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Dear Jordan,
There's this guy that I like a lot! He's been my friend for like ever! I liked him in first grade but I got over that, but I've come to like him again! I'm too scared to tell him that I like him because he likes another girl. And to dig myself deeper into this hole I've dug I told him I liked a guy that I only like as a friend. What should I do? I can't tell him that I like him because I don't know how he'll react. But I can't keep all these emotions inside, so what do I do?
And I've only had one boyfried my entire life so I don't have "expirence" with guys.
Help Me!
Lonely & In Love (link)
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Dear Lonely and in Love,
I can kind of relate to this, so i hope to give you the best advice i can.
Besides praying about this situation (which helps a lot!), just become really good friends with this guy. If you're not comfortable with telling him how you feel right now, just wait it out and be patient. Let him know what you think about him though. Build his confidence and just keep being the neat person you are to him. Sooner or later, he's bound to realize what all you've done for him. Just remember that a friendship is the foundation of a relationship. Without friendship first, there is no real relationship. So you've got a good thing going. Also, I read about this girl one time who told her best friend that she has always had this crush on him, and he stopped talking to her, and she lost a friend. I'm totally not saying that is what is going to happen to you, but don't take any big chances unless you're for sure what is going to happen. Have a great day :D
Under His Love, jordan rae
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Dear Jordan,
I met this guy at camp this summer and he's really amazing and I can't stop thinking about him. I will get to see him soon. But I can't stop wondering. You see...he's older (only a year and a half) But he's attractive and homeschooled and lives a ways away from me. So I'm just scared that it's too good to be true, because he could have any beautiful girl on the side that he want's and I wouldn't know about it in a million years! Please help!
Thanks~scared and confused (link)
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Dear scared and confused,
Your situation sounds quite familiar. So, I hope I can give some good advice for you. :D.
I am not sure if either of you are Christians, but even if you are or not, let me tell you that if you pray and give this situation to God, He will do wonders. If it is not 'meant to be', there is obviously some reason. If you get to know him really good and become good friends first, then you're off to a good start. Friendship is an important thing in EVERY relationship. You should be able to tell him pretty much everything. And if he is loyal, and he really truly respects you, I doubt he will even think about finding 'any beautiful girl on the side'.
There is definetly more to a guy than being attractive and amazing. Really, there is. hehe. And remember, God made like.... almost half the population of men... which is like, 3,000,000,000 MEN! WHOOHOO! hahaha. that is a lot! haah. and out of those 3 billion men, I am sure you will find AT LEAST ONE who will give you everything you've ever wanted and more. Just trust God with ALL THAT YOU HAVE and don't make any foolish decisions, and its all good. Remember,
NO GUY IS WORTH YOUR TEARS, AND WHEN YOU FIND ONE THAT IS, HE WON'T MAKE YOU CRY.
So hang in there. I bet your friend thinks you are gorgeous and just as amazing. :D.
Have fun :D
Under His Love, Jordan rae.
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Is there one right person for everyone? (link)
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Wow. Well, this will be hard. But I think that not everyone has a perfect someone because not everyone will get married. But for those who do wnat to get married and have a long lasting relationship with an amazing man/woman, and have children, and a nice house to yourselves, and live a happy life... I most definetly think its possible.
If you give God your pen, and let Him write your story for you, it will be much better than any fairy tale or disney movie could ever create. You will be more than astounded by what God can do. Just trust Him, and try not to make any foolish decisions, and you will be amazed. Trust me.
Under His love,
Jordan Rae
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jordan,
there are many things going on in my life right now. I have so many decisions to make that I don't feel like writing in here. I don't know what I can do. I pray about it, but why isn't God doing anything?
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Well, life isn't supossed to be easy...God gave us choices and we have a very hard job...to make the right choices. And our job isn't to be perfect...our job is to do our best to do the right thing...and if we don't make mistakes we won't learn. it IS easier to learn from other peoples mistakes...but if we never made our own we wouldn't have the experience of emotions. Good or bad. And no matter how painful or amazingly awesome your thoughts and emotions and surroundings may seem, life isn't that bad if you give it FULLY to God. Sacrifices will most likely be made, but it's nothing you couldn't handle.
Under His love, jordan
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