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i cannt stand my mother any more, she is fucking crazy. she randomly get all mad at me and screams and will fight with me, and im no person to just sit there and take it. a few examples, this morning i went to sit and watch tv in her room and she was flipping our sayin i dont want you in here get out! telling me to "go FU** my self" and if im in the bathroom, doing my makeup or either going to the bathroom she comes in like shes allowed when im in there! and she`ll yell at me and stuff and if i tell her to get out and like eggs me on and gets in my face saying like " you think your tough??" i hate her shes crazy.. and ya ive known shes been on drugs forever but shes never done anything, like last night at like 3:45 am she was friggen in the bathroom blowing her nose out like it was her friggen job. then after she yelled at me to get out of the bathroom this morning she was fine! she askked me to go away with her this weekend but now tonight shes being crazy
i hate her ,i cant even stand being here? what can i do she doesnt listen.. any ideas what drugs shes using (link)
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I don't know. I'd try to get either her or another family member to let you move out with forementioned family member.
Or tell any sane sdult you trust about her drug use and see if they can get you out.
I'm sure you love her very deep down.
Mabye she needs to go to rehab?
Hope it all works out...
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My friend heard something that she thought I said beacause this girl told her ex-boyfriend and she thought I said something bad about her, but I didn't say anything about her at all. How can I get her do understand that I didn't say it someone was just spreading rumors? (link)
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Tell her that You would never say something bad about her and it was all a dumb rumor.
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Alot of people smoke weed. Even my boyfriend used to but i made him quit. Even my parents do. For some reason i dont like weed. Ive never really tried it. But knowing my parents do it makes me think bad about them. It makes me think why do they do it but they are supposed to set a good example. Most of my friends do it too. I guess im just a good girl. But my boyfriend tries to convince me that theres nothing wrong with it. And i never agree and i dont think its right. Its a drug and im ashamed of everyone that does it. I dont know why though. Is there somthing wrong with me? anything will help! but please dont leave me rude comments.
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There is nothing wrong with you. If you don't wanna smoke pot then don't. You'll probably be healthier for it. But don't be ashamed because of others, life's too short.
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I hate to say this at this time of year, but in a nutshell my younger sister drives me nuts.
She is AWFUL to me. Well she is 23 and still lives at my moms house. She is actually house sitting while my mom and stepdad are on a 5 month holiday. She has always been spoiled. For instance I had to be on welfare and find my own appartment when she always got to stay with mom.
Well my sister is very self centered and has never once invited me over to the house since my mother left on holidays 2 months ago. I just phoned her and had a very unpleasant talk with her. I tried to be nice and told her I got her a xmas gift, she just said "Oh". Then she said "why havent you sent my a xmas card?" I told her that because I would be spending xmas day with her and our mother (when she got back from her trip), and that I only sent out cards to family and friends that lived out of town and that I couldnt see before xmas.
She started arguing with me and I told her she was stressing me out and she yelled "FINE! and hung up on me. The worst part is I know she will twist things around and tell my mother that it was all my fault about what happened in our converstation, and my mom always takes her side. What am I going to do? I'm dreading Xmas now. (link)
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Send a card saying that you had a nervous, stress-induced breakdown but you want them to have a happy christmas anyway. Then jet off to vegas or somewhere equally fun with your other lonely on x-mas friends, or go see some of those out-of-town buddies. Just because your sister is immature doesn't mean you can have fun over the holidays.
I think it was very rude of her to demand a card. The point of cards is to be all spontaneously nice and say "I'm thinking of you, and it's happy thinking" otherwise I'd have a job as a card-writer by now...
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My gramma just died a week ago, and my parents just told me yesterday that they are getting a divorce. All of this just seems like too much for me to handle. I have incredible faith in God .. so I pray to him ... but sometimes that doesnt seem like enough? How can I deal with this? I dont really wanna talk to my friends about it ... cus all their parents are still 2gether, what should i do? (link)
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talk to a priest? or a nun? or some other person you'd think understand.
or...
try blogging about it. you'll feel good about getting your emotions out, and you can help other people in similar situations out.
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My brother and I are both 17 and I'm a girl. Yes, we're twins.
A few days ago he asked my dad to buy him something for his car. I don't know what it's called but it doesn't really matter.
Well, I was standing right there when he was asking him and I told my dad not to get it for him because he had one before and it annoyed EVERYONE in my family. Specially me. And I was the reason he had to get rid of it before. We don't share a car or anything it just really annoyed me.
So, of course my dad said no. My brother then went to my mom to try to convince her. He did a great job with that and now she is on his side. But, she couldn't convince my dad.
After a while of bugging my dad about it, my dad gave in and said that if I said yes then he could get it. I thought about it for a while and said no. My brother then told me that he'd give me 50 bucks if I said yes. I thought about it some more and told him that I would say yes if he gave me 100 dollars. With a little bit of arguing we agreed that if he gave me 75 dollars I'd say yes.
And that is EXACTLY what we said--75 bucks IF I SAID YES.
So, I told my dad that I'd be okay if he got the part thing for him. He asked why and I told him about the 75 dollars.
With that, my dad and brother went to the car store (or whatever it's called) to get the part. They didn't find it. They then went to another place and still were not able to get it. After that my dad was tried so they came home.
When they got home I asked where it was and my brother said that everyone they went to was out. He then asked for his money back and I said no. The deal was that if I said yes then I'd get the money. How was I supposed to know they wouldn't have the part?
Well, we got into a big argument and then my dad told me to just give him his money back. I was really mad but I gave it back anyways. My dad then told my brother that since he did that to me, he couldn't get the thing for his car.
Now my brother is mad at me because he says it's my fault (okay dickhead, you're the one that went back on your word).
He's acting like the biggest baby and it's really annoying! How can i get him to just shut the hell up and get over himself?
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I belive you have the words already. Fuck being nice.
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this may take a while but please help
when i was younger i was sexually abused by my grandad (my mums dad), the i got sexually abused by my brothers friend then i lad i used to no tryed it on with me and he frightened me and i said not but he forced me to do things with him it did not used to bother me but now i cant stop thinking about it and it up sets me and when i was about 7 my mum nearly died of cancer i lost my auntie and my grandad ( my dads dad) through cancer my mum and dad have split up and now my other grandad (mums step dad) is having strokes everyweek and i think he is going to dye i am getting my life on track just got a new job and every thing but my past is getting in my way i cant even go out and have fun any more and i think i wil lose my job if i let this stuff get in my way what can i do to try stop thinking about this please help me. (link)
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Get therapy. Go to councilling. Being abused like that, especially that often, is really traumatic, and though it may not haunt you immediately, it will (like now?) everything'll be ok. Take up a hobby too, it relieves stress n stuff.
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I'm 14 years old and my mom will NOT let me get a thong. Almost all of my friends wear them except for me and I think my mom is being unfair by not letting me get one.. What should I do? (link)
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Well, first, just beacause all your friends wear them doesn't mean you have to, but if you really want to, you should discuss it with her in a civilised manner, no tears, no screaming, no whining. If that doesn't work, go to the mall without her and but them yourself.
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ok sorry if this is long..
my parents have been getting on my last nerves lattely. i am the oldest in my family and so i got to put up witht hemm ebing soo over protect.. it iasnt because they care to much it is that they dont want me to have a life.. i can almost never leave the house.. if i want to go somewhere with a friend tot he mall my mom has to talk to there parents and make sure they are coming with us.. my best friend from new jersay came to vist and i havent seen her for 2 years and we qwanted to go and hang out at her place and just talk but no my mom wont let me.. my mom is always yellina t me when i dont do anything to her. she tells me to do something i do it with no questions asked.. i have a boyfriend who i love sooo much and i have been going out with him for almost a month now and i have only seen him ONCE. i effin hate this i want to run away from all of this my parents dont let em do anything and when i talk on the phone or i am on the computer all they do is complain. they want me sittin downstairs with them and i dont want to listen to the crap they have to say.. then pn top of all of that my mom says,"your the one whoi is going to kill me" because she isnt supposed to yell and she always yllin at me when i dont do anything to her.. i cant wait to turn 18 and leave and have my own life.. that is 4 more years from now (i am 14) everytime i try talking to my parents they NEVER listen to what i have to say.. they think they r living 20 years ago where u get engaged and then married and your parents choice who you marry.. i dont know what to do.. last night i was mindin my owm bussiness in my room laying down writing poem my dad walks in yells at me terlls me to go to sleep and turns of my light. school doesnt start until 2 weeks and he already yellin at me.. can someone please help me out?? i want to run away for a couple days to my best friends house and teach my parents that if they dont want to listen to what i have to say then i wont listen to what they have to say..
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i am plannin to let me boyfriend come over and meet my parents btu they are raciest and my boyfriend is black (carmel color) and i dont know what there reaction will be even though my boyfriend will make a good impression on them.. (link)
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Well, it could be because they feel how close you are to leaving as well and want to spend as much time as possible with you before you take off. Try telling them that you're feeling smothered, but don't yell and rage at them. If you can show that you can discuss your feeling in a calm, adult manner, they may loosen up a bit. DO NOT run away, that'll just piss them off and make them keep you on an even shorter leash. On the boyfriend thing, that may be how they were raised, if so, it may be harder to change their mind, so I'm kinda stumped on that one.
If all else fails, consider calling child services and telling them that your parents are nuts. It probably won't works, but if nothing else helps, it might be worth a try...
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Hey everyone,
My sister n law is having a baby, and she just found out today that she's going to be having another boy! I was wondering if anyone could help me out, and suggest any boy names pretty much that you can think of. I already suggested about 45 names to my brother, and he hasn't liked any of them! He's the most picky person I know! I know alot of the common ones people use these days, so if you can try not to suggest some of those. Thank you so much in advance! I really appreciate it! I'll rate you a 5 if you try, cuz I'm a really nice person. :-)
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show them http://www.babynamesworld.com/ it has lots of different names and their origins/meanings.
Congratulations :)
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i like this one girl, and she's really sweet. we've made out a couple of times, but we don't have a serious relationship. my mom is threatening to disown me because of our relationship. not because we're both girls, but because she's also my sister's daughter. but i think that my mom is completely over-reacting, because i really like this girl. should i continue to see this girl and strengthen our relationship, or should i break it off so my mom loves me again? (link)
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hun, like many ppl have said, this is incest, not to mention that in a couple of years you'll be over age n she'll be underage, making even more illegal, break it off, niether of you want to go to jail, espicially for incest or pedophillia.
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Ok,I didn't know what category to put this question under, but I guess that doesn't really matter right now. My life is falling apart.
My parents are getting a divorce, because my older half sister and nephew (they're in rehab) are planning on moving in with us (she'd take my car and my room) and my mom doesn't want her to. My Dad feels it's his duty as her father. They'd already been having problems, and my mother's set of parents (my last set of grandparents) are dying, and she'd been really depressed lately. My mom decided the best way to get over it is to leave and go to Washington. None of us know exactly where.
So now, in since my Dad is in Michigan a lot, for his job, it is up to me to run a whole house-hold (cooking, cleaning, shopping, EVERYTHING!) and go to school. I have 4 little brothers and sisters (ages; 11, 8, 6 and 5)... On top of this, I have a job at a hospital, and am picked up by my uncle every day at 6:30 so I can work for two hours. I also realize that I'm very depressed, and have been ever since my ex dumped me two years ago. I can't seem to get over him, and if I even try to date anyone else, I always find some reason to dump them.. please help me.. somehow.. I know it's long.. I'm so sorry.. (link)
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honey, you gotta find a bright side, and something you really LOVE to do in your spare time, if you still live with parents, try to get them to help out. I know this is tough, but there's a light at the end of the tunnel!!!
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I'm 14, and a girl. We just found out that my grandpa had cancer about a month and a half ago. We knew something was wrong but we weren't sure what. It was too bad when we found out so the medicine didn't do anyghing. Hes slowly getting worse and can die any day now. My whole family is devestated and sometimes i just can't take the feeling i get inside. =( My boyfriends grandma had an anurism and then 3 strokes, and now she's dying too, and it's going to happen the same way (go into a comma and stop breathing) and around the same time. We live in jersey but his grandmas in florida so he just went down there. I don't have him with me when i need him most and im just really upset. My cousin on my other side of the family doesn't care about anything that's happening to me, and he's hated me for the past 9 monthes because im going out with his friend! He won't even talk to me now, and he even has my step-sister on his side. I'm just really upset and i don't know what to do. Sometimes i just break down and cry which sort of helps, but is there anything else? Please help me, Im soo upset! Thank you (link)
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That really sucks, try to talk this out with your sister, tell your cousin to grow up (he's way wrong to hate you over your BF), keep up hope though, if everything's happening now, what could possibly happen later?
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