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Q: do you consider ppl with dirty blonde hair as blondes or brunettes?? cuz ppl joke that i'm blonde when i say dumb things, but i really don't think i'm blonde!!!! lol

I think dirty blonde hair is still considered blonde even though it's slightly darker. I hope this helps.
Crystal

Q: what do yall think of the livestrong bracelets? everyone has them? do u have one?
thanx makayla

I don't have one but my little sister has one and I think they are just awesome. Everybody should get one.
Crystal

Q: Hey I'd just like to say to everyone that when people are asking a serious question do you have too be so sarcastic and tell them to kill themselfs?? This is a help sight not somthing to be rude about. Is there anyway people who say things like that can be stoped?

I completely agree with you. I'm not sure if there is a way to stop them but I would think that moderators would do something about it. These people definitely should be banned though.
Crystal

Q: Omfg I was just outside, and its raining really hard. I was just sitting out in the rain. Is there somthing wrong with that?????? Please tell me if there is a problem with liking rain..bcuz when somone saw me they fucking went crazyyyy. They were yelling get the fuck inside, and acting like i was going to kill myself!!!!!! I am sooo mad!! It was my fucking brother too. TEll Me the truth. IS it wrong to like the rain and go outside when its raining??? I mean this is the first time iv done it but everyone in my family acts like its sooo damn horrible!! plz help. They make mee feel so fucking stupid. like im crazy or somthing for doing that. My bro thoguth i was trying to get struck by lightning!!! AHHHHH is wut i did sooo wrong????

Well, honestly, I don't think there is anything wrong with liking and being in the rain. In fact, I love the rain and my husband loves to just be in it all the time. I mean, I can understand if there was a tornado coming, lol, but being in the rain is not bad. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: I was just wondering if there were people on here older then 20?

Yep, I'm 22. :-D
Crystal

Q: How long do u usually have to wear ur retainers for after u get ur braces off? thank u

Well, I'm sure that every doctor handles their patients differently but my orthodontist told me I have to wear my retainer for the rest of my life. He said that eventually once I get older I won't have to wear it as much but I have to wear it for the rest of my life. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: hi. im really skinny but recently i had a "growthspurt" and went up a bra size, so i have boobs a little bigger than girls with my frame and even girls who arent as thin.. now everyone thinks i stuff my bra.. its so annoying. i should just ignore it rite? thanx

You definitely should ignore it. I used to be teased when I was in school for the same thing. You just have to ignore it and eventually it will stop. They'll get sick of saying the same thing over and over. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: how can i check what people rated my answers?????????????????

You can check this by going to your advice column and at the top click view feedback. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: hi. im a model and im very thin. im about 5'6 and only 98 pounds (good matobolism, im not anerexic) and everyone thinks im anerexic, and i dont really care. the only thing is theres this fat girl who tortures me. shes ALWAYS calling me anerexic girl n anerexic n stuff. she even writes it on my stuff when im not looking. i no shes jealous but its so annoying!! what should i do! shes even threatening to come to my modeling shoots! :( ahh

I would totally ignore this really because it just means that she has low self esteem about herself. She is definitely jealous it sounds like. I know it's hard to ignore something like this but if it's too much to bear just try not to get around her or try to avoid her as much as possible. That's really the only thing you can do. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: i have this white stuff in my underwear.. what is it?! kthnxbye

It's just discharge so you have nothing to worry about. It just means that you will soon be starting your period. I hope this helps.
Crystal

Q: how to i make a fav. columnists list??

If you want to put somebody on your favorite columnists list then you just go to their advice column and on the right click on make fav. columnist. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: have u ever shoplifted something small and not gotten caught? jw
thanx

Actually, yes I have sort of shoplifted. It was when I was 11 or 12 so I was in the 7th grade. It was at school at the book fair in the library and I stole a book. hahaha! It was stupid but that's all I actually have done.
Crystal

Q: srry, this is a weird question but its bugging me.... it takes my hair 3 hours to air dry, and like 20 mins to blow dry... is this normal? cuz its realli annoying.. thanx

Yes, this is totally normal. It will definitely take you longer to air dry your hair than to blow dry. My hair is really thick and takes practically all day it seems to get it dry when I air dry it. :-) I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: i have really blonde hair... and im really ditzy so ppl constantly call me dumb blonde everywhere i go... its sooooo annoying. on an average skool day i get it like 25 times... no joke!! plz help.. what should i do

Well, I would ignore what everybody says. I mean, I'm a brunette and people call me a blonde all the time too because I'm ditzy myself but I just ignore it. That's really all you can do. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: i'm afraid of like all bugs, not like littlemoths, or butterflies or stuff, but of like spiders, and silverfish. I scream whenevr there are spiders in my shower, i have also refused to go in my bathroom because i have found more then 2 silverfish. am i obsessing?

No, you are not obsessing. This is actually quite normal. I've actually recently started becoming scared of spiders ever since there was this poisonous (brown recluse) spider at my work. Now, since then, every time I see a spider my hubby has to kill it for me. You have nothing to worry about as far as obsessing. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: Am I obsessive compulsive if i constantly have to crack my toes, or move my feet? also i have to put me teeth together in a weird way. I've tried to not crack my toes, but then it feels as if my legs are numb. i have to be able to move my toes in my socks and shoes, is this normal? please help!

Well, I think that it's normal for a lot of people actually. I constantly pop my knuckles and toes. I also always actually have to be moving in some sort of way whether it's my feet or something else so I don't think you have anything to worry about. I hope this helps.
Crystal

Q: when an embarrassing topic comes up, i can feel my face heat up and i'm sure it's really noticeable - is there anyway to prevent yourself from blushing?? i doubt it but i figured it doesn't hurt to ask

You know, I'm the same exact way. There really isn't a way to help this. What I do all the time, though, especially around people I know, is I tell them that that was really embarrassing. I just admit since my face already practically shows it. :-D I hope this helps.
Crystal

Q: well all year this girl has wanted to fight me but she never duz....she always called me a slut and everything well now she has my number and she calls me all the time bitching and threatning to beat my ass and i dont know what to do...i want to leave this town im just not happy here anymore plezz help me

It sounds like this girl is all talk if she wants to fight but doesn't. I would not worry about it at all. Also, about the girl calling, if you have caller id and you see it on the phone then don't pick up but maybe you should see if you can get the phone number changed too. Anyway, I wouldn't worry about this because it sounds like she isn't going to do anything but throw words at ya. Believe me, she'll get tired of it eventually and stop. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: whats a greyhound bus

A greyhound bus is a bus that takes you to different cities for a fee. Hope this helps! :-D
Crystal

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My name is Crystal and I'm 22. I live in Oregon. I'm married to a wonderful person. We have been married for 2 years. Some of the things I enjoy doing are spending time with my bestfriend, Christine and her fiance, Aj. I also love spending time with my husband, Brent. I love to go walking and go swimming and also love to read but talking is my main thing. If you need help with something I'm here for you. I would love to give you advice. Thanks for reading!! :-D

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