Question Posted Wednesday August 11 2004, 10:35 pm
Dear Jordan,
There's this guy that I like a lot! He's been my friend for like ever! I liked him in first grade but I got over that, but I've come to like him again! I'm too scared to tell him that I like him because he likes another girl. And to dig myself deeper into this hole I've dug I told him I liked a guy that I only like as a friend. What should I do? I can't tell him that I like him because I don't know how he'll react. But I can't keep all these emotions inside, so what do I do?
And I've only had one boyfried my entire life so I don't have "expirence" with guys.
Help Me!
Lonely & In Love
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xjordynnraex answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 11:12 pm: Dear Lonely and in Love,
I can kind of relate to this, so i hope to give you the best advice i can.
Besides praying about this situation (which helps a lot!), just become really good friends with this guy. If you're not comfortable with telling him how you feel right now, just wait it out and be patient. Let him know what you think about him though. Build his confidence and just keep being the neat person you are to him. Sooner or later, he's bound to realize what all you've done for him. Just remember that a friendship is the foundation of a relationship. Without friendship first, there is no real relationship. So you've got a good thing going. Also, I read about this girl one time who told her best friend that she has always had this crush on him, and he stopped talking to her, and she lost a friend. I'm totally not saying that is what is going to happen to you, but don't take any big chances unless you're for sure what is going to happen. Have a great day :D
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