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18/f
How do I surprise him in bed?
My boyfriend (who's had years of experience) told me he loves what i do...
but I wanna do something different, sexier, but nothing freaky like necrophilia and stuff like that
Normal but sexy tips?
:) Advice from anyone is appreciated... (link)
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http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips/
Have fun ;)
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I just got home from my boyfriend's house, we had sex twice, the first time there was no blood after, the second time after he pulled out there was a few drops of blood, I am about a week away from my period, and I am on BC. What could be the cause of this? Has this happened to anyone else? I am not a virgin, p.s.
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Bleeding after intercourse for the first time (or even second) is totally normal. Most likely, the first time you had sex, your hymen didn't tear (your cherry didn't pop). The second time, it probably did tear causing a little bleeding. It's normal, no worries :)
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
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Honestly, it doesn't seem like you can trust this guy. If he's keeping stuff like this from you, then who knows what else is going on that you don't know about? If he didn't think it was wrong, he wouldn't hide it from you. He's your boyfriend. He should be comfortable with telling you things, and shouldnt hide things from you. You have every right to feel betrayed. What he's doing is wrong. You don't deserve to feel like this. The best thing to do would be talk to him one last time about it, and if he still won't fess up about whats going on, then you should just leave him. It's not worth the stress. Best of luck! :)
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I am 18 year old boy and there is a girl that I like. I am not going out with her but we work together. but it is
strange because I like her in a different way. Usually when I (or a boy my age) has a crush or likes a girl, it is usually sexual or based on appearance. With this girl, all I have cared about was her feelings. I realize that that's a good thing, but I don't feel that way about anybody else, not even other girls I have gone out with.
It feels like i'm in elementary school. I get really nervous around her, and I think about her the same way I used to think about my 1st grade crush. Nothing innapropriate.
I seem to care about her feelings way too much. Sometimes when she isn't smiling, I would ask if she is alright. I think I ask her that 4 times a week. I'm not saying I'm a careless person to other people, but when something is bothering her, it also bothers me. If she looks upset, I will talk to her about it and it concerns me for the rest of the day while I'm not even with her.
I am not the kind of guy to talk about my feelings, but when I talk to her I seem to let everything out, whether she cares or not. we have had a few conversations with each other and in those conversations, she would tell me about what she hates about herself and I would confort her. I would tell her about my insecurities and she would work with me. (we both seem to have self esteem issues). I feel nervous with her, but at the same time I feel too comfortable.
By the way, she has a boyfriend, so I'm not planning on making any moves or anything. We are just friends. (we aren't even very close friends. Just distant friends). Even if they broke up, she just started college put of state so she is 6 hours away. I'm just not sure why I feel this way about her. It's not like any crush I've had. By the way I realize that this is probably a normal feeling, but I'm young so it is new for me.
If you understand what I'm going through, it would be appreciated if you could explain.
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As a 17 year old girl, i can tell you that if any boy thought that way of me, i would be the happiest girl alive. I understand that because you're a guy, its natural for you to have "sexual" feelings toward girls your age, but that you dont have them for her like that just shows that you really care about her. Something about her personality that overcomes the whole "lustful feelings". I wish you the best of luck trying to deal with your feelings. :)
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So there's this guy i use to date 3 years ago which was my first love and a year after me and his brother started talking and now i really like his brother. would it be wrong for me to date his brother? (link)
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I would say no, it isn't wrong. It was three years ago. That's plenty of time for the two of you to move on. If you really like him, do what's best for you. If you and you're ex are truly over eachother, then there should be no problems at all. I hope everything works out for you! Best of luck :)
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ok so,my friends and i were at school and one of them was going through her pockerts,(gum wrappers,lollipop sticks ect)she then found wat looked to be a note and proceded to say "oh shit you can't look at this"Feeling out of the loop i asked why she said she couldn't tell me that my boyfriend would tell me later.So i kept pestering her till she said "he will sing it to you wen its ready"Now i feel as though i need to write him a song or give him a gift. Our one month aniversiry is coming up.Any ideas???
thnx in advance
TINK2359 (link)
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First of all, that's extremely cute of him :). I wouldn't suggest writing a song for him, unless you're really good at that kind of stuff. For one month, you could do something like make him a CD of all the songs that remind you of him, or something like that. Good luck! :)
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long story short: me & my bf have been dating for about 2 weeks now. i've caught him once talking about how he wants to get back together with his gf and today i caught him a 2nd time. i broke it off but half of me still has feelings for him while the other half despises him. should i stay or should i go? he kept apologizing and said he'd never do it again and i don't know if i can believe that. thanks so much guys (link)
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Realistically, if you have only been dating for two weeks, and you've heard him mention it twice already, things are probably not going to work out. He probably still has real feelings for his ex, and he probably isn't ready for a new girlfriend right now. Obviously you like him, and its going to be hard either way, but the part of you that despises might be on to something, and you should listen to it. You seem sweet, and I'm sure you can find someone better if you choose to end things. Whether or not you do, good luck! Hope I helped!
:)
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