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Hey gorgeous ! im jenn! 15 yr. old grl from arizona ! ya its like the worst place to live.. but hey i get by! =) im really nice & understand and i love helping people with they're problems.. i always make people feel better if their down, cuz thats just the type of grl i am !=)
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yea well you see im really worried b/c today my boyfriend for about 1 month and a couple weeks IMs me and is all like do u think were moving too slow? and i asked him in what way and he was like well u know...so i asked him what he wants...but he didnt tell me yet. I like him and all but i dont feel ready to go farther than 2nd base with him... i know him pretty well but not well enough. I dont want to hear that i should just break up with him becasue its easier said than done... if i want to talk to him... break up with him... what are some ways i could do it?
PS if its helpful we havent gona to far... like weve hooked up and hes felt me up but thats pretty much it. hes tried to drop hints that he wants more i think.
hey hun! first of all he deffinatly has to respect you! another thing is communicating to eachother.. If he knows what he wants he should just tell you, and if you don`t want to do what he wants then just tell him im really sorry and i do like you alot but if u cant respect me enough to wait a little while or something then maybe its best we aren`t together- because this is something really important to me! i dont nessicarly think you 2 should break up.. just be more open with eachother & hopefully it works out & if not im really sorry.. but remember to speak ur mind =)
hope i helped !
There's this one guy who I am completely obsessed with. To be honest, I don't know why. This guy is very..confusing. Like, majority of the time he's real sweet, but then for like 1 week...he'll be the biggest asshole. And, I wish so bad that I could just leave him behind. But I can't, I always think about him, whether he treats me badly or not. What am I supposed to do?
hey hun!.. omgosh i know exactly what you mean and wut your going thru, just try not talking to him for a few weeks.. i.e. lyk 2-3 weeks.. it helped me alot and hopefully it'll help you out- and just hang out with ur girly friends alot n' do stupid stuff together and try to put him in the back of ur mind even tho its hard.. Guys can be major asshole's and when we need them the most there not usually there.. it sux.. and guys are very confusing!! * good luck tho!
ok well theres this kid that i like, but i ahve gone out with him and it hasnt worked be4... but he seems to be like INLOVE with me.. and i only like him a lil bit. i dont really wanna go back out with him cuz i dont wanna ruin our very close friendship but i also dont want him to think he needs to impress me.. bcuz i was kinda hoping to move on... what do i do?! and how do i move on :/ HELP PLEASEEE!!!
hey girl.. Just let him kno that in your opinion that age does kinda matter.. and you'd just maybe like to be friends.. and not be together or ne thing like that.. Hopefully he isnt physco but if hes caring or nice n' sweet he'll understand..
good luck with it-
xOx*jenn
all these guys like me and i dont know what to do because i dont like any of them.. PleAse HElP!
.. well the best thing to do is tell them the truth- let them kno ur not into them like that but ur flatterd that they like you.. HoPe I HeLpeD hun!
how do i get a girl 2 like me (and iv already told her i like her please help) and were both 14
* just be urself hun.. and try to be really sweeet to the girl- n' drop hints that you would more than likely like to be more than friends with her.. take it slow and see how her reaction comes.. * hope i helped good luck gettin the grl!*
Ok..I Like My BestFriends ex boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But this guy is truly AMAZING..but i dont want to risk losing my friendship..but hes awesome!! I dont know what to do.. Please help me!!
Signed,
Split in Two
hey hun.. well if you truly think he's amazing.. try seeing if ur friend will be upset if you and him ever got together.. ask her ?'s like so r you over .... and see wut her responce is.. but just remember grls r always guna be there 4 u unlike guys! * hope i helped *
Ok me and my ex boyfriend were going out for 4 months and we broke up and went back out the next month.. and he has changed alot.. in a good way and a bad way.. because he used to talk about other girls and everything with me but now he acts like he doesnt have time for me and he is always yelling at me .. but i really love him and i dont want to break up with him but i know i should because he treats me like crap.. i dont kno what to do.
* first of all hun.. If a boy treats you bad- then hes bad! Even if you love him i think ya'll shouldnt be together- if the guy isnt treating u right then he shouldnt be lucky enough to be with you- i say you should drop him until he changes for the better- and by the better i mean 4 you! : ) hope i helped
Okay, so I've been questioning my boyfriend and I's relationship because lately we have been fighting and argueing a whole bunch. Well, last night we got in a small fight and he told me I was a horrible girlfriend. I wasnt sure if I should break up with him because our 8 month anniversary is THIS Saturday :-/ I'm kinda depressed about it.. and I dont know if I have the guts to call it off. Any ideas on what to say to that jerk and how to feel bettter?
gurl you need to tell him dont say things he doesnt mean.. and yea if he's always bein a jerk to you then you should call it off- dont let him control you or ne thing. Feel better by letting all ur stress out by maybe writing all ur problems down on a paper- then ripping it up or something. or maybe talk 2 him about it that he was bein a jerk when he said that to you. * hope i helped*
We all know that love is a sweet but sad thing... Well me na this guy have dated 2 times before an it didnt work out because of the people around us always starting shit. Finally i realized to just not believe drama anymore and stick to me an him .. well hes in the army and right now hes just in training but hes been gone alot but we've been together for about 2 months but i love him ... Hes the sweetest sin you kno- He goes to iraq for a year in november and he told my best friend that more then likely were gonna breka up for that year and its hard cause i dont want us to break up ever i just cant see me without him for a whole year. I understand thats a long time to be with a guy but not actually with him so i gues shes right .. but do you think hes just saying that because he wants us to break up ? I dont kno what to do bout this guy anymore .. please i need someones advice
* i think you should talk to him about your feelings, tell him how you feel and if he still try's other things to break apart from you then maybe he does want you two to break up.. Your friend is probably right.. he should be consintrating on his work- and if thats really the truth then try to give him the year.. i kno it'll be hard but just go out alot with friends.. * i hope i helped * - rate me if u have time!
i have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me, everytime i call some girl will answer and she says hes not there and just hangs up the phone without me even getting to say ok or bye, i know its not his mom cuz i know her voice and he doesnt have any sisters, and i know that no family is visiting. what should i tell him??
yes gurl, you need to confront him and ask him what's up?!.. If you find him cheating you need to move on.. no guy should be doing that- and i totally think its wrong. If he gives sum lame excuse or something that it was his cousin- dont believe it... and if you kinda believe it then ask his mom if he was with sum1 else that day..don't seem like your finding out information tho.. But dont ever let a boi cheat on you! lol * hope i helped *~ rate me if u have time
* but to tell you the truth i think hes hiding sumthin from u.. so check it out!
Okay so I just walked in this store and this amazing guy stoped in front of me , we started to talk and I found out that he is only 16, and Im 15 , he asked me out on a date and I said I didn't really know , he toldme to think about it.
This Guy is totally Hot!!! , his name is Richard , should I give him a chance?/ Or should I tell him to go??? I just met this guy today.
PLZPLZPLZ HELP Jenipher ASAP
* give himmmm aaa CHANCE! haha.. age doesnt matter much- and if hes totally hott and seems nice n' everything GO FOR IT! * good luck hun *
HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way?
hey hun.. i think maybe he really ment the " he didn't wana ruin the friendship" because maybe he just needed some time to think of what it would be like actually being your boyfriend.. and im guessing maybe he thought about it and he thought maybe it would be kool.. something new. I think he might like you- but take this slow with him to see what he really feels.. Maybe try talking to him about the night at the dance and say " well that was nice of you kissing my hand.. what was that for " and if his responce is something like " it just seemed like something to do" then maybe he's afraid of being more than ur friend- Or if he says " it was for you " or something like that.. then maybe he does wana be with you. be careful what you say because he kinda seems uncomfortable saying things. You possibly do have a chance with him in H.S. I guarintee hes thinking about you.. And i would guess in a good way!! * i hope i helped!.. - rate me if u have time! thankx grl.. good luck with it!
ok im going out with this guy i really like him but i got a hickey my mom noticed so she dont like him and wont let me see him. ive talked to her a ton..i just dont kno what to do now. please help me!!
love ya
well hun i think you should talk to your mom and tell her how much he means to you- and tell her everybody deserves 2nd chances.. And then try asking her again to see him, but this time have him have a nice conversation with your mom- so maybe then your mom will trust the boy that he wont do it again.. and if it happens you know you can always rely on makeup most of the time! hehe.. Hope i helped a lil! * rate me if u hav time!
Hey KiSsEs.... Well the last advice you gave me before was SO helpful i thank you so much for what your doing! Helping people like the way you do is a talent and your talent was a gift from GOD! Keep up the good work and don't let anyone bring you down. Your a beautifull person inside and out and you should ALWAYS remember that.
!TiFfAnY! * Katy * 17
* aw that sweet!!
Me and my ex were together for 10 months and we loved eachother alot! Everything was great and we hung out everyday..recently he started to work alot and we drifted apart a litle bit. We'd only see eachother a few days a week. Well then it started to be like a week 1/2 without hearing from him so naturally I would track him down and ask what was up! He told me nothing and its just he's been "really busy" but hes going to find more time for me, blah blah blah blah. Next thing you know he shows up MY BIRTHDAY NIGHT at 2 a.m and of course stupid me drops my friends and goes with him!! Ugh Im so stupid. So we went to HIS buddies house,ended up having sex and he took me home the next afternoon. He kissed me told me he loved me and I never heard from him ever again! Its like he disappeared?! A couple weeks later he has another girlfriend!! And everytime I see him out on the town he acts as if NOTHING ever happened between us! Even if hes alone without his girl, he acts this way! Whats goin on? Im still deeply in love with him and I need some VERY GOOD advice. Please HELP
*Kris*
*omgosh hun.. im so sorry.. BUt ne ways i think maybe your bf was drunk or something.. us girls usually always leave our friends to go with our boyfriends.. so that normal but i mean thats soo incredibly messed up of him to do that. I think you should track down his lil new gf and tell her what happend and maybe she'll dump him.. then he might even come crawling back to you and you can reject him or something.. * i kno this isnt great advice but it might help * good luck!
My boyfriend recently told me I was acting alot different and not being myself. I can see why he says that because I have been thinking about taking a break with him and I have SO much on my mind.
Tonight on the phone he kept saying he loved me and he never wanted to lose me AND our 8 month anniversary is this Saturday. Should I wait to call it off between us until after this Saturday or what?
I REALLY NEED THE ADVICE!!
hey gurl- i think you should brake it off before-because if you do it after he'll think that you didnt want him to feel bad- but let him know that you dont wana go any further into the relationship and that you need time of not being with him.. hopefully that will help! good luck gurl!
ok, so thers this guy, his name is niles. he is really nice, sweet, HOT,and funny.well ill see him the first time since school ended at my friends house. he used to like me but now i think he likes my friend! me and my friend both like him but she doesn't wanna go out with him because of a christian thing and she knos i reeeaally like him. well i dont kno how to make him like me again! i think it wont be like reeeaally har since like not to be conceited but i always have guys start like me who r reeaaally close friends after only talkin to them for an hour and he also says im a reeeeaaally close friend to him and stuff! so how can i make him like me? my friends gonna tell him that i like him but i mean, guys do things to make girls them so how can i make this guy like me mooore?pleez help!p.s i wanna do it on the same day i see him
well gurl i think you should have a talk but only with you and him and try to sweeten up to him and sometime along the conversation ask him how he feels about you? and maybe you'll find out if he likes you alot- or only as a friend if so only as a friend keep talking to him more and more and hopefully he'll be interested! hope i can help!