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For as long as I can remember, my aunt has always been an alcoholic. My family has stopped being in contact with her because she has caused many problems with my family in the past. There are days she will drink so much she'll pass out and other days she'll become extreamly violent. I never see her anymore and yet I'm worried about her. I'm more so worried about my 10 year old cousin (her daughter). My aunt has been on and off with drinking. Before I was born it was really bad. My mother told me that it was because she was in love with this guy but he was Chinese and his parent's didn't want him to marry a woman of another race so they had to end their relationship. That was nearly 30 years ago. I fear for my aunt. Although I do not have a close relationship with her, let alone any relationship with her at all, regardless she is family and I'm scared she is going to take things too far and hurt herself or someone else. I need to find her help. My mother and my other aunt have been trying to find places to take her but every place said that they needed more information about her problems. We really don't know at all why she is the way that she is. Her husband isn't any help at all. He just sits his fat ass on the couch with a beer in one hand and the TV remote in the other. Their house is a terrible mess and a person living on the streets would be too disgusted to even live there. They have a 10 almost 11 year old daughter and they do take care of her, and as a matter of fact, she's a spoiled brat. I'm still worried because the environment she is living in is in no way healthy for her. I don't know what to do. My family doesn't know what to do. I need to find her help but we can't find any place for her. Please, please, help. I apologize for the length of this question. (link)
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don't apoligize for the length. this is serious. your right, you need to find help. my suggestion would be go to her regular doctor. he might be able to find the best place for her and be able to provide the info...etc. hope i helped!
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I am going through a break up because my boyfriend just wants to give up on our relationship all of a sudden. Now this is a big deal because a child is involved. We have worked through everything for years and now all of a sudden when we have a family started he wants to run and give up? I am extremely hurt and I wish I could just be calm and move on with my life and say well, he's just stupid. But I am so angry and I just want to scream at him so bad but I know that could make things worse. How do I be a calm, cool, and collected person so that there is a chance that he may want to work through this? I don't want to be that angry girl with sarcastic comments comming out of my mouth every five minutes...it's really hard to control guys, I am so mad at him for giving up at the worst time. I wish I could do something as simple as smack some sense into him, but I know I can't. He doesn't understand that he's messing up a chance for our child to create family childhood memories and everything. How should I be throughout all of this? I really need advice I am so lost, I have crazy mixed emotions and my anger is so huge. Please please please help!! We can't afford couples counseling either. thanks. (link)
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if the love is gone.....then it might be for good. unless he's just scared of the commitment to a child. talk to him to make sure you know whats REALLY going on. and if he is scared of commitment after all, then seek some help from family and friends. maybe even a counselor. hope i helped!
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okay i cant handle this anymore. how do you deal with parents that are ALWAYS fighting? i mean they wont separate they talked about it but they wont and it's beginning to tick me off because they will be good one day and then the next you know it they are fighting and it sickens me! i cant handle it anymore i feel like punching them out. please help. THANKS! (link)
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you should probably talk to them about it. i went through that same situation, so i know how you feel. maybe have them talk to you about their issues and maybe you could help them out. hope i helped!
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well heres the deal, my parents have been divorced since a was like 3 (im 13 now). ive always lived with my mom and my dad lives over 300 miles away. i can only see my dad every-other weekend and i really don't like that. i miss my dad a lot when im not over there and im thinking about maybe moving over to his house. but i don't want to hurt my mom's feelings or leave all my friends here (but i don't think that making new friends will be a problem). ive also been having lots of problems with my mom lately...
what do you think i should do?
i'll rate high (link)
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talk to your parents. maybe you could see if you could see your dad a little bit more often. or maybe just switch schedules. ya know, live with your dad, see you mom every other weekend. and after thats figured out, i'd probably try to sort the problems out with your mom. hope i've helped!
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Well, My parents bicker and fight about things that they shouldn't. My dad is being a real prick and my step mom ends up in tears. It pisses me off why he has to be a real ass, but I am always told to "mind my own business" or to "shut-up". I get very stressed out and I hate it! It pisses me the F*** off and I have no say in anything that goes on. So, this is the part where you throw advice my way :-/ (link)
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your best bet would probably be to talk to a close family member, like an uncle, aunt or grandparent. they'll probably have more power over your parents. and maybe you could try and be there while your family member talks to them. then you might have a better chance of letting them know your feelings. hope i've helped!
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