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Well I just found out that I may be pregnant again, I just had my second kid and then had my tubes tide and now he is only 6 months old I just had this gut feeling that I might be so I took a store bought test and it came back positive, so is there really anyway that I can get pregnant that fast after having a baby and my tubes tide?

It is possible to get pregnant after having a baby 6 months ago, It's possible at any time after another birth, really.

Now on the other hand, having a chance at getting pregnant after getting your tubes tied is a very slim to none chance.

I'd highly suggest getting tested by your doctor to make 100% sure. It would be the best solution. If it does come out positive, theres your chance to ask your Doctor professionally about what went wrong or any other questions you may have.

Good luck.

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Well, my sister is 16, and she's pregnant by her 20 year old boyfriend. I want to help her, I really do. She is about to turn 17 next month and she wants to move in with him. However, my mom told me that she wasn't going to let her and not to tell her that because she would get upset. So, I don't wanna upset her about it, so I am keeping my mouth shut.
I try to help her the best I can. If she wants something to drink, I'll get her something to drink, if she wants something to eat, I'll get her something to eat. However, it seems like whatever I do isn't good enough. She always complains that its too hot, or too cold, or she doesn't like it. She has the biggest mood swings ever. She cries constantly; when she's not crying she's screaming.
I just want to help her out so much. She's young and we have birth defect problems in our family. I want her pregnancy to go well. I just don't know how to help.

Signed,
Wants-To-Know

Well, i was a pregnant teenager at one time as well. Just give her time, shes just going through a stage. You may still help her like your still doing, which is a very great thing =) It's not like she doesn't know that your helping her out, she will thank you in the end. Mood-Swings are very normal during pregnancy, especially if shes only 16. You can help her by letting her know you've got her back for whatever happens, and tell her that your there for her. I promise she will be happy. Good luck, and take care!!

♥ KRiSTEN

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When my girlfriend had a baby she took off a couple weeks after the baby was born. So I've been taking care of her by myself. Well my girlfriend called me and said that she needed money and that she's coming to take Lisa, our baby, and not to fight her on it because she has the right as her mother. I don't know what to do. I still care about her but I think she might be doing drugs again and I don't feel like our baby will be safe with her. I'm afraid that she'll just leave her like she did before except this time I won't be there to take care of her. Does she have the right to take Lisa or can stop her from taking her? If I can stop her how can I do that without causing a lot of stress for the both of us?

Thank you in advance

Jack

Aww, sorry to hear that. If you believe shes taking drugs, you should call the police about that. And you should set something up in court that you can share the child, if you dont live with your girlfriend. You can't have her stop taking her, unless she isnt taking care of the child/or taking drugs or wtv.

♥ KRiSTEN

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My spouse and I have been trying to get pregent for about a year now and we have not been able to. Should we keep trying or should we se a speacilist? I was molested when I was a child could have something happen then to cause me not to be able to have children?

Aww im really sorry to hear its not working out for you. Sure, you could see a speacilist..but i am not too sure what they would tell you, and i dont think they could do anything. Adoption would be your best solution, although it is alot of money, its still worth thinking about.
Hope things work out,

♥ KRiSTEN

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Ok, I'm 17/f and I just had a baby. He's 3 weeks now and I'm having a hard time supporting him. His dad won't do anything. He says that he's not sure if it's even his which is a completely false because I gave my virginity to him. He said he won't pay a time until he knows that it's his so he wants a paternity test. So I arranged for the test and he never showed up. He gave me a bogus excuse but I said fine and scheduled another one. We've gone through this process 5 times and he still won't help me or even get the test done. I dropped out of school and I'm working 2 jobs to try and support him because I have no family to help me. My best friend has been an angel she's been taking him to the school and putting him in the day care center so that I can work. She's also been watching him after school for me. I've tried paying her but she refuses the money. She's only one that I have helping me. I need his help. I just don't have enough money. I don't want to put her in foster care because I grew up in different foster homes and I refuse to put her threw that. I think that things would be fine if I could just get him to pay even a little child support. How do I go about taking him to court for child support? Do I need to hire a lawyer for this or can I do it on my own? If he needs to have a paternity test done is there anyway that I can make sure that he will actually show up?? Please help me I'm really confused. I will rate 5's to anyone who tries.

Wow Sweetie, Im sorry to hear this. I had a similar problem (but i was 19). Your very blessed to have your bestfriend helping you out. Sure, if you can you could try taking this situation to court, but im not positive it will actually help. What you should actually do, is even go on wellfare. Yes, do not put your baby in a foster home, its really hard. If your boyfriend is not helping with the child support, that is still involves the court. Im sorry to hear hes not coming to the paternity test.. its probably because he knows your right, and just doesnt have the brains or heart to take care of the baby. ( just like my old boyfriend ). What you need to do, is the options i gave you. Always be blessed to know you brought a wonderful daughter in the world, and also be blessed your friend is helping you out. I hope things turn around for the better.

xO * KRiSTEN

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Does your child have to be a certain age to let them stay home alone for about 2-3 days? Just wondering because me and my husband's 25th year anniversary is comming up and I want to get out of town for a few days just the two of us. I was wondering if it is legal for me to allow my 14 year old to stay home alone for a few nights.

Yes. It is illegal for your 14 Year Old to stay home for a few nights, unless theres an 18 year old or older with him in the house, it is considered illegal. Maybe have he or she stay with a friend, or have maybe some of his realatives come over the house.

xO - KRiSTEN

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