longer, and have 3 meals a day with a snack between lunch and dinner. try not to eat after 8 oclock pm. if you need more help on loosing weight, just drop one in my inbox.

if you want to, you could start wearing makeup. eyeliner, mascara, eyeshadow, foundation. you can find those at any make up store, department store, drug store and alot of other places. try going to a hairstylist and having them style or layer your hair. cut out a picture from a magazine or internet that you like and ask them to do something like that.

just because you havent had a boyfriend yet doesn't mean you're not attractive. if you want a boyfriend, talk to guys and be yourself.

no problem.. it really depends on your build, bone structure, age, maturity, things like that. it's hard for me to tell you since i don't know you, but any where between 90 - 129 is average i believe [i read this on a website]. i hope i helped you!

yeah you're allowed to, there is no law against that and they won't say anything about it at all - its against their "policy."

This is completley normal. When you first get your period, it is very irregular. A lot of times, when you first get it, it is very light (which is the brown marks & stains). Do not worry! You are completley normal

no i don't think the employees will care, think anything or even notice. 12 isn't an odd age to be buying deodorant. i know a lot of people that got their first deodorant when we were 9 or 10 (seriously.) most 12 year olds wear deodorant, so it will be fine. trust me.

Well, since thers such a difference between your family, it really could vary. i've heard that your boobs grow more AFTER you get your period, so your bra size could have nothing to do with it. however, do you shave your underarms? do you get discharge in your underwhere? things like that could be a sign of getting it sooner rather than later.

The moist stuff on your underwear is discharge. Most everyone gets it, and some girls get it more than others. You don't have to wear pads all the time. Try just panty liners - they're thinner.

it varies, but here is what me and my friends say.

1st - making out, kissing, frenching.
2nd - touching the girl's boobs.
3rd - giving a guy head, fingering the girl, oral sex.
4th [home] - sexual intercourse.

it depends though. some people have different definitions for it.

wash your face at the beginning & end of each day - with regular soap, proactiv, whatever. dont touch your face with your fingers alot because your fingers have grease on them and stuff. also, chocolate, soda, and other foods cause pimples so eat more healthy - fruits, veggies, etc.

yah, i know people with this problem. don't shave it because it will grow back darker & thicker like you said. you could try waxing it, [professionally or you could try Sally Hansen Spa Wax Kit. it was in Seventeen as a best product.] also, you could use a lotion that melts away hair, like Nair Cucumbre Melon Lotion for body [also in seventeen magazine]. you could also bleachh it.

Most people that I know that have tried it, it has worked really well on them. some of them used to have a lot of blemishes and now have really cleared up. however a lot of them still do have blemishes and stuff. for most people i know that have tried it, it didn't completley clear their face up! but it does make it a lot better.

popping a cherry, like said below, is loosing your virginity. it's called "popping the cherry" because when you first have sex, your hymen breaks [however, a lot of girls' hymen breaks before then because it can break when you put a tampon in, even just riding a bike.] and it may bleed a little bit; ie popping your cherry.

Be happy with who you are. dont compare yourself to your friends .. maybe they do have bigger boobs than you, but you probably have other features that are better than there's are.

if you really feel that uncomfortable, there are padded bathing suits & such. but you shouldn't because everybody is different and there's NOTHIGN to be embarassed about w/ your bra size. an A is fine, some people are just smaller or develop later, and you probably aren't the only one.

people shouldn't be so focused on your boobs, and i doubt they are. so dont worry about it. focus on things you like about yourself & you should be fine. (:

First of all, don't give in to peeer pressure or smoke. for your friend, since she has been your friend for so long you probably do not want to give her up. and you don't hvae to. try to help her to quit smoking. explain why its bad for her, how bad it is for her health, and everything. if she needs help, there are quitting tips & programs. or get a trusted adult to help you guys.

when she pressures you to smoke, tell her no & dont give in just because your her friend. smoking is really addictive, and even if oyu just smoke once or twice you can get addicted. and quitting is very, very difficult. its so bad for your health, and a big waste of money (think of what you could spend a year's supply of cigarettes on!). dont start.

no you cant. the only way to get a disease is from tampons (toxic shock syndrome)

a lot of people i know who have acne use Proactiv & they say it really helps.

http://proactiv.com/

goodluck

first of all, if you have recently gotten your period for the first time, it may just be irregular. but, if you've had it for a while, you shouldn't be too worried but the next time you see a doctor, bring it up with her and ask her what could be causing it & what you can do to stop it.

i know how you feel, a lot of people have a problem with slouching but you probably know that good posture is important for a lot of reasons. first, try to become more aware. if you are working on something and all of a sudden realize you are slouching, roll your shoulders back and try to sit up straght. try putting your back again the chair although that's hard when you're working. just try to become more aware. hope i helped

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