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Helo,my name is Christine a.k.a Tina.I am 14 and in the 8th grade at Abington j.r high school.I have blond hair,blue eyes,and am 4 foot 11 inches.I like to dance,play softball,ice skate,listen to music,go to the mall,and chill with my friends.

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Ok so i am 7th grade 13 and I like an 8th grader. We aren't going out; yet. I really like him, my friend asked him he said he liked me too. Tomorrow we don't have school and it's supposed to be like 88°. Well he lives really close to me. He was like, what are you doing tomorrow, and I was like i'll be so bored. He says well, maybe if you can, you can come over and chill with me and austin (his friend). Then he said I have a pool and it's supposed to be hot so maybe we can all go swimmin'! I was like sounds awesome. Well I really want to go but i'm afraid what my mom will say if i ask her. She isn't home tomorrow she's at work and i WILL NOT sneak out. But i'm afraid she'll be like, i'm not letting you go over to a boys house you're to younge. WHAT DO I DO OR SAY OR DO about my mom.... i REALLY WANT TO GO!

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Warm up to her ya know help her do the dishes or make your bed.Then just lay it all down on the table say"Mom i want to go over my friends house and go swimming."If she asks who tell her one of your guy friends.I mean theirs no law that says you can't have friends that are guys.If she say no be like well when you were my age didn't you want to do stuff like this.Try to get her to relate to you put her in your position and maybe she'll see it your way.Hope I helped!!!!
~Tina~

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well in technology my friend and i were talking about our 'love life' and i was like"what if roger asked you out what would you say?" and shes like i would say heck yes. we dont know who he likes but i think its her and she thinks it me but i was like who would ever want to go out with me and shes like a lot of people would want to go out with you. and then i started laughing because i thought it was funny because i think some one was actually saying a compliment to me, and saying that some one would go out with me. which i dont think its true because people always talk about how pretty my older sister is and i dont think they refer to me. and in a way im kind of getting said. because i see how other girls my age and see how pretty they are and then look at me. i have no clue what to do? i know you might not know what im talking about, like what i should do. like i just dont know why guys wont go out with me,and yes i know your pretty in your own way but is it really true?

No matter what anyone says your bueatifull!For example I'm the fattest out of all my friends yet the guys pay just as much attention to me as they do the really really pretty ones.It all depends on your personality and your reaction to what people say.A lot of my friends who are the life of all partys aren't 1/2 as hott as some of the other ones there but people just get this positive vibe when there around them and thats why people like them.Honestly i mean if you went out with a hottie but he had no personality i bet you'd trade him in for a not so hott guy with a awsome personality.Make people want to be around you show them how much fun you are and they'll have no option but to except you and join in on the fun.And just because you don't have a b/f rite now dosen't mean anything!!I mean who knows maybe that o so special someone will tell you they have a crush on you some time soon, u nvr know!!So keep your head up and always walk around with a smile on your face and let people know your here and your someone worth getting to know!!
~TiNa~

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i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long!

A relationship is very important and can't be developed over night.And something as special as a first kiss may take even longer.Things happen as they should and thats the way it's meant to be.When you should have a boyfriend and get your first kiss is when it will happen and no sooner.But in the mean time live life to the fullest as if your gonna die tomorrow.Dance on tables,flirt with guys,and above all have FUN!!Hope I helped!!
~TiNa~

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every time i like some one and then they start to like me i dont' like them anymore... i dont know why but i think im afraid to fall in love because i went out with some one before and then he broke up with me and broke my heart and then thats when it all started.. i dont knwo if it's a case of really bad hard to get.. or i am scared.... i need help! :-(

I've delt with the same situation and it's very confusing.One minute this guy is the man of your dreams and the next he might as well be a frog!You have to realize that even though your heart was broken before dosen't mean it will happen again i mean before you find Mr.Right you will fall in and out of love 100's of times as well as have your heart broken and break a few hearts yourself.So don't be afraid to fall in love and give it another chance!Good Luck!!!
~Tina~

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i've liked this kid from a different town for like half a year but i didnt realize it until recently. he started acting really flirty and i started to like him more. and then i told him about a week ago. i havent really talked to him much since, he hasnt really been online. one of my friends says maybe his computer crashed or something, because he was really nice and wouldnt just avoid me but i dont know. any help?

He seems like a good guy!Listen if your thinking about starting a realtionship you have to be honest and let him know exactlly how you feel.I mean he's no mindreader no guy is or ever will be.Make an extra effort to be around him and he'll notice that and at least get the clue about how much u like him and he'll think WOW if this girl cares about me this much she must be worth at least talking too.

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me and my bf have this thing where like i dont talk to guys and he doesnt talk to girls. well he never looks at other girls and on tv if something comes on he just turns it off.he has rented a game and it had cartoon chicks on it wearing really skankie outfits he didnt play it he just took it back.. am i too controling? or does my opion just mean that much to him?

Well he's a guy and all guys need to look at girls i mean they like have to.You know?If he really is ur b/f then if he looks at girls it won't matter cuz he still cares about you!Let him know it's ok if he looks at girls but you don't want that to be all he tlks about!
~Hope I helped~

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Ok. So I'm a junior and I like this guy whos a senior. I have a sister whos a senior and she told this guy that I wanted him. The guy told my sister that I was fine as h*ll and asked why i never talk to him or ask him for his number. well that was 2 weeks ago nand then my sister told me this weekend that he said: why dosent your sister ever come and talk to me? well... i see him all the time and he never talks to me either.... so what sould i do? should i wait for him to talk 2 me? should i talk 2 him (i'm kinda shy around guys i like) or wHat? haha thanx!

Guys r stupid if u send them major messages that u want them they act all kool and wait 4 u 2 make a move!So be darin and tlk 2 him! HOPE I HELPED!!!

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Okay, I don't know if your any good at this but I've known this guy Mick since I was 5 pretty much (I'm 18 now), we have a good friendship and everything then his bro. comes and asks me if I would possibly go out with Mick, I told him yeah, so about a week later Mick and I were hanging out in my truck listening to music, and he asked me out and verything started going good till we went to a competition for band and he met this other chick from Dyer County named A.C. and she wouldn't leave us alone and about 3-4 days later we broke up but we're still friends and hangout out and everything, but the thing that bothers me is that one minute he'll act like he still likes me more than a friend (He still does, he told me himself) then he'll act like he hates me when his bro. Justin will stick us on the same shift to work for the ballgames, Justin's meaning to stick us together like that because he doesn't like the Dyer County chick either and she lives 2 hour away, he doesn't have a car or liscense and can only talk on the phone for about 15 min. at a time and I know so much about him and I'm one of the people that can get him to talk when he gets pissed. she's all into pot and she doesn't care how she looks and she's not good for him. Should I try and get back with him by looking all cute and irresistable around him because it drove him mad one night when I was joking around with some guys that are just friends that I would never do anything with. or what? please help me.
oh, I'm 18 and a white girl, and Mick's a 18 guy.
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Let me start off by sayin who gets guys!Now 2 ur question.I would tell how i felt and if that didn't work i'd just flirt wit him!HOPE I HELPED!!

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my boyfriend is awesome on the phone and stuff but then in person hes like distand he doesnt hold my hand, put his arm around me or anything like that...he hugs me when he says good bye and soemtimes kisses me ..i know hes not prude or anything like that because ive seen him with his ex girlfriends and i know hes not a virgin but i hate it like i hangout with my friends that are dating and theyre all over eachother and im lonely which is pretty sad when i have a bf what should i do

Tell him u need more attention.You no he luvs u but u need reminders every so ofen!(Every grl dose
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i am in love with a girl, she used to like me but she for some reason "stopped"...i found out recently that she snuck out with her friend and two guys and went somewhere and was making out with this guy for like 2 hours and i thought me and her had something, she said he was really nice and they just clicked and hes a sophomore at my school, although me and her "clicked" supposedly and i was nicer to her than any guy could ever imagine being to her...she told me not to be mad at her, hate her, or stop talking to her because that would be fucked up...please dont tell me to get over it and everything...ive tried and theres more to it but im sure youll get bored reading this long page...ill rate a 5 if you give me a helpful answer...WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!

Gettin ovr a crush is nvr easy!You must realize that people change.I'm sure u've changed as compared 2 last year to.As the grl goes i think you should tell her how u feel and if that doesn't work then i'm sure u can find an even better grl 2 have a crush on!!!!!!!HOPE I HELPED!!

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Alright, I'm a 13 year old female, in the 8th grade. There's this guy I really like... he's smart, gets way good grades (like the only guy I've liked who gets better grades, haha) athletic, nice, popular. I could go on, but let me get to the point. I've liked him for about 2 months now, and I keep thinking he likes me. I've heard 2 people say he does. So a few days ago, lots of my friends found out, since we were playing truth or dare, and everyone was like "Aww, how sweet you like so-and-so." And most of them seemed to think that he likes me too, but I'm not really sure anymore. Today at school one of my friends who found out totally wanted to tell him I liked him, and then I saw her go over and talk to him... She said that she had asked if he liked me, and he said yes. I was like, in a sarcastic way, right? But she said no that he was serious. I find that hard to believe though. So then she said he should ask me out and he's like, why, so I can face rejection again? And my friend was all, well maybe. Ugh I was sorta mad cuz she pretty much made it obvious I like him. I'm just wondering what I should do.. should I tell him I like him or what?!! I'm just worried that if I do he won't like me back and then things will be weird between us. And if he does like me, and we decide to go out.. well that worries me a little bit too because I heard that he's sort of perverted, he just doesn't show it as much as other guys. And the only thing I've ever done is hug guys. I'm willing to go as far as kissing/making out but I think my parents would freak if they found out. Arrgh.. please help! Sorry it's so long.

First i'd like to say having a crush is nvr an easy thing,trust me.But on to your question.Well in my opion you should ask one of your friends to ask him out for you.Your only young once and the worst that can happen is a rejection.But who nos he could say yes.As far as him being peverted all guys are but some can hide it better then others.And don't worry about how far u've gone with a guy ,of will go because when u feel comfortable u'll no and whateva u do won't matter.

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