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Hey everyOne! My name iS Nikki and I'm here tO give yOu guyS the beSt advice I can give! I can't guarantee that I'll update Or w/e Often but I will aS much aS I can! PluS the Site may nOt be that great but I juSt gOt this tO give advice, nOt See whO haS the beSt site lOl! I'm a fun, OutgOing girl and I have lOtS Of friendS! I'm 15 and I'm gOing intO 10th grade! I'm abOut 5' 2", shOrt I knOw lOl, I have haZel eyeS and black hair! But enOugh abOut me, aSk me anything and I'll try my beSt to help! LOve yOu all! xOxOxNikkixOxOx

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ok i need help ok. I like this guy for a very long time and we went out for like 7 months. We broke up and are still really good friends, but i still have feelings for him. I tried really hard to get over him but its to hard. I have a boyfriend now but i still really like my old one. I think i should get over my ex and move on but im not sure. What should i do?? If u have any ways that can help me get over him please tell me.

Maybe you should ask him if he still has feelings for you. If he does, you'll just have to listen to your heart to find out what's right but if he doesn't, the best way to get over someone is to go out and meet new people. Give some other guys a chance and gradually you might get over him. I'm not saying you will get over him fully, but I'm not saying you won't. But hun, the best thing to do would just be to listen to your heart. You can ask hundreds of people for advice, but only you know what you truely want! Do what you feel is right. Good luck! xOxOx

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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much

Hun, just be yourself! Go out and have fun with it, don't worry whether he likes you or not. There are plenty of other guys that would more than likely be attracted to you for who you are. Maybe you'd feel better if you hung out in groups, like with some of your girl friends and stuff. I can't think of anything else other than to be yourself. Honestly, you'll find it a lot easier than trying to be all flirty. And eventually, you'll be more open to flirting. Good luck babe! xOxOx

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Ok well im asking this question for a friend of mine because he doesn't know what to do and he asked me and idk. So anyways my friend really likes this girl and he's had a crush on her for almost a year and now she is single. But whenever he asks her who she likes she always tells him "noone" or "nobody" but he doesn't know if she is serious or just doesn't want to tell him. And he thinks she knows he likes her but she is always giving him mixed signals. so how can he find out if she likes him or if they r just friends?

I'd tell him to just do the most basic thing anyone could to do to find out if someone likes them. Have one of her friends ask her who she likes. It's the easiest way, as long as one of her good friends ask her. I don't know, you may think it's stupid, but it's actually a good way. Hope I helped!

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my g/f gets angry sometimes about little dumb things like what movie we go see and she gets real angry and abusive.she likes to throw things and hit me but i dont hit her back i just hold her until she cools off.but it gets tiring and sometimes it hurts.but i dont want to break up with her because i love her.what should i do?

I'm really sorry to hear that hun. But if I were you, I'd just be there for her and maybe sit down with her sometime, and ask her if there's anything you can do to help her. Maybe she's getting frustration built up from something and she just doesn't have anyone to talk to. So just be there and let her know that if she needs to talk, you're there. Hope I helped and best of luck! xOxOx

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ok i love this girl sooooo much i think im crazy. We are going to a movie 2 weeks from now with friends. I need someone OLDER LIKE 16 & UP to answer this- what should i do? should i put my arm around her and for how long-should i try to hold hands?? i am almost positive that she would do whatever back (holding hands, putting her arm around me etc.,)PLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-wondering

Hey hun, I know I'm not 16 and up, but I have a pretty good idea about this. Girls LOVE it when a guy holds her. So like, when you're standing in line, or just standing somewhere, try holding her around the waist. It's a good way to show a girl you really care. But when you're in the movies, there's not much you could do other than what you've thought of: hold hands and put your arm around her. What kind of movie are you seeing? If it's a scary one, let her hold onto your arm. If she does, it'll show if she likes you too. ;) Unless you know she does. Then, well, you've pretty much got yourself set! Hope I helped! xOxOx --I'm 15. I'm not sure how else to tell you other than edit my answer. So I hope you read this! lOl I'm glad I helped!

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ok well theres this boy and me and him have been messin around basically for a year. We went out and i lost my virginity to him but then later on down the road it didnt work out. I still love him ALOT and we still chill all the time but i want to be more then just friends with him..idk what to do. I mean he tells me that we need to chill more and stuff but im wondering if its just to get something, or if he really wants to chill...please help!

Hey babe, how long did you go out with him? If it was a couple months, and he's still talking to you now, there's a great chance he still likes you. But if it wasn't that long and you guys just messed around for the most part, then it sounds like it would just be a physical thing. Try telling how you feel and see what happens! You never know, maybe he'll say he still likes you too and he was just afraid to admit it! Best of luck! xOxOx

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