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I'm Scared
Dear Jordan,
I met this guy at camp this summer and he's really amazing and I can't stop thinking about him. I will get to see him soon. But I can't stop wondering. You see...he's older (only a year and a half) But he's attractive and homeschooled and lives a ways away from me. So I'm just scared that it's too good to be true, because he could have any beautiful girl on the side that he want's and I wouldn't know about it in a million years! Please help!
Thanks~scared and confused
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Dear scared and confused,
Your situation sounds quite familiar. So, I hope I can give some good advice for you. :D.
I am not sure if either of you are Christians, but even if you are or not, let me tell you that if you pray and give this situation to God, He will do wonders. If it is not 'meant to be', there is obviously some reason. If you get to know him really good and become good friends first, then you're off to a good start. Friendship is an important thing in EVERY relationship. You should be able to tell him pretty much everything. And if he is loyal, and he really truly respects you, I doubt he will even think about finding 'any beautiful girl on the side'.
There is definetly more to a guy than being attractive and amazing. Really, there is. hehe. And remember, God made like.... almost half the population of men... which is like, 3,000,000,000 MEN! WHOOHOO! hahaha. that is a lot! haah. and out of those 3 billion men, I am sure you will find AT LEAST ONE who will give you everything you've ever wanted and more. Just trust God with ALL THAT YOU HAVE and don't make any foolish decisions, and its all good. Remember,
NO GUY IS WORTH YOUR TEARS, AND WHEN YOU FIND ONE THAT IS, HE WON'T MAKE YOU CRY.
So hang in there. I bet your friend thinks you are gorgeous and just as amazing. :D.
Have fun :D
Under His Love, Jordan rae.
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