hey everyone .. my name is casey .. ive been at this advice stuff for a pretty long time .. i have brown hair and blue eyes and im pretty outgoing .. I love dancing and being crazy and laughing .. i recently lost my aunt who was my biggest hero and i lost her on christmas .. she was a great person and i hope i can be who she was one day .. ive tried many different sports .. ive done cheerleading, field hockey and volleyball unfortunatly i always going hurt in these sports which prevented me from doing them any longer ..
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Age: 17
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ok well i asked a question about a week or so ago about a guy. he likes me alot & im not sure how i feel about him. one day ill be in love with him & the next ill be like ew nasty. the answers i got told me to get to know him. well the thing is that were like best friends so yeah i do know him. what should i do????? (link)
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this is hard .. but if he has a girlfriend I wouldn't take it any further because in the end you're probably going to either get hurt or get into a fight with his girlfriend. I would stay friends with him .. but let him know your relationship cant go any further because you dont want to start problems with his girlfriend.
hope i helped - C
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I'm a freshman and I already had my first high school boy, "Tommy", he & I were perfect for each other, everyone thought we were gonna be high school sweethearts. We dated for almost 2 months, he had already told me he loved me and I truly loved him!
Later, he had heard some rumors about me that weren't true and he knew it, but instead, he listened to his friends. The next time we talked, he gave me a lame excuse and broke up with me. I was a mess, I cried myself to sleep for 2 weeks straight!
It's been about 2 months since we broke up, I felt like I was over him, but my close friend asked me if she could take "Tommy" to our winter formal. Now, I'm mad at myself for saying it was okay (she asked me if it was okay). Whenever I talk to her, I always get mad at myself for not saying no.
"Tommy" tries to make me jealous, but instead he makes me mad. He always asks me why I don't care about him anymore, he calls me and asks why I'm being so mean to him and stuff. I just don't care anymore!
How do I get over "Tommy"? I still love him, but I want to get over him so badly. (link)
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you have to make time to be with friends instead of thinking about him and everytime you think of him or think of calling him call a friend you can depend on instead. its hard but you have to delete him from your phone and bullylist and just erase him from memory and mind.. hope i helped .. my friend was going throuigh the same thing and i made sure i was there for her
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There is this girl I like at work. She seems really cool and it seems like we have alot in common. But she says she has a boyfriend for 7 months. What are some ways that I can get her to leave him and date me? I know its bad, but I think there is a chemistry there. (link)
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i think that it sounds mean for you to do that but i will help you anyways ..i think you should hang out with her as friends first .. great relationships come from great friendships .. remember that
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mmkay so i have the biggest boobs in my grade and guy sare always looking at them instead of my face. adn it rele bothers me. is there anything that i could do to make them stop? i mean like my friend had a pool party and i had to stay in the water the entire time cuz guys wouldnt stop. it rele bothers me.i mena likke sum guys only like my boobs and not me. (link)
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i think you should make a joke out of it like buy a shirt that says "my face is up here" or "yes, they are real" something like that .. you cant do much im going through the same thing i just say STOP but im planning on buying a shirt to make a joke ..
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I just bought homecoming tickets for my boyfriend and I today. Next Wednesday, the 5th, is our three month anniversary and his gift from me is going to be the homecoming tickets and for him to be my date... etc. See we were already planning on going together, but I just wanted to ask him in a cute, romantic way to really make him feel special. It can't be anything too expensive, I guess I'm jsut looking for ideas. So what I'm asking is what is a sweet, creative, original way I can ask him to go to homecoming with me? (link)
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you could replicate something from laguna beach .. i thought what the guy did for morgan was cute ... the fish in a kiddie pool in her room and it said "out of all the fish in the sea prom with me?" but instead say "homecoming with me?"
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ok. me and my man have never made out with annyone before, and i was thinkin that that is something we might do preddy soon. what i need to know is, how? should i just like, get on top of him and shove my toung in his mouth or what? pleaze i need help i rate (link)
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well i havent really made out with anyone either lol. but, from all the magazines i've read dont shove your tongue down his throat (big turn off).. just like start kissing and slowly do it and dont slobber all over him either haha .. just like dont be nervous and dont bite him
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how do you dump a guy? (link)
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i dont really know why you wanted to dump him so i cant tell you but usually saying the just friends thing seems mean but sometimes its true .. or you can say "I dont have as much feelings for you as you do me so i think it would be mean to carry on with the relationship if i didnt feel the same when you can find a great girl who does."
hope this helped
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how can i find the right girlfriend, without getting hurt like cheated on? (link)
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just make sure you both like each other and that you get attached but not THAT attached .. be yourself and you know if the girl likes you for you then you know shes gunna be true!
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My boyfriend and I went out for six months, we were inseperable. Before that we had been best friends for little less then a year. We were so close, always with each other. He would always say to me "I love you. Someday we'll get married, we can be forever. Run away. Just you and me" he's romantic like that, but the I love you really stuck with me. Only a few weeks after he dumped me (He didn't even tell me why) He has a new girlfriend. His girlfriend always smiles at me when I walk by her in the halls, that bothers me so much. She's always giving me looks if I look at my ex. I like him so much, and I feel my heart drop to the ground whenever I see him! I've noticed though, he watches me. Whenever I walk by, or I'm talking with another guy- he's watching me. He says we can be friends, but he blocked me online and won't return my emails. I'm completely heartbroke and crushed,I just don't know what to do.
I'm 14 by the way
Thanks
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Dont show that it bothers you .. I think maybe you should just see what happends maybe he wants to see if you really do love him or not sounds kind of stupid but maybe you should try and hang out (just as friends) as for his ex .. she sounds like a bitchh. screw the girlfriend and just try to be friends
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ok so im dating this guy tom...we have only been dating for a few days now but he has met my parents and they love him...my entire family and even my brothers friends adore him... its so cute...well the day he met my family i also met his mother...well..she hates me...when i was around she seemed to like me just fine but tom called me like 2hrs after he left and he told me that his mom hates me and doesnt want him and i dating...like he said that he doesnt want us to break up because he realli likes me and stuff like that and of course i dont want us to break up either...i mean ive only met the woman once and shes messing up my relationship with her son already...i was realli polite and stuff when i met her and stuff and im realli not a bad person...im just a simple 16yr old girl...its like im sum whore or anything but she hates me...neither tom nor i kno why she hates me...what am i supposed to do?? (link)
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well.. i think maybe you should just go over to toms house a couple of times and just be nice and talk and have conversations with his mother .. i mean not everyone is going to like you but just try to show her that youre nice .. my mom didnt really like my brothers girlfriend @ first until she started talking more so i think maybe she just doesnt like when her son has a boyfriend so just start conversations with her
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i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long! (link)
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youre way too involved with looking for it .. you know that quote dont go looking for love it will come at its own time .. youre rushing things and if you rush it your first kiss wont be as amazing as youd want it to be.. so just be yourself and be patient
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There's this boy i really like but... i have a boyfriend and im going to be going out with him for 6 months this friday and I already had sex with him and I really like this kid named josh and we have 2 classes together and he’s in my grade. My friend asked him if he liked and and he was like ummmmmmmmmm ummmmmmm ummmm and asked who? And she said my name and he said ummmm no. how do I know if he likes me.??????!!!!!! Really need to know!! He’s moving to California in July and all I want is just a lil piece of him lol and I like in ny so we would NEVER see each other (link)
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i definetly think you SHOULD NOT go for josh .. he doesnt know you .. doesnt seem to like you and youre gunna feel sorry after he moves and you have NOBODY because your boyfriend will break up with you .. its basically WORTHLESS
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I have this friend, and i really like him more than a friend. But i dont know if he feels the same way about me. He talks to me sometimes, but out of school like at sport he usually talks to me. He is kind of rude, he calls me dumass (lol) and tells me to shutup. But he only said that once.
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i think that you should maybe try to flirt a little and see how he handles that and ask him to hang out .. see what happends if he seems to like him tell him you like him .. hope i helped .. anymore questions drop one in my box
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okay so me and my boyfriend have been goin out for almost 7 months i mean thats a long time for a couple of 15 year olds...well im 16 and hes 15 but that doesnt matter.. and after a while like it happends to everyone, they get sick of eachother and stuff starts to annoy eachother, i wanna do somehting really cute for him just to do it but i cant think of anything? any idea's (link)
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hmm lets see .. i think its cute when couples write notes to one another .. maybe find out his locker combo and write on post-its what makes him special to you and post them in there or make his favorite food for him
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My parents have officially said that I can have the name as "going out" with someone. There's this guy I've had my eye on for a while, but he has turned me down on several occasions. We're not exactly friends, and I haven't exactly asked him out. He knows I like(d) him and he's kinda weirded out by it. At the next dance should I ask him to dance?
(oh, I'm 13/f) (link)
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i think you should try and get someone else -- dont get hung up on this guy afterall he did say no to you a couple of times
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Ok so I have never initiated a kiss but I have been kissed by guys, the reason is because I am scared that I will do something wrong, I am dating a super guy but I am scared to kiss him back so please help with some advice
HELP ME PLEASE!!!! (link)
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dont like go all the way [this is from the new will smith movie lol] go like half way or a little more this will show that you want to .. dont worry about doing it wrong just keep ur lower lip loose cuz its kinda odd when a boy tightens up his lip .. and go for it .. im sure youll do fine!
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when ever i talk to a boy, i always talk to them as a friend. when ever i try to flirt i cant. how can i flirt more. what should i say? (link)
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theres nothing really you CAN say .. its just the way you act i guess? you just say flirty things like "looking good lately" and laugh .. idk i flirt a lot but i dont know it just comes easily ..
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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long) (link)
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i think he was prolly just upset about being broken up with .. id give him a lil space for now .. but later on if he talks to you then talk ..
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( 16/m/tx/junior in High School )
here's the deal: i've always been kinda...um...not cool lol or w/e u wanna call it but...i kinda found myself and figured out how to dress and do my hair to where i look my best...and now im starting to get noticed...but by all the wrong people...i mean i know the ugly weird chicks have feelings to but my god...i just want a pretty girl to finally notice me in good ways, because that's NEVER NEVER NEVER been the case, i mean every once in a LONG while there'll be a pretty one, but i'm just talking in general...i'm one of the nice guys, not one of the bad boys or w/e, and i know i'm not deadly good looking but i'm sure of myself...i mean i think i look better than most...that's not arrogance talking that's just confidence...a small amount but anyways...i'm really shy and idk exactly what to do when i'm around realllly good lookin girls...i mean i can talk their heads off online but in person i freeze up and stutter and all that stuff...lol...( jeeze i sure typed alot lol sorry ) any ideas on how NOT to be so shy...and how to get noticed in good ways? instead of ways like "oh god there goes that one kid...what's his name again? he's weird..." idk i'm just tired of the nice guys never winning...it's always the jerks and the bad boy types :(
thanks...
-Kyle
xxxkylestylexxx < my aim
fhc_moonligh7 < my yahoo
fhc_moonligh7@yahoo.com < my msn
vvvguardianvvv@yahoo.com < my email (link)
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okay this is coming from my p.o.v - I like the nicer guys .. it all depends on the girl though. i like guys im completely cmfortable around and not one that im going to be the one having to strike up the conversation or the only one talking. So when you're with a "pretty girl" dont be afraid to be yourself .. if they dont like you for who you really are then they really arent worth your time in the first place. You'll eventually find someone but usually you find that person when you're not really trying. Try just to be friendly and talk to the girl that would probably be the easiest thing to do. Hope i helped .. Drop One in my box
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Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out? (link)
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tell him that you like him but you still need a little time before you go out with someone else because you arent fully over him yet and you dont wanna ruin the future relationship you'd have by not being sure if you're over your ex or not.
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