hi im jenny :)
i go to highschool && and im going to be a somphmore.
i love my friends more than anything &&
i have gone through alot these past couple of years.
my parents got divorced when i was 5 && my dad is homosexual.
i dont really get along with my family
&&
i have had really bad dating/relationship problems. so i know how most of you feel.
i have really learned alot and hope to learn more.
highschool is really what people say it is DRAMA.
people really do set out to hurt you and bring you down, but that's were i would really like to help. haha
so if you are having friend, family, or GUY problems just feel free to ask me anything.
i probably know how you feel and i hope i can help you. LOVEEE YOU :)
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E-mail: jjirovec10@stasaints.net
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Location: OP
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Age: 15
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Okay so for the past week i've been dating this guy. We havent hung out yet, weve only been texting, and talking on the phone. But he always sent me texts that were cute and made me smile. Starting this sunday, he was being very distant, and either responded with 2 words, or didnt respond at all, OR took 4 or 5 hours to respond. Hes been doing it for a long time now and i dont know whats up.
do you? (link)
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guys need to see you once in a while to stay interested. so i suggest hangingout.. it would be a real good idea, and this could definatley save your relationship.
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Me and my now ex, broke up yesterday, because he told me he was in love with another girl.. And that hes been seeing her for a week and a half now, but he said he didnt do anything to her, yet.. I still love him, even though he doesnt feel the same anymore.. We have been together for now 3years.. I dont know what happened.. I miss him badly.. I have been so depressed this past day. Its really upsetting seeing him with another girl.. I was so cut when he told me.. I had tears in my eyes.. I want to talk to him badly.. But i just cant face him right now.. Its too hard, and painful.. I want him, i need him, i love him.. I just dont know what i would do without him.. Cause we've been talking about having a family together, and getting married next year and stuff.. But then this girl showed up, and he fell in love with her. Just please help me, i dont know what to do anymore. He was my life, he was the reason why i woke up every morning, and he was the reason for my smiles. I just wish, he would understand.. But he doesn't.. (link)
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you know what you seem like a very strong girl. i am just like you..you get attached and then you get screwed over and feel like you have no reason to live. your mood and life depends on how the boy you love decides to treat you. you depend on others for your desicions and attitude. i am and have been like you so know you are not alone. honestly i don't know exactly the right thing totell you but i can try. you love this boy right? well first tell him how you feel..obviously everyone will tell you that, and it's good advice but your going to need to know soemthing more also. no matter what you can not let him see you fall, and what i mean by fall is do not show any sensitivity if he rejects you. because you need to know right now that everything happens for a reason and people are not in your life right now for a reason. you will find another love, no maybe not like him but you will find someone BETTER than him. but yes everyone has a breaking point so do not hold anything in let it all out. do not let yourself get engulfed in this situation this gives you a chance to mend old friendships and spend time with family. be optomistic this is a start of something new..something great. TRUST ME PLEASE. stay strong and have some faith girl.
ps. listen to music and read quotes sounds dumb but i always find comfort in it.
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ok so ive liked a guy for 3 years
just aske him if he liked me
he said no
thats not problem...
problem is weve been window painting there car
so same night he said he didnt like me
they come attack my car
i want to stop talkin to them
to get over this guy
but my friend thinks war and the guy says war now
im lost
i cant get over him if i keep talking to him
what do i do (link)
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girlll the best idea is to find another guy it will most likely make him jealous. there was this guy that i liked for two years and well i dated one of his bestfriends..and goshhh did that make him jealous haha but after i broke up with his friend he realized how much he liked me really and we are not together! so things can work out and jealousy is even sometimes the answer! haha
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okay there is this boy i KNOW i love. well we were going out then he broke up with me, but like i said i KNOW for a FACT that i love him. but he likes another girl. And all my friends are telling me i dont need him, but i do need him. he doesnt love me back and just every second of the day i think of him, and jsut want to be with him. but i know i cant. so what should i do, and my friends are also saying that i could get any guy. and a few boys have asked me out but i dont want them i want the one i love. so what do i do. i jsut cant get over him. he knows that i love him and he just doesnt care i guess.
so please help me .!! (link)
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alrightt
i was/still am in your same situation.
i am still in love with this guy and i know he does not love me back, to make it even worse he has a girlfriend and he lives across the street from me. its horrible, but honestly the thing that helped me is really to find a new guy! it truley does/and did help me. yeah i mean of course i still wonder what if and miss him all the time but its ways better than acting all depressed all the time and bugging ur friends about it, because really all your friends want is you to be happy. trust me girl just find a new guy or you could (if you dont think you could find a new guy) try to text/email/message him and tell him how you really feel maybe he will come around. theres always hope just dont worry about it and just live your life babe.
good luck and i hope everything works outt :)
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How much time does it usually take to get over a broken heart? Its been one and half months, two other guy's kisses later, and I still can't get my cheating ex out of my mind. Its getting mentally exhausting to trick myself not to think about him. (link)
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ohhh lord. i am/was in the same situation, so ur not alone. it has taken me 7 months and i am still not completley over it. all i can say is get a new boyfriend, because i can tell you that is defiantly the mistake i made (not getting a boyfriend when i could have.) It sucks when a guy cheats on you, its possibly the worst feeling ever, it takes time to heal. So one month is nothing girl just stay strong and try not to see him as much as possible. hope i was a little help ! :) goood luckk baby
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When a guy feels you up, does he actually go inside your bra or just on the outside? And if he goes on the inside...what if your nipples get hard? Is that like not supposed to happen? Will the guys be like um....eww
Thanks in advance =P (link)
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yeahhh they go inside, but if you do not want them to then just take there hand down. haha. and i mean i really do not think they will notice if ur nipple gets hard. DONT WORRY :)
justttt doooo itt..ha itss funnn girll..
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I've just broke up with my boyfriend and it's official it's over. I don't want him to get with another girl but obviously it's inevitable he will. I just can't stop thinking about his hands over a girl and him "doing things". I know I'm torturing myself and I feel so sick about it. I've tried keeping busy and even when I'm at work I imagine it. All I wanted was for him to care and love me and he went for no reason. I know he isn't worth it but that doesn't make love go. I know time will only do that but how do I control the girl thing? n e suggestions? (link)
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oh boy i have been in your same situation, so do not think you are alone girl. The best thing you can do is not hangout with him or be around him for a while until you are comfortable with him around OTHER girls. You also might consider a new guy? maybe. I mean it took me 8 months to get over this guy i dated for 2 years and he had a girlfriend that whole time, trust me i was pissed, but i eventually delt with it and got over it. It was very tough and believe me i had those times while i was working or something and all i would think about is him. well good luck and i hope i maybe helped a little !
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Soo did you get into a similar situation? (link)
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Who is this ??
sorry haaha ive answereed alot of questions today i dont know who this is
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Now i like this boy lets call him Ryan and I like another boy lets call him Jay. They are both my best guy friends.
Now ryan is often mean to me and my friends say it is because he likes me. But i think he is too mean to like me. Let me give you an example:
I walk into class greeted by a pencil in the gut that flew across the room from ryan. Then i sit at my desk only to find that ryan has changed his seating just to sit by me,again. Then as we start work on our computers he sits on the one next to me(because thats our seating arangement) and am bagered by rude and inconsiderate comments and questions. But only when he is ONLY around me. At lunch he doesn't really talk to me. Does he like Me?
Now Jay. He is soooo nice! he always cares what i say and has good things to say about everyone. He is soooo shy also. I am like the only one he talks to besides Ryan(who is his BFF) and my BFF Rachel. Now he always asks how my day is and complains about our teachers(like every 8th grader does) and i listen then do the same. He is so nice to me, and i wonder if he likes me too...
Now i am just asking if you think any of these guys like me and if I should go for one of them.
PLEASE HELP (link)
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yes they both like you but in different ways haha. but i would go for the shy guy personally because guys are always shy AT FIRST around the girl they like, i mean you never know he could get more comfortable around you and be more outgoing. But the ryan guy seems really rude and you really can not change an asshole. sorry. so personally i would go for the shy guy and try and make him louder! it could work you never know! good luck deciding and i hope i maybe helped!
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okay so i just started to hang out with this guy (we're not going out. i've only made out with him once) and im pretty sure he's more into me than i am to him. hes at the beach and he told me that the stars were really beautiful and they reminded him of me.
now as cute as that sounds, im really not into cheezy things like that. hes also in a band which might be a reason for this whole passionate thing.
how do i deal with this? do i tell him straight up he's too sensitive?
i mean we only talked a bit and he's kinda rushing things. help please! (link)
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hahah i know how you feel i used to date someone kinda like this and I HATE sensitive guys, i really do not know why but i just do haha. ok but what i did is we were talking on the phone and i asked him what things about a girl did he like and then he told me and then i go ok what DONT you like in a girl..and he told me. Then i told him what i like in a guy and wat I DIDNT LIKE in a guy. in the part were i told him about what i hated in guys, i told him i hated when guys say cheezy,sensitive things and well i think he got the point bc he stopped saying weird stuff like that. so i would try that and see if it works!
good luck and i hope i maybe helped!
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well I really like this kid and he asked me if I had one wish what would it be? and I honestly my wish would be to be with him :] but Idk if I should say that... it seems to forward.. Im like way sure he lieks me back... but idk.... should I tell him that I like him??? or would it mess it up? (link)
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girll just tell him you like him, i mean really go for it especially if he likes you back! Besides every relationship makes you smarter and stronger when it comes to dating! so i say tell him you like him and if he likes you back..then well..ITS PERFECT! haha
so i hope i maybe helped GOODDD LUCKK :)
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OK this is the situation i broke up with my bf we hadn't been going out long. This girl in my class had liked him all the time we had been going out and about 2 days after we broke up she asked him out (which is really lame!)He said yes and they are going out now should i be angry that it had been only 2 days since we had broken up or should i get over it?
Please help!!!
thanx (link)
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i mean ok i know EXACTLY how you feel.
you did break up with him first of all, but i feel you if your mad because personally i would be pissed off! so i think you should tell her that was really lame of her to do that 2 days after ( if your friends with her) if your not friends with her then as hard as it is even though you didnt date for long you just have got to let it go, because there are so many other guys that probably really like you and you probably dont even know it. but trust me i know how you feel girll.
good luck and i hope i maybe helped!
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first things first--15/m.
ok so like i said, im 15 and theres this girl(lets just call her bonqueesha lol) who is basically all over me, and shes really cute and all.. but shes only 13. see in my opinion i think it would be wrong/weird for us to hook up or go out or whatever, so what do all you advicenators think? (link)
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alrightt i was in the girl you like's situation. likee if you really like herr then i would go out or hook up with her or w/e your going to do. i mean i think you should kinda keep it on the down low for a while i mean only tell your bestfriends about her..so then you can hangout with her and your friends. but like dont tell you know like EVERYONE,because some ppl may think its a bit weird. so if you like her i would go for it but if not then i wouldnt. and then if you do end up dating quietly or however then later when she gets to be 14 or 15 it wont look as differentt! i hope that wasnt to confusing and that it helped
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ok well now Trevor (my ex bf) is being an ass.... but i love him alot.... we just broke up this morning and he ALREADY has a new gf!!! its really pissing me off! we r just friends but then just like an hour ago he said he still loves me but he loves his new gf too so its "hard" to choose between us..... should i just get over him or just wait 4 his answer on who he loves more? (link)
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i knoww how you feel..
but like idk who broke up with who.
but i think you should play really hard to get and then maybe he will want you back i mean i cant guarentee it will work but idk. if that doesnt work then tell him you really really still like hiim because you do not want him to get to serious with that other girl trust me! but just try not to get jealous i mean maybe you could even try and make HIM jealous ! :)
good luck and i hope maybe i helped
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Well i like this boy and he knows i do right,but when we tlak on msn he goes i know who you like i go who? who ? and he names another boys name and he knows i love him and i go you know i love then he says sureee do you know why ? (link)
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uhm well hes just trying to get you to say that you love him.
so mess with him and be lik no i dont like them i dont like anyone.
and then see what he says haa that will probably make him think a little !
hope that helped!
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If I wanted a boyfriend, but my parents wont let me, should I go about it the sneaky way and not tell them ? What would be the cons and pros to that if I did? I'm turning 14. (link)
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my opinion is to be sneaky bc thats what i do and it works most of the time for me.
i mean ok the good thing is you will have a boyfriend and you will be able experience realtionships, and you might date someone you rreally like, it could be a good experience and you could really learn alot.
the bad thing is if your parents do find out they might be mad for a little and not trust you or the guy you date and then you probably could NEVER date him.
but i would date if i were you or tell your parents you really want to ( they might listen ).
so i hope i helped. andd goood luck !
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im perty sure this question is probably asked alot but im just gonna ask 1more time! im 14(and a half lol) and hes 18.he gonna be a senior and im gonna be a freshman.i like him and he likes me.i wanna go with him but if i do he told me not to tell anybody cus it might be illegal!is it illegal to be with him?!? or is it only illegl if we participate in sexual acts?i just really dont want to get him in trouble if it is illegal! (link)
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in my opinion you should date him.
who cares and its not illegal unless you have SEX!
so keep it to other stuff until you turn 18.
you wont get him in trouble, but make sure your parents approve or dont find out haa
good luck
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oka i like my friend brother and well he just found out that i like him and well usaully i go over her house to hang out and stuff and this week im going over there but her brother is goin to be there and i dont know what to do.I mean he knows i like him and stuff and i just wanna know should i play it cool or what.(and by the way he his very flirtation).Or should i wait to see what he gonna do. please help! (link)
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ok i no exactly how you feel.
and the best thing to do is not let your friend know so play it cool AROUND HER..
but somehow get his number or w/e and text him and see if he likes you or on aim or w/e.
like wat you have to do is really play it cool like play hard to get and dont flirt back because then he will really want you and your friend will never know. but try that and see how it goes.
i hope that helped
emial me if you need more advice :)
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me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now, and things are great between us. but we tend to have awkward silences whenever we talk on the phone, and it's really annoying. it also makes me feel bad because it seems like he's bored when we're not talking. what are things i can talk to him about? we talk about basically everything, but i need specific things i can talk to him about.
thanks. (link)
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i know how you feel hahah
but ne ways just talk about..
hmm like your problems you know with your family or w/e guys like when you tell them your personal problems it makes them feel comfortable. or talk about music that you like and songs.
or talk about this sounds reallly really lame but about your future (like what you want to do for a living, and like your plans..its a good conversation starter.)
if you need anymore just email me.
hope this helpedd
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ok well i have a problem i have liked guy for almost 2 years and i cant get him out of my head...i cant to get over him i just dont know how.... all my friends have been telling me i need to but its not as easy as it looks and i feel they just dont get it. i am getting really annoyed with thm!!!!!!!pleze help me before i go crazzzzzyyyy!thanx (link)
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ok i kind of need some more information.
does he like you?
do you talk to him alot?
or whatt
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