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Okay, so theres this guy that i really liked and then he asked me out so we're going out. Then there was this other guy that i really liked but then i kinda didnt and now i do and now all these guys are like asking me out and flirting with me and stuff..they dont know i have a boyfriend but yeah its annoying cuz they didnt when i didnt have a bf..why does this always happen that when i actually have a bf THEN the people i like start liking me or whatever..? ugh! (link)
Yeah they are jelous. Tell them you have aboyfriend b4 things start getting messy


i started liking this boy right after winterbreak. he started liking me too and we started hanging out alot. we went out for a little bit but then broke up. then he started liking one of my good friends. now he like sme again and im still crazy about him. i dont know what to do. i love him to death. (link)
Go out with him?


ok im gettin mixed signalz from a guy @ school like he has a girl friend but he flirtz with me constantly but when she'z around im invisible! what should i do? (link)
I think this guy is juss a starte out player. Maybe he is just a big flurt. Sometimes i am going out with a guy and i dont even notice when i am majorly flirting with some1 els. Talk to him


dude, iim flippn in love with this guy... hes 19, and im 13.. but hes rele hot.. he asked if i would do him but it just wasnt the right time..........and he said hi.... and i said hi and thats how it started. o yeah and he has a girlfriend.. but he doesnt like her so its ok. but all my friends tell me that i cant hang out with them if i do the hot guy while i still have a boyfriend... but i need a boyfriend at all times, its my mom`s rule. my mom had sex with my teacher and now things are rele akward... but ne ways. i like him.. should i dump my boyfriend? (link)
Okay.. well first of all.. he has a girlfriend.. and you have a boyfriend. If you two went out.. aint that rape? Cant you see that all he wants from you is sex? Dont be easy.. Stick with ur boyfriend you have now


all my friends have boyfriends and it sucks for me because while they are all making out i sit there being bored with nothing to do cuz when my girlfriends are with their bf's they dont talk to me. i doubt some of them even like their bfs.. they just dont wanna be left out.. it annoys me so bad how they stoop that low.. i dont like any guys and i dont need a boyfriend.. but my friends are ditching me and im having boring night after boring night.. what do i do (link)
you should really sit down and talk to them about it. Tell them you are not going to speak to them until you get them back as your friends and they stop making you feel left out!


One of my best guy friends asked me out the other day,John and i was thrilled. We have always been close, but i was to worried of asking him out. Well me and him have been doing great, exscept that one of my friend likes him. I knew that before but that was about 5 months ago, since then she has been saying that she likes someone new and she does'nt like John anymore. I'm wondering if i should break up because of my friend or not? Another reason Im wondering if I should break up with him is because I'm afriad that when we break up we wont talk to each other ever agian? Should I break up with him before we get to close? Please help...I dont want to hurt my friend because of him (link)
If your friend said she likes somebody els, then you should still date john. Sit down with your friend and make shure you are not hurting her feelings in any way. But to tell you the truth.. i went out with one of my close guy friends and when we broke up we ended up not speaking to eachother


What do you do when you absolutely love a guy and love doing everything with him except kissing him?! I don't really like kissing my boyfriend, it's kind of gross/boring..what should i do? (link)
Well if you really love him kick it up a notch, go one step further.. yah know


I've noticed that guys that like me *and vice-versa* are a lot older than me. I'm a Freshman in High School, and a lot of Seniors like me (including one guy who just graduated). I *would* go for any of those guys, but they're all over 18! Is it illegal to date a 18+ guy without having sex? (link)
Hmm.. im not shure if it's really illegal if you dont have sex. i went out with a 17 year old when i was 13 and i guess it's pretty normal. i dont like going out with guys younger than me. Maybe you should just keep it on the down-low if you do go out with someone older


So I havent had a boyfriend in a long time and i am thinking of giving up but im not sure what i shood do....Im not shy and im outgoing and most people would call me pretty but its like no guy ever asks me out or nething....they just see me as a piece of ass but i want to be seen as more then that....Please help...any suggestions would be great! (link)
You definatly shouldn't give up. You've got to prove to guys your more than a piece of ass. Dont put out. Hang around guys more and show them who you really are


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story..................
i'm fourteen in the eighth grade and he's a year older we met when i was going into sixth grade and he was going into seventh i rem. my friend wanted to go out with him and i thought he was ugly but after she dumped him i started to think he was cute so then i had a friend ask him out for me **cuz i was still immature girl** and so he said yes and we went out for about a month we broke up for a couple weeks went out for two broke up went back and so on and so fourth all together i'd say we went out about 7 times and now that i got my head on straight and were not going out anymore i realize how badly i miss him and i really wanna go out again i feel he's perfect for me we pretty much like a lot of the same things i told him i regret breaking up with him and if he'd give me another chance i would be more a girl friend instead of a friend whose a girl i'm just not sure how to get him to understand how much i Love HIM WHAT SHOULD I DO
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I have a friend like that too. Me and him went out and broke up like 4 times. Now that we're broken up.. i feel like i still love him..but he treats me like shit. Tell this guy how you feel and tell him you will be more of a girlfriend


im in 8th grade and me and my boyfried have been going out for a few months...but we dont rly talk on the phone.We talk ALOT in school but not on the phone and when we talk there is allways something to talk about..is this a bad thing that we dont rly talk on the phone?
help i rate!! (link)
If you guys have such great conversation in school and everything, then you don't need to be talking to him on the phone. But if you really wannah, then tell him to call you sometime or just call and ask him what you guys had for homework or something. Then maybe you guys will talk on the phone a lot more often :)
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Hello. :)
14/F ~ My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now, and the other night he came over. We sat around and talked for a little while, but then he started to pull moves on me... It's not the first time or anything.. we started to make out then he put his hands up my shirt and down my pants..then we started making out more.. then he pulled me on top of him and we made out more. Is it wrong for me to let him put his hands in those places? I'm just wondering so I can tlel him weather he can again or not. Thank you :) (link)
If you feel like you guys truly love eachother, and you will both be together for a long time, then it's perfectly fine. BUt if you dont feel comforatble with where he's putting his hands.. then tell him your not readii


I'm 13 and i have gone out with this boy i really liked him and he was my first boyfriend but he dump me and now i don't want to go out with anyone because i have losed my confidence and scared i'm going to be rejected (link)
Who cares if your rejected.. everybody gets rejected sometime! Dont be scared, and DONT loose confidence! dont worry about it..!


I've been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half. He cusses me out every once in a while for stupid reasons. But other days hes as sweet as can be. 3 of my friends say I should break up with him, but I love him a lot. Today, when school was out, he seen me and stayed like 50 feet from me and wouldn't even come over and talk to me. It's like he always trys to ignore me. It's just weird how he can be nice one day and an ass the next..whats wrong? Is it hom or me? What should I do? Should I listen to my friends? Or stay with him?? I really love this guy though!! 14/f/tn

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Just talk to him about it and tell him your not happi with what he's doing.. tell him if he doesn't stop, then your going to dump him. If he loves you enough he won't wannah sacrifice your relationship.. so he will stop..
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I met this guy back in September over the computer.He is from the same state as me and he lives pretty close too.I'm really in love with him,and he loves me too.He is the sweetest guy I've ever met.He treats me so right.Yet I get upset with him alot and we fight.He calls me every day and we talk online.The only thing I hate is that he has a girlfriend from another state who lives like 4 1/2 hours away and they never see each other.I'm always getting mad at him over that.He told me he wants to marry me in 2009.I don't know what I'm suppose to do.Should I get over the fact he has a girlfriend,and that I probably won't have a chance with him? Please help me,I'm not sure about what I should do.

I'd appreciate the help...Thank you! (link)
Having a relationship over the computer is verry hard to do. You should definatly talk to him about the girlfriend he already has. I dno if you met him already or what..but if you didn't..you should before you start talking about marrige!




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