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Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina (link)
haha common mistake don't read too much into it


I told my friend how I serious loved this guy and the guy told me that he liekd me but he keeps playing mind games with me. So I told my friend I NEED to get over him somehow and he said "just get rid of everything that reminds you of him and just don't think about him." So I did that and I seriously didn't think about him at all and I got rid of everything that reminded me of him. Then that night, I had a freakin dream about him..just when I was startin to stop thinking about him.It seems like everytime I try to forget about him and I'm doin good I have a dream about him that night. What's going on and how can I stop this???? ILL RATE 5'S!! (link)
think about someone else. Find someone else to think about, you dream about things you go to sleep thinking about so you had to have been thinking about him a little bit.


Ok me (14/f) and my bestfriend (15/m) are going out... weve been for 1 month but i just dont feel like its working out... we argue A LOT now over stupid stuff like hanging out or whos house too go over (stupid stuff), but before we went out we were cool and got along.. Never fought... i thought about it last night and i decided i dont want too go out with him anymore but the thing is, he was talkig to his best guy friend one day and his friend asked what would happen if we broke up... He was like id be pissed off and wouldnt talk to her... My bf doesnt even know i know this but that hurt me :(.. So now im scared too break it off because it could ruin the great friendship we had... HELP!!!! (link)
explain that too him. but before you break it off talk to him about it like next time you have a stupid little fight just be like why are we fighting about this? it's stupid and we never did it before.


I saw my ex-boyfriend when we went back to school. He got way hotter over the summer (that's not it) he grew up a lot like matured. I was shocked and like "turned on" or attracted. So I started to become his friend again. We talk and flirt and laugh together with each other and people think we're going out. in a few classes hes in 5/8 classes of mine. We went out for 7 or 8 monthes and we mutally broke up. I think i like teen love him but hes in love with r and stuff. So today I was like K your madly in love with R arent you? but he wouldnt answer and just smiled. I like him so much and I dont know what to do and if he likes me or R. Should I go after him? If I do how do I do it without doing something stupid or slutty? (link)
Try to explain the fact that he's just using him to make you jelous. Then be like...and it's working.


I'm 16 and I have recently gotten mixed up in the dating scene again. I've been staying single for a few months to try and sort out my priorities so that the next time I decide to start dating again I will end up with a guy that will treat me right. Well that day has come but its certainly not as easy as I thought it would be thats for sure! One guy I've known since I was a little kid, my mom knows his parents and she likes the idea of me dating him. Plus we've liked eachother for over two years and have both are single now. We've talked on the phone alot and hung out almost every other day. We've kissed and we have so much in common and he is really sweet. But some things about him I'm unsure of. I don't trust him that easily because some things he says seem like lines and he hasn't ever brought up the subject of us dating or anything so I'm not sure if he just wants to mess around, cuz I'm not up for that. The other guy I've met a few days ago. He just recently moved here and the minute our eyes met we clicked. We have alot of things in common, his parents already met me and love me, my mom knows about him and is willing to give him a chance, and we've already talked of dating and he's all up for it and so now it is my desicion. And there lies the problem. I like both guys and I have major chemistry with both. My mom wouldn't mind me dating either and now I'm stuck in a tricky situation. The first guy is from my school and I really want to give him a chance cuz I like him and if I turn him down and date the other guy he might feel played. And visa versa. Please help me. My heart is torn between these two guys and I have no idea which way to go!

~Hopelessly Torn Apart (link)
i would first date the one with the clicky eyes..go with him first, cause with the other one, if your familie's are close you don't want it to be a bad break-up and it be okward for the rest of your life. they might feel played but..just let the other one know that you like them but...you think you can something better than a fling.
lemme know how it goes

all the best
--m


ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do? (link)
Just try talking to him casualy, like you would to one of you friends. Find something you two have in common and chat about that. Then after awhile when you know him better and he knows you, either you guys will become friends, you'll realize he's not the person you thought he was, or maybe he'll have the same feelings you have for him.

all the best

--m


is it tru that if you never mmasturbate then u have a higher chance of your cherry getin popped when a guy fingers you (link)
no. rarely ever does your cherry pop when your fingered..normally you've already popped your cherry if you were a tampon...it doesnt mean you mastubate with a tampon, it just happens


Hey. My boyfriend is my best friend as well as my boyfriend. He was my best friend first, 4 years prior. He is dissapointing me as a boyfriend, and though we usually talk everynight, I want to take a break from him for a while. I need advice on what to think about, what to focus on, instead of him. Thanks. (link)
get more involved in a sport, or hanging out with other friends. Just tell him you need to sort things out a little. if he really likes you he'll get scared and want to be around you but give you space...if he doesn't then tell him you two should go back to being just friends. lemme know how it goes.

. : * m * : .


I'm not a very good kisser at all. On my last date, I could tell my boyfriend didn't want to say anything. I think it's because I'm not experienced enough to really know what I'm doing. Are there any tips (not just URLs that tell you the importance of good breath etc.) that anyone would like to share? Thanks so much!

xO* jAMiE (link)
write your name small in cursive with the tip of your tongue :P it works for me. try it out lemme know how it goes

--m


ok so there is this guy that i REALLY like..and i talk to him online a lot and tells me im really pretty and stuff..and i think he's really hott but i dont know what to say back to him? because instead of telling me im hott he says that im pretty and beautiful and stuff which i really like because its not insensitive like saying im hott is..so whats a sweet way to tell him he's "hott" or fine or whatever?? (link)
Tell him he's hott and sexy er whatever guys like it like that and then tell him that he's great and sweet and stuff like that.


14/f
Is this just life?
Like almost all my friends has a boyfriend and i have not even had a good relationship with a guy. i feel like im not too good enough for other people. Is there going to be someone there? Is there any way i could do to make someone like me? Please Help!!! (link)
Well theres not a way to MAKE someone like you. Just find a guy you might be interested in. Be your self around him and try to hang out on a regualr basis. Maybe your just looking in the wrong places for guys, or you don't really have a type yet. Just look for someone that you can have fun with.


what exactly does "my cherry popped" mean? (link)
It means you had sex. People refer to your cervix as a "cherry."




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