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hey, i'm sarah.
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I swear something is wrong with me. This happened last time and it's happing again. After like the first 2 days of going out with a guy, I don't want to go out with them anymore. I don't know why. I just stop liking them as much as before when we weren't going out. I almost made an excuse not to hang out with my boyfriend today but then my other guy friend (B) wanted to come along and I wanted to hang out with him so I went and hung out with them. Supposably "B" likes me. Before me and my boyfriend were going out, B said he would go out with me if he knew I liked him. At the time I thought of his as a close friend, but now I think I like him instead. I just kept denying that I liked him. We've been friends for a bit and dated way back in the day, kind of. well not really... it was one of those stupid little kid relationships where you barely even talk to your significant other.

Anyways, I don't know what to do! We've only been going out for 4 days and I'm already wanting to break up with him. This always happens to me. I hate breaking up with people and I don't know if I should. Ughhhh. I can never make up my mind.

This Friday my whole grade is going on this trip and we are going on this romantic night cruise. It'd be fun to share it with someone I actually like-like, and I think that may be "B" and not my boyfriend. Arrgghhhh. My goddddd.

What should I do? I'm not sure if I like him anymore and I'm not even sure how to tell anymore if I do. Has this happened to anyone else?

OMG the same exact thing happened to me! I think it;s just a phase... I hope...

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ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do?

First of all- does he know that you're fallin' for him? If he doesn't, go ahead and tell him!
He could be secretly in love with you, and you don't know it. If so, (if you can drive,) go and see him. If not, catch a ride to meet him somewhere in the middle, and just talk. Tell him how you feel about his slutty g/f, and if he really doesn't like you, try and get a hobby or flirt w/ other boys, try and get your mind offa him; no boy is worth going crazy for. (who knows... you might make him jealous;)

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I kept me and my boyfrends relationship a secret from my best freind for 4 days and then i told her. but as soon as i walked into school she started yelling at me becuase my ex bf told her that i had been dating him for for 4 days. shes really mad. my bf is one of her best frends and mine to. but she is only mad at me((she likes him)) they talk all the time and he never told her so now shes only mad at me. i told her why i didnt tell her. it was becuz i knew she liked him and she would b mad so i had to think of what to say and i wanted to have like a actual convo with her bout it and since she is grounded she wasnt and still isnt aloud to talk on the phone so i dont kno what to do. can u give me some advice?

try and see if there's any other way of talking to your friend; over the internet, at school; maybe even get a ride over to her house and say it's something urgent.
Next time, just tell her; i'm sure she doesn't mind you going out with her crush as much as you not telling her about it, it probably makes her feel betrayed as a friend.
good luck
::xadvicersairx::

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i have this guy frend who i really like but i kno for a fact that he has a gf and i also no for a fact he likes me alot. (he has told like everyone he likes me) he says he would rather be with me and not her. what should i do?

first of all, if he likes u, why is he going out with her? well, first, make sure he's not a "player"...(lol). If he ReAlLy likes u, then wait for him to aAasSskKk yoU oUt... Don't make yourself a reputation (or concience) that you would "cheat" with him... patience is a virtue.
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ok well me and my boyfriend really love each other and like he made out wit anotha gurl once cuz he waz drunk so im like ok ill forgive u then couple monthz later he kissez my best friend!! but no thatz not it! there waz a dance and we had fun 2gether and after the dance i found out he made out wit her! he waznt drunk this time!! so we broke up and now i fogive him cus i really love him and no i juss found out he f*$# another gurl and she had all these hicky and i juzz found out it waz him who gave her the hicky...wat should i do now? we havent broke up yet, should i still be with him and give him annother chance or should i break up with him?

you've given him too many chances... that's going 2 far; telling him its ok to f*ck another girl.

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Im 14 and a girl.. lol i was ready the lil note thingys. One of my guy frends who i relly like, acts like he likes me. but the only problem is that he has a gf who i just found out about but he still acts like he likes me. what should i do? i really like him.

If he acts like he likes you, then he probably does... there is a chance that he's just saying he has a girlfriend to make you jealous... guys are stupid like that. You should tell him how you feel, and he'll prolly feel the same way.
::xadvicersairx::

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im going out w/ this guy i really really like. but hes a year younger and i never see him. and whenever i do see him he doesnt talk a lot . And he didnt give me a hug when i left after seeing im. what givs? does he not like me or seomthing? i barely ever see him at school. any tips to flirt it up and get him to like me again or any tips to get a chance to see him more at school? plz answer i could use some advice

chances are, since hes a year younger than you, he feels awkward and doesn't really know what to do. help him out a little. remember, hes had one year less of experience than u.

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Hi, i was on neopets one day and i asked somone to make a guild with me so they did... then like we talked and started to stop talking after 2 weeks. then i just sed hi to c if he still did neopets. he said yes. then he sed since you arent doing neopets anymore can i have your np for my birthday and i said no. then we got in this whole talk about sex. and i didnt feel right takling to him, not that he had sex and he is only 12 but because i got a cell and he keeps on calling me and texing me.... wat should i do? i wanna block his #
p.s. he asked if i wanted to b hid bf!! he dosent even no me!!

if you dont feel like talking to him, and dont*from what u know about him) like him, then go ahead and block, block, block.

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okay . .
there is thys guy i reallly like and we have been talking since last year online and stuff and he a couple weeks ago he asked me if i liked him and i said i did. then he was like maybe we could hangout sumtime then . .but we havnt yet. i think he likes sumone else now even tho he still i.ms me online . .what is he doing to me?

Chances are, he feels the same exact way as you, but he's just trying not to seem desperate; he's trying to make you jealous. Guys tend to do that.
talk to him.
xadvicersairx

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I really hope you can help me!
I like this boy that I've known forever, Jake. I've liked him on and off for years, but I recently saw him and I really have feelings for him. But, I think he likes someone else. Not sure though. However, there's also this other guy at school, Chris. He's pretty cool (not to mention cute), and I sort of like him too. I would ask him out, but I can't stop thinking about Jake! Do you think I should tell Jake that I have feelings for him and possibly risk a lifelong friendship, or forget about Jake and ask Chris out? What would you do? Oh, and I love your advice. You seem so great! Talk to you later!

-Empleh

Thanks (about my advice):)
:( OMG i'm in the same exact position!
:.:.same exact.:.:
I'll give you the best advice I can, and try and follow it also.
If you think you LOVE (yes, love) or have love feelings towards Jake, and your not exactly sure if he likes someone else, go for it, and tell him, because he should be your first (even if its inconvinient, and your not sure how it'll go.) Remember, if your friendship with him has lasted this long, then chances are it'll last through this. Maybe he's liked you secretly all along. As for the guy at school, see if he is interested also, but keep it low and slow, in case your "true love" or w/e(sorry cheesy cheesy) finds out, or you find out he has feelings for you.
good luck!
xadvicersairx

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I broke up wit my boyfriend and I still love him to death.. And i cant stop but I broke up wit him cuz of parental reasons ** He's 15 and im 13 ** Now all i do is think of him... But what makes me feel worse is that he was cring the whole day :-( i dont know what to do.. Cuz If i didnt break up wit him i would get into troble, loose my trusts from my parents and never get to see him or talk to him.. But now that i broke up wit him i can talk to him and see him :-(

If you really love him, then your parents should understand. i say, have a secret relationship; theres no use breaking 2 hearts and having nothing come of it.
tell him (when your parents arent there) that you still love him and u werent really meaning it.

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What's the difference between Taking a break and breaking up! I always saw taking a break as just an easy way of breaking up with someone...like just a nicer way ya know!

taking a break would be breaking up... but with a little hope.

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ok when im with my friends i always say tha tlike the jocks & stuff r hot.. which they r and alot of the times ill like them.. but when it comes to actually likin sumone and being in relationships i choose the guys that my friends think r not hot.. like i go for personality not looks... a good body is just a plus.. and my friends r always like y r u with him, hes ugly, u could do so much better., but i dont want to do better i like the guys that im with... how can i make my friends see that id rather have a guy with a soso body & a great personality than a guy with a great body but cant even make me laugh...???

average people liker......

you shouldn't have to prove anything to your friends. if they really are your friends, they wont care if they think your bf's are hott. (well, they will, just not to a disturbing point.)
.\hope i helped/.

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i like this boy and my friend told him w/out my permission. he has acted REALLY wierd around me ever since she told him.i REALLY like him and we never really talked about it.he told my friend that he didn't like me that way only as a friend at first(this all happened in 7th grade i'm now in 8th).then he told her maybe next year it is next year and he hasn't showed any signs of asking me out.we don't have any classes 2gether and we haven't talked as much. wat do u think?PLEEEEEEZE HELP.thanx

try getting his phone number, and really talking to him. if you don't communicate, it could end up being too late, and you'll end up going to different high schools... if your sure your in love (or crushing) on him, tell him yourself how you feel... hopefully, he'll kinda, maybe, or really like you to.
good luck!
.:xosairox:.

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OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!!

first of all: if your going to a diff. school w/ diff. people; what reputation? usually the high schools are bigger, with more people; there's gonna be people going out w/ ppl 3 years younger... it's completely fine. don't worry about it, if you really love him, forget about a rep. taht barely's there

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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?

it's fine, if your really into the relationship, and you like/love him a lot

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i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female )

If you really like him, then there's nothing wrong with

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is it okie to like an 18 year old if in 13 its only 5 years n i mess w. him i tell him i will call him when im 18 n he just laughs is it okie that i like him!?!?!

it's okay to have a crush on him, and it's fine to like go out 2 dinner or w/e... just don't get

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what does metro-sexual mean?

it's a term for when you act

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hey how do u like let a guy know u wanna getta know him better

drop some big hints, or just tell him... guys aren't ~*sarah*~

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