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Hey, I am 16 and I am pretty good at advice. My friends say I am pretty good. I love to help people out in every situation.
I play basketball and tennis and I go to a catholic school in Mass.
If you have any questions, DO NOT be afriad to ask.

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theres this guy that ive liked for a while now. and he did something in the past that hurt me really bad and out of the blue he calls me and i feel like im being a push over and taking him back. all my friends say not to take him back but its like i cant. how can i not be a 'push-over'?

Well I can relate. This happened to a guy (who is now my boyfriend) that I liked way back in March. I had basketball, work, drivers ed, and school that I had to deal with so i NEVER got a day off. Him and I could only see each other at work and we never had the chance to get together.
I end up going away for April vacation and come back to find that he got a girlfriend while I was away. A few months go by and I still really like him although he totally went behind my back and betrayed me. I gave him a second chance because everyone deserves a second chance. Everyone makes mistakes. He has never hurt me since then nor will he and I think giving him a second chance was totally worth it.
Its up to you whether or not you would like to give him a second chance. Ive also been called a push-over for giving him a second chance since I was hurt by what he did. Theres nothing you can do to change the past though.
Hope I somewhat helped!
Steph

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Okay last night I kissed this guy and obviously I wasnt that bad because he wants to again but at the same time I am really self concious about it. What would you say makes up a good kisser?

go to www.myjellybean.com
then go to flirting guide

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how do i get over a guy and like someone new with the old guy still being my friend¿

Actually, I am trying to figure out the same. I've liked this guy for quite a few months. He liked me back and still does but only a little bit and he has a girlfriend.
A way to like a new guy is to hang out with your guyfriends or even meet new guys within them. Ask them to get together more and you just might see some traits in them that you haven't seen before=)
Hope all goes well,
Any more questions, send it to my inbox.
Steph

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whats sometime really cute you can say to a guy you like
not sometime cheezy
but just cute
that will make him smile
and fall for you even more?

Just flirt with him more. Like when he says something funny or cute, say something flirty like ohh you're too cute=)

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how do i show this guy that i like from school that i like him but i wont ask him out..at least not just yet. how can i at least lead him on that i like him...but the thing is that i think he likes me back well thats what lots of people think..but i need ways to flirt with him and show that i really do like him....thanks alot [ :

check this website out,
you'll love it=)

www.myjellybean.com

On that website, It gives you ways to flirt with guys. Like the basic ways and the intermediate ways=)
hope I helped=-)

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ok so my boyfriend an i have been going out for about a yr and a half but on and off... we are going out for the 4th time now for like 3 months and well his friend told me that he said that he sometimes doesnt like me at all and then at other times he likes me alot... i know im going to like ask him about it and all but im just really confused on what i should do.. any advice is appreciated thanks..oh im 15/f by the way

I can kind of relate to your relationship with your boyfriend so I can say I am in the same position only the guy that I am talking about is a friend but he has a girlfriend.
It annoys me also that he likes me somedays and it shows then other days he ignores me completly. I don't know how to deal with it so I really don't know what to tell you.
But just confront your boyfriend about it.
Tell him that someone brought it up and you are concerned about it.
Hope all goes well!

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OK so theres this boy..my best friend actually.Well i really really really like him(i missed like thousands of reallys btw)..and he says he likes me too and that im the love of his life.but he has a gf.What should I do?..I REALLY LIKE HIM IM GETTING CRAZY...and im 99% i means it when he says he like me too.please help!

I think you should ask him what is going on with his girlfriend and why he is dating her if he feels so strongly about you. The only way to find out is to tell him how you feel exactly and ask him how he feels about you and his girlfriend.
Hope all goes well!
Steph

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So, I have been going out with this guy, for a little over three weeks. He told me that he can't see us in the long-term having a relationship because I'm an atheist and he's a catholic. Like, when we get married - everything will just be screwed up. He said he still wants to be friends with benefits, the thing is. I can't understand why he would want to be that, you know?

What would you do?

Wow, that is a really strange situation.
Maybe he's racist? Or he just doesn't care for those who are atheist.
Even if you do really want to go out with him for a long term relationship, don't go so far as to change your beliefs just to make the guy happy because then you're lying to yourself and thats not right. Just simply ask him why he doesn't like the idea of you being atheist.
Thats basically the only way you will find out the real answer.

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ok
so i talked to this guy on myspace
and he seems really nice
well he is
and hes really beutiful
and he goes to my school
but hes downstairs
and im upstairs
or whatever
but i like never see him
and i dont know what to do
i have seen him once because he has my lunch
and we like eachother
but im to afraid to talk to him because hes so gorgeous and popular
but hangs out with the preps
and im scared of preps
PLEASE HELP
i rate 5 for trying

Wow. Im sorry but the way you say that you're scared of preps is stereotyping. They are people like you too. And thanks because I am a prep and theres nothing to be afriad of. Set up a day to have him sit with you and some friends at lunch or something.

yeah? well dont judge.

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Ok, There is this Boy that I like in My acting Class. and I think he likes me but I'm not sure.
Like I catch him starring at me alot and even when I look at him he is still staring but somtimes then he just looks away. Ok, and we talk alot. And he never arugued with me like he did with the other kids. Ok,
and This time I was smilling at him B/c we had 2 put on costums and I laughed he smiled too, what? he asked I said nothing, and he said what again, and I turned away and walked away laughing and he followed me kept saying what what what? laughing then my friends showd up and said "OMG (his name)!" he annoyed them I only laughed and he was wearing a hat so I pulled it over his face! was that flirting? does he like me? I dont even know what I am asking. so what?

Haha its alright hunn. I know what you mean and what you're trying to ask. I think you should tell him to name a couple of people that he likes. Tell him you will give him clues of who you like. And yes, what you did was flirting.

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ok... i have a boyfriend.. and we have been dating for like a year and a half.. he started to act a little funny around me.. and i found out that his parents are fighting and thinking about goin their on ways..

but there is this other guy that likes.. me.. and i kind of have feelings for him too....i dont know which one i should pick.. i think i should stay with my boyfriend but my feelings are all messed up... what do you think i should do??

Talk to this other guy that you think likes you. Find out the story with him and go from there. If he doesn't like you, I would suggest to get over him and stay with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend is acting wierd because the fighting between his parents is effecting him. If you do not like your boyfriend anymore, I don't think you should stay with him because then you're basically lying to him.
Hope I Helped!=)

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Here's the deal. Me and my Girlfriend have been going out for a year and she's now at a different school than me. We live a fair distance apart so we rarely see each other and we seem to be talking less and less.

And now when we see each other it seems the spark just isn't there. I think we should break up but i'm not sure how to tell her.

P.S. I'm a 14 year old male

Just tell her how you feel. Say something that you feel you arent seeing each other a lot and should stay freinds.

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For some reason everytime my ex boyfriend is around I make sure I'm all over my current boyfriend. Why is this??

It sounds like you still have feelings for your ex. This is normal if you want to see him get jealous.

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Im just afraid that i will lose him if i dont show that i care about him

Tell him how you feel. Well, my now ex boyfriend and I had the same problem. That wasn't why we broke up though...totally different story. Anyway, try hanging out with him more. Tell him things too, like talk to him a lot. Whether its on the phone, in person, or over IM.
Anymore questions, send them to my Inbox!

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I liked this guy alot but then he went for a different girl. When he went for that girl I went for a different guy. We both ended up going out with the other person. Then he broke up with the girl he was with. He told me that he liked me. I broke up with my bf for him but it was to late he ended up going otu with the other girl again!

I really want to be with him I like him with all my heart and I would do anything to be with him. What can I do or say to him! I really dont want anyone else just him. What can I do to get him back?

Tell this boy how you feel. Thats the only way he will know. Its easier to do it over IM or e-mail or something. Just let all of your feelings out.

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i really like this guy but im really shy so i dont know how i will get him to know with out actually telling him straight up. so what are some things i can do to flirt with him?

Does he have a screen name or email or something? you could ask him who he likes to name three people or give you clues. Then give him clues of who you like. Or you could ask him to go with you and some friends to the movies.
Some flirting tips would be on
www.myjellybean.com
then click on "Flirting"
Theres both basic and advanced tips there
hope I helped =)

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i just broke up with my boyfriend because one of his close friends told me many things he's been doing behind my back and my boyfriend called me to tell me he loves me and that's all not true, his voice was so sad.. how do i know which one's telling the truth?!! ! please i need help

Has your boyfriend lied to you before?
Has your close friend lied to you before?
Does your close friend like your boyfriend as more than a friend?

Answer those three questions and move on from there. If your close friend has lied to you before, shes lieing again. If your boyfriend has lied to you before, dump him.
If your close friend likes your boyfriend as more than a friend, she could be lieing to you and saying all this so you will break up with him and she has a chance.
Hope I helped =)

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oK so i need to get this guys attention and everything ive tried is not working i need some guys advice on some good flirting tips!! or girls whatever thanks!!

go to www.myjellybean.com
and click on flirting tips. They have basic and advanced
= )

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I'm a 13 year old boy and I don't have a girlfriend when mostly everyone does. I like some of the girls at my school do not think they like me as much as I like them. How do I get the girls to like me?
I'm in texas by the way.

You can't "Make" a girl like you. Be yourself. The time will come when you get a girlfriend. Flirt a lot with the one you like and show her you like her. You get get closer to girls by asking them to hang out and stuff.
Hope I helped =]

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I have crush on this really cute boy.I've heard rumors that he likes me and hes also told me himself.I want us to be together but I don't to sound like im rushing into things. What should I do?

You need to talk to him and tell him that you heard rumors. Be like "I heard so and so say that you like me, is it true?" He will answer and then you could say something like "Oh well I like you" Or you could tell him to give you clues of who he likes. Then give him clues.
Hope I helped = ]

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