hello :)
incase any of you are wondering --
i'm a girl
i live somewhere in the united states
i am singlee
& straight.
& i have alota friends
that are probably better than yours.
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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks (link)
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your just friends.
you aren't 'together'
you just ..makeout & have sex & stuff.
just 'as friends' though.
yeah i don't exactly get it either.
lol
♥
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Okay, I like this guy, and he plays on my brother's hockey team. I think he's TOTALLY hott but he's a year younger than me. He's 12 and I'm 13. But I really like him and stuff.. We've stayed at hotels together for tourneys and stuff... and we've done crap. But idk if he feels the same way about me as I do about him. Please help! (link)
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ask him .. :)
just be like "well do you like me? 'cusz i think i might like you ..."
what kind of crap?
if you guys have had sex. . i would DEFINETLY ask him that.
if he says no, he doesn't like you like that.
then i wouldn't have sex with him anymore.
if you guys were just making out then maybe it was 'just a fling', still, if it feels uncomfterable - don't do it.
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So now that me and my boyfriend are broken up, I'm wondering, when I should start to ease into flirting again? I dont want to immeadiatly jump into it since it's shallow and I know I should wait. Plus can anyone name interesting places to meet new guys? (Besides the mall, I dont get to go there often) Thanks & I'll rate. (link)
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it depends ;
how long have you guys been broken up for?
1 week - 2 weeks is too early [if you've been going out long]
2-3 1/2 weeks might still be a little early.
i say wait 3-4 weeks if you were truly in love & you guys went out for a long time [2-4 months maybe?]
good luck!
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okay i feel realli depressed right now i guess you can put it. well i was on my myspace and i was looking at my friends pictures and came to my ex's picture and i dont no its just i think i still like him but i have a bf now and i dont realli love him but he says he loves me all the time and i just say it back not to hurt him but im not sure what to do anymore i no 4 a fact my ex doesnt like me anymore and never will angain we went out like 3 times already idk i just dont no what to do anymore ive been trying to deal with it but i cant :( can anyone help?
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that same thing happens to me.
it means that you truly love with all your heart
and you never really stopped loving your ex.
its going to be hard, i know.
but in time, you eventually forget about him.
if there was a short period of time between your current boyfriend & your ex, its even harder.
this is what you do -
look at the pictures until you cry.
just let it all out.
let go of the memories .. throw away
all ticket stubs, pictures of you two,
notes, articles of clothing from him ..
and make new memories with your current boyfriend.
take more pictures.
see more movies & save the ticket stubs
save the notes ..
the lipgloss you had on when you first madeout
everything.
soon- the words "i love you"
will just come out.
yeah, your ex probably doesn't like you.
you probably don't like your ex.
its not him your in love with, its probably
just the memories.
so cut all ties, and make new ones with your current boyfriend
soon you'll realize -
that your new memories
are so much better than the old ones
i seriously hope that helped
&
good luck ♥
[sorry if its sorta long!]
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OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?
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if you like him - don't dump him.
if any of the girls say anything ..
just be like
"you know what? shut up. he's sweet & nice ... and he treats me like a queen"
because
looks aren't everything.
my friend is probably the most popular girl in our school.
she's really pretty.
as for her boyfriend?
he's not attractive..
but the reason she's going out with him is because he's nice.
& sweet.
i mean ..what more could you want?
look at your boyfriend. maybe he is cute & you just don't see it .. look at his eyes..are they beautiful?
his hands, even, .. his smile..
just look at him
i'm sure you'll find something to love.
not every guy can be orlando bloom ;]
i learned that from experience!!
♥ woo i hope that helped!!
good luck!
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ok so i had the qeustion that you jus answered and i was wondering if avoiding his eyes is normal sorry i am realy realy freaked out hope you cna help i think you can (link)
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yes .. avoiding his eyes is perfectly normal.
i did the same thing ...
i seriously couldn't look at him.
still talk to him, but you can avoid his eyes if it makes you feel better.
if he asks why, tell him why. its better to be honest with him than to not be. maybe he'll understand. & tell him, you think everything would be better if you guys just kissed.
try looking into his eyes.
if you feel any emotion, tell him
& just be like "i need you so much"
its your nerves, hun :)
it'll pass as soon as your guys' lips meet!!
i seriously hope this is helping!!
:):):) ♥ good luck!
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Ok theres this boy and i really like him but theres this girl i have known since ever and she is such s butthead cause like everytime i tell her who i like she goes and starts flirting and stuff with him! it makes me so mad! and after awhile she ends up goin out with him and she goes and rubs it in my face i cant take it anymore! and this has happened with every single guy! does anyone have any ideas for me to get noticed or asked out by this guy? (link)
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bitch slap her.
=P
no just kidding.
well number one, don't tell her who you like.
if she asks be like "yeah like i'd tell you"
and don't say anything else.
as for the guy --
GO FLIRT WITH HIM!
do it do it do it!
boys tend to like girls who are flirty and fun..
so thats what you need to be
NOT SLUTTY
just .. flirty ;]
it'll be a slap in the face to her..
and rise in the dick with him ;];]
good luck ♥
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Hey. I've been friends with this girl for about 4 years now and i just can't seem to get her out of my mind. I've tried to tell her how i feel but just cant seem to get it out. I did one time and she said she didnt want to ruin our friendship, but even though i told her it wouldnt she still doesnt want to go out with me. I told her how i felt a while ago. So i figured i would give it some time and see, but now i dont kno if i should say anything or leave it alone. (link)
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tell her.
just be like
"we've been friends for so long. even if we do break up .. we'll still be friends. thats how strong our relationship is/can be"
and. if you break up with her - make sure its not because of some stupid fight & make sure that she knows you guys are still friends okay??
i hope that helped :):)
♥ x3ALiTTLEBiTDRAMATiC
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so i like this guy from camp and he lives like 2 hrs away from me. like i want to call him and everything but im really shy and i wouldnt know what to say. can you help me think of topic to talk about or some way i can get over my shyness?
thanks
i rate! (link)
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just be like "hey i just wanted to tell you that i miss you!" and then ask him hows school, his friends, girls ;] (who he likes), and stuff like that. then when things are buzzing, be like
"well i gotta go"
& give him your number ..
leave him interested ;]
that way, he'll call back!!
*oh and to get over your shyness, talk with confidence [even if its fake confidence] . . be like "oh my god i miss you!" and laugh and stuff, don't be quiet. when your done with your phone call ..you'll realize how shy you really aren't!!!
i hope that helped ! ♥
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ok so finaly my bf made a move on me liek alout of them he didnt kiss me bnut were getting there the thing is when ever i think about it my stomach get realy uncomfortable i want to kiss hims so so so bad i mean i know i am ready for it i have waited so long and he is so awsome and he treats me great i am comfortable around him but last night i was at my aunts house there was alout of kids (i haver a big family) so he put his arm around em adn scooted close to me except made it realy obvious and all of a sudden my stomac startes freaking out i feel like i am so messed up i dont knwo how to get rid of this feeling or what is means i mean its not jim but i dont know maybe i was around my family and i didnt want him to be so obvious but i likes it so much mayeb i need freinds i just need help so how do i get ride of this feeling adn what does it mean thatnxs i rate high (link)
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hahaahahh the joys of a first kiss.
oh i remember them.
mine happened while i was on rollarskates
[if you can imagine that!]
you see, my friend Dannie* came up to me and was like "Oh my God. You have to makeout with Tim*"
and i was like
"oh God no, not on rollarskates!"
and Dannie was like "You have to! He really likes you ! You just have to go up to him and start it!"
my stomach got really uncomfortable, too.
i mean, it all happened in matter of 5 minutes. Not enough time for my stomach to settle down.
Finally, i just went up to him, hugged him, and started making out with him.
of course he joined in .. and it was lovely.
and you know what?
after that,
my stomach was fine. :)
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Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
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yes.
if you really like him ...
and you think its going to work out ..
then yes.
i went through the same thing -
[going out with boys a year younger than me]
& friends gave me shit for it
but i just told them
"look. he's sweet. & i like him. its not my fault you don't have a boyfriend/you and your boyfriend don't love each other like we do [pick either one depending on the situation] so listen, back off. okay?"
and if it doesn't work out & you two end up breaking up .. your friends might say "i told you so"
and this is what you say to that
"okay, so i tried it out & it didn't work. at least i'm open to my options."
does that help? i hope so!! :)
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