every time i like some one and then they start to like me i dont' like them anymore... i dont know why but i think im afraid to fall in love because i went out with some one before and then he broke up with me and broke my heart and then thats when it all started.. i dont knwo if it's a case of really bad hard to get.. or i am scared.... i need help! :-(
IfIonlyhadaLIFE answered Thursday May 5 2005, 6:05 pm: I think you might be just scared. Theres really no reason to be scared, because if you find out they like you should go out and then you might not fall in love. Getting your heart broken is just one life experiance that has to happen and most of the time it NEVER happens twice. Never be afriad to try.
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xASH answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 9:03 pm: You have to start to trust that all guys won't try to break your heart. Take things slow with a guys and make sure that you really get to know him and that you trust him so that you won't have to be worried that he'll break your heart. But remember there will be heartbreaks in love you just have to learn you pick yourself up again and try again. [ xASH's advice column | Ask xASH A Question ]
Xo_Ashie_oX answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 9:19 pm: Awwww!! i have the same problem!! and mines bc of that!! this one guy from last year who i hate with a passion now broke my heart and stomped on it i fornt of the world!! and with time youll be able to get over him and stick with other guys... i kno its hard!! its gay!! but for right now look for a guy with the same sorta traits... intrests i guess u cna say and see how that works... otherwise u just gotta hang in for the ride!! hope i helped!! [ Xo_Ashie_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Ashie_oX A Question ]
xotinaxo answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 8:08 pm: I've delt with the same situation and it's very confusing.One minute this guy is the man of your dreams and the next he might as well be a frog!You have to realize that even though your heart was broken before dosen't mean it will happen again i mean before you find Mr.Right you will fall in and out of love 100's of times as well as have your heart broken and break a few hearts yourself.So don't be afraid to fall in love and give it another chance!Good Luck!!!
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Fontaine answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 6:17 pm: I think you might just be scared, and that is normal. Don't think of it as falling in love, dating is sopossed to be fun. You don't have to "fall in love" with every guy you date.
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