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What should i do when me and my now ex just broke up yesterday ?
Me and my now ex, broke up yesterday, because he told me he was in love with another girl.. And that hes been seeing her for a week and a half now, but he said he didnt do anything to her, yet.. I still love him, even though he doesnt feel the same anymore.. We have been together for now 3years.. I dont know what happened.. I miss him badly.. I have been so depressed this past day. Its really upsetting seeing him with another girl.. I was so cut when he told me.. I had tears in my eyes.. I want to talk to him badly.. But i just cant face him right now.. Its too hard, and painful.. I want him, i need him, i love him.. I just dont know what i would do without him.. Cause we've been talking about having a family together, and getting married next year and stuff.. But then this girl showed up, and he fell in love with her. Just please help me, i dont know what to do anymore. He was my life, he was the reason why i woke up every morning, and he was the reason for my smiles. I just wish, he would understand.. But he doesn't..
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you know what you seem like a very strong girl. i am just like you..you get attached and then you get screwed over and feel like you have no reason to live. your mood and life depends on how the boy you love decides to treat you. you depend on others for your desicions and attitude. i am and have been like you so know you are not alone. honestly i don't know exactly the right thing totell you but i can try. you love this boy right? well first tell him how you feel..obviously everyone will tell you that, and it's good advice but your going to need to know soemthing more also. no matter what you can not let him see you fall, and what i mean by fall is do not show any sensitivity if he rejects you. because you need to know right now that everything happens for a reason and people are not in your life right now for a reason. you will find another love, no maybe not like him but you will find someone BETTER than him. but yes everyone has a breaking point so do not hold anything in let it all out. do not let yourself get engulfed in this situation this gives you a chance to mend old friendships and spend time with family. be optomistic this is a start of something new..something great. TRUST ME PLEASE. stay strong and have some faith girl.
ps. listen to music and read quotes sounds dumb but i always find comfort in it.
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