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hey this is my advice colum. My name is donna. i luv all of my friends there they are so great. and awesome to hang out wit. i dont have a bf rite now. you can ask me anything and i will answer as best as a can. i will answer anyhting. so ask away. lol

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Okay! im 14 and myQuestion is why do my parents let my brother have a boyfriend but not me?

umm i dont know but it could be because he is oldeR? or they might trust him more but i dont know why dont you ask your parents why they let him have a boyfriend and not you.... hope i helped xOxDONNA

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my dad is always really impatient and sometimes he hurts me but i dont know if it would be considered abusing me. the worst time was when he shoved me up the stairs and started smacking me screaming at me and then shoved me into my room and i hit the door..it was horrible. other times he squeezes my arm or twists it so i listen to him. so would this be considered abuse or not? if it is should i do something about it? thanks, i rate high!!!

umm i think it is kind of considered abuse i think you should talk to a conslor like your school concilor... well i hope i helped if you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox XoXDonna

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hello every1 well indeed2 is back once again, it has been a few months i am so sorry...well i cannot find the advice for myself...and i desperatly need it... this is how it goes!

okay so my parents got a divorce when i as six...i was young and vulnerable and had no idea what was going on...anyways my mom is now sueing my dad because she wants the money...her dad (my grandfather) hates my sister dad and me and wants us to suffer...he has munipulated my mothers mind, and now my mom (who her father was a judge!) won the court case...she even cheated on my father and my father still lost even though he was always faithful during their mirrage...also she is crazy...i dont hate her like my dad and my sister but im disappointed in her...my dad and sister want me to ignore dont accpet gifts from her for christmas...i am about to go crazi i cant stand it...my dad has to pay $40,000 we dont have that kind of money...my mom is a fake to me to, she says she loves me, when she told my sister that she didn't even want kids...my mother is immature! she told me she cant wait to see me this weeked, i told her i cant, she asked why, i said im not coming, then she turned it over on me and said i was taking signs...before i told her i wasnt coming until the maddness was over and she stopped sueing my dad....she said, "FINE!" and signed off...she was totally immature about it...atleast i was mature! what do i do im caught in the middle of something i didnt want to be in the first place!
♥ indeed2 ♥
quote: a child torn apart and still dreaming, is like a disaster becoming a miracle...

I think you need to talk to your mom and tell her that she is being immature about this whole thing and she needs to handle this like a grownup.... and also i think you should tell both your mother and father that you dont want to be in the middle of their arguments.... im parents got divorced when i was around six or so....so i know what your going through because my parents would put me in the middle of things like if one another was dating someone else or not....so just tell your parents what you think and they should realize what they are doing to you and your sister and then they should put a stop to it.... so if you have any questions just ask me or if you want you can talk to me on my screen name HaWt Pr3P XoX.... so i hope i helped ~XoXDoNnAXoX~!

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ok my dad does weed and i just know my mom does it too. and well they are always saying how much they hate people that do drugs and here they do it. well i hear that if your parents smoke and stuff well the kids are liable to start and well i smoke ciggaretts and my parents dont know about it. my point is will i start doing drugs since they do? an help will work thanks jennie

umm it depends if someone pressures you into doing drugs or you just want to try it because your paretns do it... i think you should stay away from them when they do it.... and i think you should stop smoking ciggaretts because it could end up leading into doing drugs... and you will definately have problems when you get older and you dont want to die young from smoking... so hope i hepled XoDoNnAxO

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Okay my dad is an alcoholic!! He has been all my life!! He drinks right before he comes home from work and he gets so waisted on the weekends!! I've dealt with this all my life!! HE has never been there for me and when he tries he's drunk and I don't want nothing to do with him. Sometimes I just wish him and my mom would get a divorce I think she would be a lot happier. My brothers have been doing drugs for the past 3 years so that doesn't help either but they are working on getting there life straight and they are trying. My dads not!! How do I get him to change? I know it would take a long time but he hasnt even shown progress and he hasnt even tried. I'm about to be 16 and those years with him are nothing...he has never been there and now its like I dont care and I will never be close to him!! What should I do?!?

H3Y UMM... ii THiiNK YOU SHOULD T3LL YOUR DAD HOW YOU F33L.AND iiT MiiT3 MAK3 HiiM STOP DRiiNKiiNG. BECAUSE iiF ii WER3 IN YOUR SITUATiiON ii WOULD T3LL HiiM HOW YOU F33L AND T3LL HiiM WHAT YOUR BROTHERS HAV3 B33N DOiiING B3CAUS3 H3 WAS N3VER TH3R3 FOR YOU GUYS. SO I HOP3 ii H3LP3D. &HEART; ~DONNA~

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