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Hey I'm Jodie. I'm pretty awesome at giving advice to everyone.
I dont beat around the bush though. I am blunt and sarcastic, and I'll tell you exactly what I think. Get used to it. If you rate me low, it doesn't break my heart.
I haven't had the best life. Its had its stressful times. But I use that to my advantage now. Its made me a wiser person.
I'm funny, and outgoing. I'm generally a pretty happy person. And I'll try my best to answer any question that you throw on the table.
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im hanging out with my boyfriend tomorow
i just got glasses (i normally wear contacts)
ive never worn them around him, and so we'll prob make out
so during it am i supposed to wear them or not
I used to wear contacts, but they mess my eyes up now, so I wear my glasses. Whenever me and my boyfriend start to kiss I leave them on, but if it gets really heated, I take them off, just because they get in the way of things...
my boyfriend has been acting weird. so i told him to tell me. and he said he saw the devil the other night. (we're both christians.)
then he told me this:
i saw him and he saw me and it scaire the life out of me then i went to the bathroom and i saw the same eyes that the devil had in my eyes and i dont know what the hell that mean and no one else dose eather and this isnt the first time this has happened
what exactly. am i supposed to do. he's acting weird and I want to help, but I don't quite understand either. someone please help.
1 word. Schizophrenia.
Also.. the devil isn't real. But Schizophrenic people see alot of imaginary things. Take him to the hospital and put him in counseling. That will help him, I really do know quite a bit about mental health.
This question doesn't even relate to the Rolling Stones, but you've seen their tops; they have the tongue!
My realy question is, can you roll your tongue?
I want to survey how many people can and can't. Answer this if you can or can not.
If you are an 'expert', can you tell me how? How long does it take?
I'm taking Spanish 1: Do you need to roll your tongue?
Thanks so much!
Anything will help; and you might get a points!
I can, but I couldnt before.
I just kinda looked in the mirror and kept trying until I did it lol. I dunno, I guess I just looked at it and tried to move different mucsles or something..
Meh..
And for the spanish..I have no idea..we dont even have spanish offered where I live.lol
where do birds go when they die as you would think they would be loads of dead ones on the ground?
Why would there be loads of dead birds on the ground? Its not like there is 1000 birds a day just dropping out of the sky.
But they usually just lay on the ground until some other animal eats them, or some sanitation person picks them up or something.
(But the sanitation people usually only pick up big things like moose and deer on the side of the road.)
Its just like every other animal..they get eaten by other birds and animals that are scavengers.
when you put conditioner on your hair do you put it all over your hair/head or just on the tips of your hair??
I, personally, put it all over my head.
I use it the same way as I use my shampoo.
It works fine for me.
Hi , can anyone help!!!!!! I am 17 years old. I have a problem in that I would like to become a Goth/Gothic/ but I am also thinking about going to college /wanting a career working with horses. But how is this possible? Can Goths get jobs working with horses? Can i work with horses and still be a Goth realistically?? PLEASE HELP!!!! it's just I desperately want to do both! It's just I have NEVER EVER in my life SEEN ANYONE who is a Goth/gothic who works in a stable yard. Also the hours working with horses are long....so how can i be a Goth in my spare time ..if I don't have much spare time? But I really want to do both...WHAT CAN I DO?? help!!!! Also I was also considering a career as an actress. I would quite like to go to college do study 'performing Arts' but again:.....can I be a Goth AND an actress...because I don't think I have EVER seen a Goth actress.Do you know of any famous actors/actresses who are also Goths/gothic/follow the gothic lifestyle??? What can I do?? I haven't decided whether I want to work with horses or go into performing Arts yet.....but whatever I do I would also like to become a Goth/gothic. Can I still become a Goth if i get a job as an actress or with horses??? Please can anyone out there offer me any advice???? PLEASE HELP!!!!! Do you know of any people who either work with horses or who are actors/actresses but who are also goths?? HELP? CAN I BECOME A GOTH AND WORK WITH HORSES/AS AN ACTRESS??? please be realistic.
I am from England
Jesus Christ.
Quit being so stereotypical
Comon now, how bout YOU be realistic.
If you want to be a goth, then just do it.
I dont know how people will react to you looking a certain way one day, and then completely different another day, I'm not gonna lie to you..
you WILL get teased and ridiculed lots.
Chances are that you will get tired of it and you will change your look again in 2 weeks to fit in some other idiotic clique.
14/f. i'm going into 9th grade, which at my school is still in middle school. now i have two questions:
1)is it easier to buy 1 large 3" binder for all five of my academic classes, or two colored 1.5" binders (one for my three morning classes and one for my two afternoon classes). i just need a first hand experience here. will two binders get too confusing?
2) i want to decorate the front of my binder(s). i'm going to get the type of binders that have that clear pocket on the front of the binder that you can slide a piece of paper into. i want to cut out things from magazines but i don't know what to cut out things that i won't like half way through the year. i thought of cutting out store names and things but i need more!
any input will help me A LOT!
I would definitly NOT cram all 5 acedemic classes into one binder. It will get too cluttered and it will be hard to fit everything in.
I would buy a 2" binder for every acedemic class.
You MIGHT get away with putting 2 subjects in one binder, but even that might get a bit cluttered.
Grade 9 is different then 7 and 8. Well at least I thought it did. I dont know where you are from but we had to take Provincial Achievement Tests at the end of the year, so if i was you, i would try to make the clutter down by separating all the classes.
Also, divide your binders up. Make one section for notes, one section for work, and one section for quizzes and tests. It makes it way easier when you go to study, because teachers often use the same test questions twice so keep all of your tests with you.
Hope this helps.
Hey im 15/f. And i think i have some sort of sleeping disorder. Because i dont usually get tired until about 3 or 4 in the morning. And i hate it because that only leaves me a couple hours of sleep. But when i do have time to sleep in i usually sleep in until like noon and dont wanna get up. I was wondering is there something wrong with me? I used to be able to fall asleep right away. But i just cant anymore. Please help!!
It sounds like your sleeping patterns are off.
If you stay up until 3 or 4 am, and sleep in until noon, you still have your regular 8 hours of sleep, its just that you woke up late, so its like the day is going by faster then you want it to. And then you dont get tired until later because you woke up so late. Its kind of a vicious circle.
Try going to bed earlier, try reading something. Turn off the tv at least a half hour before you try to sleep so your mind will settle down.
You could try taking a hot bath right before you go to sleep. It will calm you down and make you sleepy. You can buy bath salts that are like..aromatheropy too, and they say they will calm you down too.
Then you just try your hardest to sleep. Try listening to some music while you drift off.
I have a cousin who is 18 and she is obsessed with stephen coletti from laguna beach. it is really bad and scary and gross. she actually thinks in her messed up nut of a mind that she is gonna marry the guy. she bought like a really expensive gown/dress thing and always tells me how they are gonna name their kids peachy and cory. meanwhile i am sitting there thing of the best escape route out of that physcos house. she even has a pillow with his face on it and she actually masterbates with it and licks it and now their are wierd stains on it and everything! SCARY I KNOW... when she tells me all this stuff sometimes i just wanna sock her. her room is filled with pictures of him and she talks about how great his sex IS and all the dreams of making out with him. i have no idea what she means by "IS" she doesnt even know the poor man. she tries to make me dress up like him..so she can do "stuff" =\..FOR ME THAT WAS THE LAST STRAW. she actually cries when there are no autographs by him on ebay. i am scared for the guy if she ever meets him....does she need a boyfriend or a swift kick in the butt or SOMETHING? I AM DESPERATE AND GROWING SCARED OF HER. WHAT DO I DO? tell someone?..i think it may be serious...are other obsessed fans like this?.. help =[ 19/f
She needs professional help.
Tell her that you are very worried and this is NOT a normal thing. Get her help, she needs counciling.
im 13 and my sister is 9 and our next door neighbors have 2 sons (one is 6 ryan and one is 9 chris) my sister and chris are best friends and they do everything together and hes always at our house or shes always at his house. they cannot be seperated, ever. but the younger son (the 6 year old) who is the most whiny cry baby annoying kid in the whole world always has to tag along with chris. everytime chris comes to hang out with my sister,ryan has to come to. since hes 6 he has nothing in common with any of us and he always tries to play with my sister and chris. my mom hates ryan and wonders why he cant find a friend his own age to hang out with and she doesnt want to watch another kid because even though ryan is 6 he still cant walk right he always falls and he cries all the time and my mom doesnt want to put up with it. she sends ryan home but he wont leave and my mom tries to be nice and says "i have alot of things to do i cant watch 4 kids including my own so could you please go home" ryan just wont listen and if he does leave he just sits in OUR garage for 3 hours. of course his parents dont care, they just want whatever is easier for them so they send both of there kids to our house all the time. we dont mind chris since hes my sisters age but ryan is 3 years younger then them and 10 years younger then me so we cant entertain him no one has anything in common with him. today ryan rang our doorbell we knew it was him so we didnt answer but he rang our doorbell 9 times in a row so fast so my dad opens the door and says can you please not do that and ryan asks to come in the house my dad says no where leaving soon to do errands but ryan WOULD NOT leave. he kept begging to come in the house for 5 minutes and we kept saying no sorry and closed the door. then 2 seconds later he rang the door bell 20 more times. my mom told his mom and she just thought it was funny. my family has hinted in every way that we dont want ryan over our house because he doesnt leave and hes too young for us to watch and if you look away for a minute hes getting himself into trouble like running into a wall or falling down the stairs. we've even walked him over to the another boys house who was his age but he didnt want to play with him. how can we keep ryan from coming into our house even if the doors are locked he will just knock and ring the doorbell for an hour even in the pouring rain and if no one answers he starts screaming and crying so loud. his parents dont think anything is wrong. i want to say something to ryan to let him know that we dont want him over but i dont want to sound mean. how can i nicely tell him not to come over to play anymore??? its driving us insane
Sometimes you have to be harsh with people.
Talk to his parents. Be firm with them. And tell them that he is bothering you and your family to the point where you cant get things done. Bug the parents every time that there kid bugs you, and maybe after a while they will get the point.
Thats a toughie though. I would just not give up talking to the parents and try and explain to them why you dont want him over there.
some people say channing tatum is gay and some say he is straight so which 1 is it? I would like the people on this website's opinion and any true proof you have of why he is or not gay.i dont listen to magizines its bullsh*t so i want actual peoples opinons on the topic.
I dont know who that is, but I googled him.
He kind of looks familiar but honestly I cant say that I've ever seen him in movies.
No one knows anything for sure about celebrities. There are rumors everywhere about everyone so even if he is gay, people might not know the truth for months, perhaps years.
I used to work at Walmart, until yesterday when I got fired for stealing $50 out of the cash register, to buy a present for my boyfriend for his birthday.
I loved my job more then anything, like it didn't even feel like a job, just because I had so many friends there, and going there was actually fun. I have to pay them back the money & stuff, so I'm not worried about anything happening, because we've already discussed it.
But it's really hard to get over. My parents are so disapointed in me, because my mom told me when I started the job, "Never to steal, you'll ALWAYS get caught." Obviously I didn't listen to her advice, but I just don't know what to say to them anymore, I know it's going to take time. But what can I do to gain their trust back? I get good grades in school, I'm always doing good things for other people, this just happened to be something bad that occured and I got caught.
Please help, I'd really appreciate it.
16/female.
Thanks.
Your just lucky that you got away with only paying the money back. Why couldn't you use the money that you made to buy your boyfriend a present?
As for the parents thing, it will probably take a long time for your parents to trust you again...you STOLE MONEY.
Your just going to have to wait until they think you have matured enough to have their trust gained back. Theres nothing more to say, you should've thought about it more before you swiped the cash.
hI,I have a question. The thing is I really want to become a Goth. Only I have failed all my GCSEs in school. i only got a few G grades (apart from getting a C in English)
The thing I need to ask is: don't you have to be quite clever to be a Goth. They write poetry and draw/paint but I don't have a clue about any of these things so couldn't do them. Can I still become a Goth? If so how would I go about it?Or do you DEFINATELY have to write poetry/paint to be a Goth? Am i too thick? Will my lack of eduaction pose problems if I'm going to become a Goth?
Also I AM PANICKING SEVERELY OVER MY FUTURE/OPTIONS/EDUCATION but for a time I was thinking about working with horses. ONLY THINKING!!! i wanted to explore all my options.
was thinking of going to college to do Equine(horse) studies so that I could eventually get a Job with horses. Could I still be a Goth if I did this? If so then how? I haven't seen many Goths around stable yards.should I just be a Goth In my spare time?
Also I might not work with horses I might choose to do something else. What types of Jobs do/can Goths get? And would employers be put off employing them because they're Goths?
Can you provide me with any answers. PLEASE HELP!!!! I'm sorry if this is a really strange question by the way!!!!
I live in England by the way.
Woah. Don't overthink this "goth" image too much.
If you feel like dressing some way..then go for it! You dont have to fit the perfect goth stereotype!! If you feel like wearing all black..but hate writing poetry..still wear black!
Just do what you want, no ones going to stop you.
I dont think there are any goth laws that anyone has to follow haha.
And as for the career path..it seems like you are pretty young still..maybe 13 or 14? You have alot of time to think about this kind of stuff. Dont worry about it too much, but if you think you want to work with horses then thats great!
Chances are..in a couple years or even months you wont want to be goth anyways..its probably just a phase.
Just dont worry about it, dress however you want, and act however you want, and think about having any career that you want.
Hope this helps.
Good luck.
tomorrow im getting acrillic nails. but how much does it usually cost?
The other advicenators are right:
$20-$40..
but also..you have to think of getting them filled every month so they dont look bad. That costs extra money.
and colors and decals cost extra.
Well, I want to loose 20 pounds by November 11 2006. My plan is ;
Breakfast- special K cerial.
Lunch- school lunch. witch is GROSS. so I will just drink water.
When i get home from school. - special K cerial.
Dinner- whatever my mom cooks =[. [usally healthy tho.]
walk a mile everyday
150 crunches.
only drink water. & diett drinks.
Thanks. I have been trying to loose weight for a while now.
2 healthy snacks during the day.
I can't brinng my own lunch.
Thanks =]
Well. You are on the right track!
Let me tell you, if you think you can handle eating special K cereal 2 times a day...every day..you will go nuts!
I had gallstones, so my diet was MAJORLY restricted, and if I ate any fatty foods, I would have a horrible attack. I had to live on rice and chicken, yes, I did lose weight, but I got so tired of rice, chicken, and yes..special K.
You can switch up the cereal in the morning, or have toast with jelly on it.. I would stay away from the chocolatey cereals tho lol.
You need to eat lunch. I dont know why you cant bring your own lunch, but you cant skip a meal, its not healthy. So I would suck it up and just try and eat some cafeteria food, try to pick out the healthiest stuff.
Some other snacks you can eat are: crackers and cheese (try some rice crackers, they are low in fat and good) fruit, vegetables or anything else that is light and healthy.
I dont think you NEED to walk a mile everyday AND do 150 crunches. That sounds like alot of work, and you might get discouraged and quit all together.
I would do something like..20 crunches, in the morning and night..and just walk as much as you can. Or go swimming, shoot hoops, ride bikes, or just get any excersise you can get outside.
Basically, just put down the junk food and opt for something healthy..and drinking water is great.
You can have some junk food..sometimes..just eat it in moderation, and not all the time. Think of it as your award. Also, dont get so caught up in losing a bunch of weight. Dont worry, not many of us are in PERFECT shape. lol
Good luck.
I hope it helps!
P.S--> you can check the nutritional value on the back label of most anything. If something has lots of fat in it.. ex. 8 grams/ 1 chocolate bar..i wouldnt be having too many chocolate bars.
also..peanuts have lots of fat in them. they are also addictive!
hey i was wondering if this would be a good outfit for the first day of school.
this shirt : http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=463&itemID=45945&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
this skirt : http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90046&navroot=womens&productId=0315_1725
& these shoes : http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?c=vendors&s=girls/Etnies&id=28596
thanks xo
It looks good to me.
Some schools have pretty strict dress codes, so if you are following that you should be good for the day.
In my school, if you arent following the dress code, they will make you put on some ugly baggy clothes that they have at the school..and no one wants that, especially the first day of school. lol
What exactly does "crunk" mean?
I assume it means getting drunk, or high...but I am really not sure.
Guess I am getting old!
Like everyone else says.
It means crazy and drunk.
So when someone says LETS GET CRUNK
They mean..lets go get CRAZY DRUNK.
Also, there is a form of crunk dancing, where you basically dance crazy to usually hip hop or rap music.
Hope this helps
:-)
Hi. Um I have a problem with excess body hair. Mostly on my tummy and back. Is this normal for girls or not. Because most of my friends don't have any or their just too light to see. I'm armentian and I have dark brown hair and you can easily see mine. It's really embarrassing. Please help.
This is so common.
Most girls have hair on their stomach and back, but like you said, some lucky ones are so light colored that you cant even see it.
You can try waxing it, or perhaps you can try dying it lighter? But I would'nt do that myself.
Go to a salon and ask. Don't worry, they have had weirder places to wax/ dye.
In time you probably wont even care about it, because this is very common for lots of girls.