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i like to play sports and all that stuff i havea nephew and i sibling and a mom and dad and i dont no what else to say
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Location: illinois
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Age: 14
Member Since: July 21, 2004
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ok .. ive been with the same guy for a year. thats good for me cuz i never do that .. but last summer i talked to a guy noname and we were going to date but we decided not too because our familys were best friends and we didnt want to mess that up if something happened. well me and my boyfriend are haveing some problems because i have a new job maken goood money and we never get to see each other because we have different off days. well my mom and i and nonames family went to see kenny chesney. last thursday. well boyfriend didnt like that to much and was being a rude asswhole.. which in return to that made me cry in front of everyone in the hummer limo!! my whole like was messed up .. well after i was droped off noname was helping me carry some stuff to my car .. he was being really sweet and was tryn to make me smile and i guess just feel better! well he told me he was going to call me i returned with you better because we are really good friends . well needless to say he leaned in and kissed me i was shocked i didnt know what to do but look away and say why? .. now he calls me every day makes sure everythings ok and my days going good .. his little cousin lives across the street and he told her that he really did love me .. thinking it wasnt true he even told his aunt which i know wouldnt like about something like that ... he comes by my house alll the time .. he even came by jus a little while ago. i keep having all these mixed feelings and i dont know what to do . i mean i do love my boyfriend but i feel that im just tired of the same ol thing i dont know what to do ....its been two weeks since i seen my boyfriend and im going to see him tomorrow .. but noname will see him 1st. they have to get sinor pic. done tomorrow and noname is still really mad and ive asked him not to say or do anything to him because idont want to make things worse. boyfriend knows about the whole kiss thing and he says hes not mad but i know deep down it hurts him but over the last couple of months hes really hurt me ... every time iget off the phone with him i end up crying. i dont know what to do anymore.can anyone help me? (link)
well i dont no if this will work but when you have a boyfriend that is going to be a jerk because you have another guy friend well thats not cool the boyfriends that i like are the kind that you can act all dorky with so i think that you should go with noname because he sounds alot better then the other guy and he cares about you and you see noname more then you boyfriend and you and your boyfriend can still be friends but i would go wit noname and if things dont go well with him the maybe your boyfriend will go back out with you
i hope that i helped
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I recently lost my virginity, the girl was my age, 15, but she's already had 6 guys before me, which at least to me sounds like a huge amount. I know she's a really wonderful person, and ever since it happened I've been even more attracted to her, not just wanting to have sex again, but actually wanting to get to know her better and hang out more. I just want to know if its possible that she gets the same feeling about me or does sex become less special the more a persons done it. (link)
well she probly just thanx that for each person it is special until she eets another guy and then goes and does it again i am 14 and never had sex before but to you it may be special because it was your first time so dont let the girl get in your way yeah you can getto no her better but does she want to get to no you do you guys hang out still if you do then there is a chance a goo chance but yeah i dont want to bring you down or sound mean but i do think that the more times you do it it becomes less special i am not tring to be mean but i hoppe i helped
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do u hav ur period at all when ur pregnant...like u dont gt ur period all nine months? or juss one missed period?? how much r abortions and where do u get thtem done?? *IM NOT PREGNANT!! i thought i was about a year ago bc my period was late and i got it and turned out i wasnt pregnant..but i was s0o0o desperte and i idnt know wat ot do so i was juss wonderin how much it wulda costed and if u wulda needed a parent wid du to do it* (link)
you dont have your period at all i hope i helped
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What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?.. (link)
y would oyou go back to him dont let ne guy walk all ova you and then be so sad and sorry and sweet dont do that all he wants is a piece of @$$ dont let him do that because then he is going to go and do it again again and then again since you already went back with him think about i hope i helped
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rubber ducky


I'm 13 and i'm havin a lil bit of guy trouble.Ok there is this really cute guy i know but we havent really seen much of eachother.Well the thing is when i was in 3rd grade i really liked him but then i moved when i was starting 4th so i never got to really talk to him again.Now it's summer '04 and im goin to start 8th.So one night i was stayin at my friend's house and he had told her to call well we were havin too much fun to call him so she gave me his sn and we started talkin to eachother online.It turns out that he liked me in 3rd grade also so he asked me out & i sed ok but then we broke up cuz we weren't sure if it was going to work out.But he always asks me how my love life is so the other day when i asked how his was he sed bad so i just went ahead and asked y is it....he answered cuz i broke up with you.is that really believable????He has also been talkin to one of my other friends and telling her that he likes me and everything but i don't know if he really does or not.I mean i kinda like him since we've been talking to eachother but does he really like me too?plz help. (link)
well you can always give him an other chance so do it yeah you are 13 you have a long way and when you go into high school there are going to be so many guys who will look at you that arent looking at you right now it is always better to go out with someone older because they are more mature but then if you liked him since the 3 grade i would give him a chance but i hope that i helped
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rubber ducky


i like someone very much.but i moved from his school last year. i have his phone # but i dont know if i should call him beacause my bf thinks that he might of moved. what do i do??? (link)
call him newayz its not going to hurt you if you do call he may be happy if he liked you to and if you have ne of your friends # you can cal them and see if they no if he moved and if he did ask if he gave them the new # so call its not going to hurt ya
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rubber ducky


Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help! (link)
well my broter is 21 and his ex fianca is a slut and so i no that it is not the same thing but we dont know if it is his kid or not but neway we still love him and all but what i think you should do is have the kid and not have an abortion because you will feel so bad when you dont have that kid and then if you do have the kid then you will be happy and love the baby and even if your friend is mad at you it wasnt your fault if you didnt know it is his fault for not telling you and i would tell you friend just to tell her the truth and then you would feel right i dont no this probly dont understand but i hope that you can under stand it
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i think i might like this boy and we always talk about like sexual stuff together kidding around and i think im starting to like him but how do i tell if he really likes me..please help
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- blind dove (link)
you can just start talking about you and him like what it would be like if you to were to getther and if he is like a dorky brother that is the best thing so start talking about ou and him and see what he says and if he is just joking then forget him but take the chance nothing is going to be wrong
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ok my name is ashley and i am 14. i have a boyfriend and i like him and all but recently he sent me a pic of him and i really dont like his face. he has a nice body and everything. but he lives in indiana and comes out every weekend to his dads. i know u all r thinking im shallow and ur prolly rite and everything but i just cant help it!he is nice and says i am super precios an dsweet but im not sure if he says that to other ppl bc of where he lives. neway i dont kow what to do. i dont wanna eb a bitch and break up with him but i also dont want the situation to come up where i have to kiss him and i cant stand his face!i really need help. for my advice i really dont want ppl to tell me im shallow and to not care if he is ugly bc i know all that but as a person that i am i cant get over that nd i know that is horrible!i really need advice!thanks! (link)
DuDe, you are an idiot well if you didnt like his face why would you lead him on that is gay and then go break his heart obviosly you dont deserve ne one and i am serious i can tell that noone is slapping you across the face but now you are getting it i can tell that you are not ready for a commitment and since your not you should probly dump him and just find some one else that doesnt hve a bad "face" you should you are shallow you need some help you are not going to get any guy if you are going to be that way what if he was the ugliest guy but had the most money he asked you out woud you go out with him? well there you go
you need a reality check and here it is
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well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love.. the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat to do?
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well you can still be able to see him and then say that you are going to the mall with your friends tell him on the computer or sumthing and then just bump into him and that will be fine and if your parents do love you then if they believe in you then they will trust you andlet him see you and you see him
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I need to get rid of a few pimples over night. Do u know something fast that I can use that wont cost much? HELP YA'LL!! (link)
well there is a comertal on tv and it is called proactive and it works because that is what jessica simpson uses nd she says that it works so good and it does so give them a call or go online
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