theres this guy that ive liked for a while now. and he did something in the past that hurt me really bad and out of the blue he calls me and i feel like im being a push over and taking him back. all my friends say not to take him back but its like i cant. how can i not be a 'push-over'?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xstephh34x answered Saturday August 18 2007, 12:48 am: Well I can relate. This happened to a guy (who is now my boyfriend) that I liked way back in March. I had basketball, work, drivers ed, and school that I had to deal with so i NEVER got a day off. Him and I could only see each other at work and we never had the chance to get together.
I end up going away for April vacation and come back to find that he got a girlfriend while I was away. A few months go by and I still really like him although he totally went behind my back and betrayed me. I gave him a second chance because everyone deserves a second chance. Everyone makes mistakes. He has never hurt me since then nor will he and I think giving him a second chance was totally worth it.
Its up to you whether or not you would like to give him a second chance. Ive also been called a push-over for giving him a second chance since I was hurt by what he did. Theres nothing you can do to change the past though.
Hope I somewhat helped!
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