15/f, i like this guy whos in 11th grade and hes on the track team with me. we're friends, and he always calls me his "bestest bud" and always hugs me when he sees me, and teases me, and well when im near him he always puts his arms around me, around my waist or shoulders. and when we are out like, eating at a restaurant with the team (team dinners) he always has me sit next to him, or just pays attention to me. well its obvious to you readers that i like him a little, it may just be a crush but hes sweet and hes nice and cares, we just talk and well i feel good when im with him. soo do you think he likes me, what should i do around him, because track season is almost over (this wed.) and we wont see eachother as much, maybe like 1 time a day for like 1 minute! soo i dont know what to do, hes just someone i want to stay in my life, even if its just as a friend! help, any advice??? I WILL RATE 5'S!!!!!!
if i were you, [ if you don't already get his sn. ask him to hangout .. catch a movie with a buncha friends even ppl from the track team ] just hangout with him and try to see how things go.
catch a movie, get together to go minigolfing or something. do it in a group so he feels more comfortable
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just broke up with my boyfriend
any advice on how to help me get over this? im still atached to him. :(
signed,
sweetheart00
Join activities.. Hang out with lots of friends.. occupy urself.. soo u never think about him.. then after a while it will just get easier to not think or be attached to him
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(I'm 14) I've been going out with "James" for 8 months, and at the beginning it was all great, except for his ex, Sarah, who, I know for a fact part of the reason he went out with her is because she's...She'll MAKE you go out with her, she has a way of making you, because she can't get anybody because of a bunch of reasons but she's a VERY nasty person (if u get what I mean) and not even pretty, or popular and just...horrible. She accused me of stealing him, and about a month later, came up with a note that he supposedly written to her, stating that he loved me, but still wanted to be friends with benefits with him, and also said that she could go over to his friends house and they could "have sex since i haven't had it in awhile" The second he saw it he ripped it up and nearly bit Sarah's head off, was the angriest I've ever seen him, and really upset since I refused to talk to him. Sarah though, has been known to do ANYTHING to get a guy, and she's known for forging handwriting, and most of her old friends who now hate her, were pretty sure she forged it. It looked a little bit like his writing, but barely, and the way she said "aren't you going to dump him?" Put it into my head that it wasn't him. So I forgave him, then a couple months later she came up with some more "notes" and one time he looked at me pleadingly and just said "I didn't write those" which I forgot about, again, but they always stuck in my mind. Then she gave a note to my friend supposedly from him that said he still wanted to be friends with benefits, but HE had a note from HER that she had written to him, with HER wanting to be friends with benefits, she admitted it, that she had forged the note from him, and BEGGED me for forgivness, with bull notes saying "I'm SO sorry i'll never do it again" I'd never been more upset in my life, because I didn't know who to believe, and it took a toll on me that I did some things to myself I'm not proud of (think hard...) Eventually I "forgave" her, pretending to be her friend. None of it ever happened again, but that had been the third time. Ever since the first time, I've been paranoid, always imaginging him making out with her, and I know they did A LOT of stuff last summer. And now with summer, I hardly see him because we live a whole 5 miles away (sarcasm) and he always has to work at night (which i know is true, I've been there when he's working) and I've only seen him three times since summer started. I broke up with him once, right after summer started, because another guy wanted to go out with me, a guy that I knew I wouldn't have to worry about him cheating and a guy who could go to movies with me, even if I didn't love him, I could trust him. I lasted 3 days of crying and screaming to no1 inparticular before I broke down and went back out with him. A part of me is telling myself that I have to break up with him because everytime he has to go on the phone, even after the best conversations that last for hours, a cynical part of me thinks "Is he going to see Sarah?" and the part that for some reason he never wants me to go to his area makes me even more paranoid than I already am. It haunts me, and I know it's not healthy, but I also know if I break up with him, I'll be more miserable than I've ever been, but a tiny part of me thinks it's better in the end, but I have no idea. I love him, he's wonderful, he makes me feel wanted and loved and he's just...Wonderful. But the thing with Sarah, and that he doesn't want me arond where he lives (btw, two of his ex's live there) makes me paranoid. And I need to decide now, because I can't go on living with those thoughts of Sarah in the back of my mind. Sorry this was so dang long, and help would be GREATLY appriciated.
Tell him that you want a break because you don't know if you understand some things.. and if asks what.. then say.. but before you got bak out with him you need those answers.. Maybe he doesnt like his house.. and he doesnt want you to see it? or other stuff just ask
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I'll start from the beginning....
When I was little, i used to live in washington state, but then we moved when i was 8 years old.
this other family with this boy that had been in my 2nd and 3rd grade class moved to the same part of florida the same time we did, and we ended up going to the same school.
our families became close friends(my sister is about the same age as his little brother)
and we'd go over to each others houses a lot, and when we were little we used to come up w/ these little plays (some romantic, we'd "marry" each other...), and well, we got a little older. last year, he moved to orlando, and we spread apart a little. we saw them, and we were playing around and like fake kissing each other in this little "play" we made up (my little sister is only 8, and she really wanted to do a "play")
and now he's moving back to where we live. i dont kno if he likes me, but i kind of think i like him. what should i do?
signed,
confused love
Tell him because u might lose your chance ..
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my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of this month..we're both 13 and we really like eachother but i dont know if i should break up with him..right now we live on long island..but should i break up with him since hes moving to new jersey? i have NO idea what to do!!! please help!!
Break up with him. Your 13 years old its not love its just likeing.. And long distance relationships dont last.. especially with 13 year olds. So just dump him and get it over with
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How old are ppl when they have THE kiss? Like what's the most likely age?
any age
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okay so i was at the usa cup this week and this boy approches me and he was all askin me for my # and i kept tellin him no and he wouldn't leave me alone then i told him "im not interested so will you please leave me alone" and he never did so then my mom finally came to pick me up so i was safe and then i went back to the cup today and he was THERE! and he was fallowing me and my friend around and we kept tell him to back off and he wouldn't! then we finally got away from him and we met some guys from south america and we were talkin to them and then as we were leaving them i kissed one of the guys we met (which ment nothing) and the stalker man saw and BLEW UP IN OUR FACES! he was all like "SO THATS Y YOU WANTED ME GONE!?!?! SO YOU COULD GO F---- THAT GAY MEXICAN!!!" and now im really scared to go back to the usa cup cuz he might be there with his gang and he'll prolly jump me or sumthing! so please help me asap!
Next time you go dress all different n if u see him hide.. were a hood or sumthin or glasses or a hat :) if he finds u be like who r u? ive never seen u b4.. tell an adult if it doesnt seize
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before my ex-bf asked me out my class was on a felid trip. we went ot a resturant and my n' my ex-bf sat next to each other. by the end of our lunch we were holdin hands n' sittin really close. but that was even before he asked me out. then after he dumped me it was like none of that ever happened and he never liked me. it makes me sad bcuz now that we are broken up we dont talk at all...we talked so much before...so what do i do?
that sounds so familiar.. GET OVER HIM.. hes not worth the pain.. Hes a jackass n he will burn in hell for all his crimes against women:) hope i helped :)
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umm well i like my nextdoor naboor n well he came to spend the night w. my bro n we madeout n i gave him a handjob n well he weent to visit his mom in NY n well he is coming back in a week or soo n still rele like him m im not sure if he likes me n well i rele miss him n i want to makeout w. him n how do i tell him that i like him n i want to makeout w. him??
How can you go from hand job to asking how to tell him you want to make out with him.. Just do it you've already done other stuff
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This year while I was vacationing in a place I regularly visit I met a girl. The night after I met her I drank way to much and ended up losing my virginity with her. I was really beating myself up over it the next morning, but it turned out that we hooked up for the entire time I was vacationing, however we never slept together again. The problem is, she doesn't know she was my first. She actually thinks she was my 3rd. Now im beating myself up for lying to her, but Im afraid that if I tell her now things could get awkward and I may not ever see her again. I feel horrible about lying, but if things got weird between me and her and I lost contact with her I would probably fall over and just never get up. I'm not sure whether to tell her, and if I do, I'm not sure how or when. I am extrememly thankful for any help someone can give me.
If the relationship is important to her then she'll stay. Its not like you killed someone.. its a simple mistake.. tell her the truth and apoligize and say u dont want to lose her
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ok recently i've been going out with my bestfriends brother. She doesnt' kno and if she did she would kick my ass! i don't kno wat to do. WE really like eathother. and she knows that he's all i think about! but she still doesn't get it.. im always feeling guilty! should i tell her or should i keep it a secret? i don't kno wat to do... i dont' wanna lose her as a friend and i don't wanna lose him as a bf. i dont' wanna be a bad friend but he really is all i thnk about and talk about she just doesn't understand.... but wen it comes to the same situations with her she doesn't care wat i think and she does her thing wiht them... if she can do it and doens't care wat i think then why can't she except wat i want??
Tell her that u like her brother..n that u want to be happy n u dont want her to be mad.. n that her brother makes u happy.. tell her xactly how u feel
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A few weeks ago my brother and his girlfriend were over at our house and he had left the room to go to the bathroom. While he was gone my brother's girlfriend started leaning on me and saying things to me that she shouldn't have been saying to her boyfriend's younger brother. My brother eventually came back into the room and it didn't happen again. The next week she came over again and did the same thing while my brother was out of the room. But this time she tried to reach her hand down my pants. I stopped her and asked what she was doing. She told me to just relax but I still didn't let her, eventually my brother came back in the room and ended it. She didn't come over the next week and I hand't talked to her since so I thought it was finally over. But last week she IMed me online and started saying the same things she was saying to me in person like she wanted to have sex with me and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I would love to get physical with this girl...she is really hot and she has a great personality. The problem is as clear as day though...she's dating my older brother. The other thing is though, my brother and I have never been close even before he left for college. We have also been getting into tons of fights in recent weeks. However my brother really loves this girl and I even overheard him telling my mother that he thinks she is the one. Should I hook up with her? Please help me out...
are you kidding? dont even talk to her.. but u shuld kinda tell ur brother really nicely.. if he gets mad be like haha APRILS FOOLS JOKE! and then walk away.. but if he doesnt then you did the right thing.. But no matter what.. DONT DO ANYTHING WITH HER..
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there is this guy that i went out with for about a week before school ended...when we broke up he said that he liked me but he didnt "like me like me" and he said he just wanted to be freinds. Well i still really like him a lot. we live on the same lake so i see him almost everyday, but i never get a chance to talk to him. the only chance is online...or when school starts. i have tried to get over him, but i just still really like him...so what do i do?
Try to preoccupy ur self.. like get into sports.. meet lots of new ppl.. and if that doesnt work.. they try to i.m. him n tell him how u feel mayb he can help xox
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My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.
Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.
I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do??
i think u should talk to your boyfriend bout it.. ask him about it and but dont tell him.. if he denys then ok.. jus move on but expect some bad things but dont rly necessarily think hes dumping u
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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??
yeah its ok
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my girlfriend wears some clothing that bothers me. she has a very nice body, and its cool that she is comfortable with showing it off... but it bugs me that she likes the attention from other guys and all. how do i let her know that some of the stuff she wears (low tank tops / shirts, short shorts, etc) bothers me without sounding too much like a jealous control freak?
just tell her straight out.. be like i dont want to sound jealous but i hate when you were that stuff it makes you look slutty and that you want attention.. n i know your not soo dont do it
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Hey hunni.. i love your site its awesome nd u give GREAT advice lol..but i was really hyper nd i hada write in here so her it is kkz well i havta go now! lul bffe xox_
haha "babii a" lol
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I need to get rid of a few pimples over night. Do u know something fast that I can use that wont cost much? HELP YA'LL!!
tooth paste.. or cover up always works.. :)!
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I like my best guy friend alot.. but the thing is i set him up w/his g/f and shes a friend of mine.. and i have a b/f who i also like.. what do I do?
I think you should tell the friend of yours.. Because she obviously would want to know.. and also who do you like more..? your guy friend or your boyfriend.. because if its equal or close to equal.. then u have to dump him.. But yeah figure that stuff out n then write back to me..
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im pregnant nD idk who the father isz
do u have a boyfriend..? mayb its him
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