i just turned 17 years old ill be off to college in about 6 to 7 months .im a nice person im a good communicater.i want to answer peoples advices mainly because ive been through some things in my life too and wished during those times that someone could have giving me some advices.i well take your advice serious, only if your serious too .
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Location: northbabylon new york
Age: 17
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A member of my family with schizophrenia has living with me for about a month. I have tried to help her but I am at my breaking point. (link)
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thats going to be very hard because other family members will be mad at you but you have to do whats best for you .i would speak to an elder in the family like a mother or an aunt first just to let them know that your not the bad guy here and then sit them down and tell them that things are not going as planned you would like them to leave be very sympathetic about it.wish you luck hoped i helped you.
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Hey guys I'm 14/f and I need a lot of help.
So I met this guy a while ago, let's call him Dan. I've hung out with him twice and my friend Sydney's house in a group, he goes to a different school thats kind of far away but we've been texting constantly ever since. Well, he asked me if he wanted me to come to his house on Friday. And I was like more than excited. But my mom isn't letting me!! She doesn't want me at a guys house alone. I keep explaining to her that the parents are going to be there but she won't listen. She only wants me to hang out with him in groups but that's a little hard considering I don't know his friends and Sydney is away for the weekend. Ugh, I know he's a good kid and I trust him more than ever but my mom is being so annoying =( I want to go so badly. I mentioned if it was okay if we went to the mall or movies or something but she still keep saying "No, Not alone, only in a group" I can't take it! I'm 14 for crying out loud! I'm going to be 15 soon! Ugh, please help how do I convince her? And what do I tell him? He's going to think I'm so lame if I tell him "Oh yeah I can't come over because my mom doesn't like me at guys houses" So please help me =( I can't take this. All my friends go to guy's houses alone all the time and all of them have guys over alone too. I keep telling her that but she just says she doesn't care. UGH. So please help with those two questions. Thanks! (link)
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your mom is right you can never trust someone all the way who knows he might just want sex so wait till your friend come back and try to convince your mom to let you go.just tell him you have plans for now and give him a date to when you guys can hang out if he really cares he wont like you less.
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im 14/f.okay so last sunday i gave my bf a bj. and we were texting last night and my parents were pissing me off and i told him and he was calling them names because he knows how mean they are to me. well mom took my phone away and read all the texts and the one about me giving him a bj and shes soo pissed. so on our way home we stop at his house and he had already told his mom what was going on and she said i was no longer allowed at his house because his mom lets us go up to his room alone, and thats wen i gave him the bj.
we were leaving and i could tell he had been crying, and ive never seen him cry in the 3 years ive known him. well he reached out to hug me and mom said no and told me to go he was like please but she woudlnt let me give him a hug.
then she kept my phone so now i cant talk to him or see him till monday!! and its thanksgiving and idk wat to do.
ive been crying all day and mom yells at me if i cry because she says im not hurt in any way. i tried telling her it was my life but she says its not my life till im 18 and i cant make the decision to do stuff like that now.
i dont know what to do about all of this...i need to talk to him it cant wait till monday. but ma wont let me and shes pissing me offf.
i dont know what to say to her, or what to tell my bf on monday...
she said he can still come over here, but if hes here we have to sit in the living room and he can like only put his arm around me no kissing or nething.
what can i say to her?
or to him on monday?? idk if hes mad at me or what, he'll probably blame himself even though its not all his fault...
what do i do?? (link)
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im 17 years old i know it probably sounds like im lecturing you i might even sound like your mom right know i have to say that i agree with her your really young to be giving guys bj's you might think its nothing now but you will regret it later your mom is only acting like that b/c shes trying to protect her daughter its b/c she cares she doesnt want you to end up with something or pregnant at 14 .boys will be boys they will say anthing or put on an act to get what they want but always listen to your mom even though you disagree with her.doesnt matter how long you've knowned him trust noone besides your family your lucky that your mom is even going to let you see him at all after what you did try to understand your moms point of view if you had a daughter and you fount out she was doing that at that age how would you react.good luck be good.
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I aboslutely cannot stand my family. My brother annoys the crap out of me and I always get really mad when he's around. And my Dad is just like him, but worse. My Mom and I get in fights every day about the stupidest things. I can never be around my brother and Dad for more than 5 minutes at a time or I get super annoyed or really pissed. They know what they're going is annoying me and pissing me off, but yet they just keep doing it. More and more. They make fun of me, gang up on me and do whatever else they think of to piss me off. I've honestly gone to the point today of breaking down and crying in my room for hours because of them. I just can't handle it anymore. I don't like them. At all. What should I doooo? (link)
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Ive been there sucks ..
My advice to you is to laugh at there jokes and make fun of yourself before they do act like they dont upset you walk around with your head up high.if there really starting to get to you dont give them the pleasure of seeing you mad laugh and walk away with your head up high. if that doesnt work have a serious talk with your mom and dad tell them what annoys you and how there affecting you goog luck.
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I have a bad problem with my temper- specifically towards my mom. She doesn't trust me because of some trouble I got into over a year ago. I've worked hard to stay squeaky clean since, but I understand why she could still have doubts.
Still, it drives me crazy. She asks me so many questions about my personal life that I get flustered and can't even think of the truth. When I ask her for my privacy, she gets angry. Eventually, we both end up very, very mad. We've tried talking it out but it hasn't worked- my dad tried helping and that failed too. I don't want to hate my mom, but at this point I get so annoyed with her endless questions and suspicions that I avoid all contact with her. What should I do? (link)
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well everybody experiences that cause i'm sure i did thats how parents are i dont want to lecture you but your going to realize that shes doing those things cause she cares.she wants to know if your going to make a mistake or if your in trouble so she can help you.i dont know how old you are but as you get older it should get better.as for now i would avoid any conversation with her till everybody cools off.always let her know everything is fine just say the word if you feel an arguement is coming leave or start doing something else to get your mind off of things cause yelling will not help only makes it worst and it makes you look guilty.best of luck
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My brother is 18 years old and works at the same place as i do. (I'm 16). Long story, very short, he and his friends easily steal money. My bosses have no clue, have no cameras, and are not very on the ball. I'm talking grand theft. He's stolen approximately 5,000 dollars I'd say. It's extremely horrible. I've SEEN him steal some money, and I've heard from a couple of his friends that he confides in tell me that he does this. My brother is basically a straight A, seemingly nice kid, and my parents are too stupid to piece together that he's a thief. He bought half of a 15, 000 dollar car, and my parents thought nothing of it. They were pleased with his "savings and hard work ethic". I work the same damn job as he does and I've saved up maybe 1500 dollars, if that. My grandma asked me how he got such a nice car, and I was THIS close from telling her about everything. I don't know what to do. (link)
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you should of told your grandma that was your chance your bro will go to jail if anybody finds out and someone will find out eventually, stop this before he gets caught tell a family mamber that you can trust grandma,mother,sis, someone do not let this go on.good luck
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my parents arer constantly lectruing me all the time which casues me to swear and be reallr yrude and then they wil go on even more and say how i dont apprieciate anything and my dad says he tells everyone what im like its really getting to me now are argue with my parents every day without fail i really cant stand it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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im going to guess that your a teenager i agree with you parents can be really annoying maybe there acting like that cause your growing up and maybe your not spending as much time with them anymore and they miss you.ill tell you one thing just be grateful that you have parents.im not trying to lecture you but if you want this to stop you have to really think about what causes the arguements just before they start dont say anything walk away and take a deep breath or try one of my skills look at them and act like your listening give them blank stares .try to work things out or else if you dont they might try to ground you or any form of way that you get punished.if your nice to them you can get your way much easier when you need them.good luck..
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