Hello. Im asking advice today for a stupid little problem i have, but im not sure if there is any way i could control it. If im in school, or with my friends, or whatever (by the way im 14), when they mention "mom" or "dad", or "family", my eyes start to water and i just about cry. Not the "WAA-WAA" kind, it is just the red face, tears coming down and stuff, no squeaking or any of that crazy stuff. I cant say anything about parents or anything. When i talk about my family when someone asks, my voice gets shaky and i choke, and it makes me very uncomfortable because crying in front of the class isnt really a fun interest. I cry because my family has...problems. I just feel like i want either them or me to die. I feel like i hate them so much. Its not some "im mad at them because they took away my cell phone" kind of thing. Its more of a love issue. Im seeing a therapist but that is not working, she's not changing them. Well, in a nutshell, whenever someone talks about their parents, and when i talk about mine, i cry. Umm, i hope someone can help me with this, if its possible. Thank you.
Maybe you need to spend time with them!And maybe you will feel more comforteable about you talking to your friends about it! i hoped i helped!!
~ Andi
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hey andi uh me and my dad are havin trouble with each other....he thinks i have an attitude problem and i dont think i do.....my parents are divorced and he said i can leave his house if i want to be with my mom more....i dunno what to do...he wont ever let me have spend the nights with my friends and he cusses me out a lot....i dunno how to make our relationship better....can u help??
Well umm.. sometimes i have an attiutde problem and i don't know if i have it! Plus ur dad might be going through a tough time! like work or the divorce that is probly y those things happen. And i feel very concerd about the caussing. he does that because he can't find a way to express his feelings. do smothin fun like: bowling, movies, have dinner w/him, or smothin else like that.
love,
andi :)
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My family came over my house for while because i haven't seen them in a while and i asked my mom if i could go see my friend and she said no so i went into my room and watched t.v. After they left she got mad at me and told me i couldn't go to my friends bday party....wat do i do to convince her i have to go..?
well say "mom i don't know what i did wrong and i am soo sorry if i did smothin wrong and if offended u in some way" and then she might let u go! it has happend to me before!!
rate me plzz!!
love,
andi
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when i was in 4th grade my dad came to my school and told me he was leaving forever. My dad is a very abusive person and threatend a lot of stuff on my family. Its been 5 years and hes back. My mom is afraid she wont meet any guys again. So my dad is living at my house and he yells at me a lot when my moms not home. Im scared of him bcuz he might still be abusive. My mom doesnt understand and i dotn know what to do. i get in a fight with him every day. Please help.
well u need to tell ur mom that ur frekin serious and if she doesn't belivie u than go and tell ur grandma or unclr or aunt or someone okay?
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I'm a 15 year old with a little sister who's 14. We are not allowed to date and outr parents are pretty strict but they love us and just want the best for us. Anywayz lately my sis is rebelling(wearing revealing clothing, getting car rides from guys, etc) and i'm kind of worried about her, i just don't want her to get into trouble from rebelling or from my parents. Also next year i'll be able to drive and i'm expected to drive her but she's got plans to let her friends drive her to and from school and when i tell her it's not a good idea plus it's not fair that her rebelling may get me in trouble if she gets caught since she's supposed to be with me. She tells me that i can't tell her what to do. i don't know what to do can u give me some advice?
u need to tell ur sis that it is not right to show every thing that u got! and u need to ask her if she is goin through a rough time? that u need to help her! okay?
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