Well, my name is Tina, and I'm 13. I live in New York, and have been through so much and have been able to pull through. All my friends come to me for help when they have a problem, and my advice always seems to work. I hope I can help!
E-mail: Ricanatina@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Rochester
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: MiKiSsEsRsWeEt
Yahoo: Ricanatina
Member Since: January 1, 2005
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i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks (link)
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He talked about it so much, because he's obviously interested, and probably wants to score points with the guys. Lots of guys do this, so trust me, you're not the only victim of these "Kiss and Tell" cases. You should talk to him about it because this makes you feel uncomfortable and it makes you seem unhappy.
Hope I helped.
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the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out? (link)
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It's just french kissing, because making out is kissing for more than 2-3 minutes.
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Hope I helped you out some!!!
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ok say i met this guy on the internet and we wanted to met somewhere but not alone i mean with like other people. What if he says he is 14 but is really 45 or something should i bring a knife or a gun????? should i have a cell phone ready just in case he tries to do something to me????? NEED HELP FAST !!!!!!!!
OXOXOX,
DONT WANNA BE KILLED (link)
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Hunnie. It's not good to meet someone over the internet in person, because sometimes they don't appear as they say they are. Besides, it could be someone way older and or younger than they say they are. I would bring a cell-phone, but I highly suggest, not going alone, and not meeting the person at all. Safety first.
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im 14/f and i really like my brothers best friend. we are always flirting but i know my brother gets really mad. i wouldnt care what my brother thinks but we recently started talking more and gotten close..my brothers friend is 16..i dont know if i should pursue my secret crush on this boy or just back off? (link)
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I would talk to your brother about it because if it bothers him you should just back off, becaue like you said, you and him have just started getting closer, and talking more. So I think it depends. But anyways, talk to your brother, and if he's fine with it, please make sure, and pursue your secret crush on the boy. I hope I helped.
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Sorry this is long, but i rate high :)
I have liked this one guy for nearly a year. We used to date over the summer, but then some stuff got messed up and we broke up. Well he managed to get over me but i never got over him. Recently he and I have gotten really close (somewhat) and we talk all the time. He has been throwing hints he likes me. And apparently he told a friend of mine he likes me. Well, on thursday he and 2 of my other friends (one guy on girl) went to hang out at his house. They got bored and found an unfinished house. Well, the guy i like and my really good friend (who knew i was head over heals for him) went into the house and made out...Yesterday we went to a new years party and the girl told another one of my friends about it. Who in turn told me. Now my friend (the girl) likes him and asumes he likes her as well. Both of the people who made out have yet to confront me about it. Im so devistated right now and i feel like having a break down...Please tell me what to do because im so frustrated...Thanks.
(Please please please dont delete this!) (link)
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Oh my gosh. Wow. I think maybe you should confront the 2 people because that is wrong. If she knew you liked him or whatever, it would mean to back off wouldn't it??? What she did would totally mess up the friendship. Anyways, I suggest talking to them both at the same time,and see what happens. If you need more help, note me, or IM me on my AIM.
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okay I'm not ugly I get compliments all the time
but I don't I feel like I'm ugly and i can't love myself I'm not fat but think I am.my friends love me and I like to be on the spot light ,I'm really trying to love myself.I had boyfriend ,we broke up because I was moving.now I miss him bad.I don't show it.It been three years and I can't find a boyfriend.that only makes me think I'm ugly but know I'm not,I'm really confused .how can I love myself and find a loving boyfriend. (link)
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Oh hunnie. You need to find a little confidence in yourself, I know you think you aren't ugly, but you think you're fat. Maybe you could lose weight until you're happy with your size, or whatever. But never doubt yourself, because to a guy, that's a HUGE turn-off. Hope I helped!
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ok my boyfriend i love him to death and he really loves me...but like i feel like i annoy him...so i dont like calling him....i talked to him about it before and he was like aw baby you dont annoy me i love it when you call me i love talking to you...i was like ok...but it seems like whenever i call him hes eating....ill be like are you busy?? and hes like no im just eating..and ill be like oh...want to call me back or something then? and hell say yea ill call you in a bout 20 minutes...and he doesnt call for like another 2 hours....i called him at 3 3o and its now 4 30!! i mean come on....thats kind of rude....what do i say? i dont want to be like...WHY DIDNT U CALL ME BACK IN EXACTLY 20MINS?! and like possesive....but hes kind of pissing me off!!!!!! (link)
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If he says you don't annoy him, you don't. If this happens, maybe you should call him... I mean if he doesn't call, maybe something came up, so call him now! Besides, don't be all agressive or possessive over him or anything, because then he'll think you're acting like his mother.
Hope I helped.
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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!! (link)
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Hunnie slow your roll. You're only 13, and this will not last forever. And, seeing as how this is a long distance relationship, it won't work out since you don't see him everyday. Who knows what he could be up to? I think you should find someone in your area who you like, not someone long distance, because most long distance relationships, don't work out. Besides, you're only 13. Take your time, and don't do long distance. Also, your 13, you don't know what love is yet.
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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying (link)
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Awww hunnie don't cry! He was drunk, and half the things people say when the're drunk, they don't mean. When he's sober, talk to him about it, and see what he has to say. Eventually, he'll realized he made a mistake. Hunnie, don't put this on your shoulders, because this is not your fault. You should've made it clear in the beginning, if he wanted to keep you, he needed to stop drinking. If he didn't make the promise, he obviously wasn't good enough for you. I hope I helped!
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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help! (link)
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Awww hunnie. I've been in this position plenty of times. It seems you're not ready for a commitment, which is understandable. Tell him face-to-face. It's better, and writing notes will make him think you were too shy. Which you are, but it's better to be face-to-face because it shows you were strong. Tell him that you're not ready for a commitment, and you want to try again some other time. I hope I helped!
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theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!! (link)
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Awww, this position is awkward and bad. I've been in it before, and it was hard. If I was you, I would say "Please stop lying to me, because it hurts, and doesn't make me want to be your friend." And, if he doesn't understand, he's obviously not worthy of friendship, or your time. I hope I helped.
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I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused (link)
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Awww hunnie. I've been through this before, and yeah it's really tough to tell someone you just want to be friends, without hurting their feelings. I suggest, just saying "I want to be friends because a relationship of something more feels weird, and I liked it better when we were friends." And, if he's the friend you think he is, he'll understand. If not, he wasn't a very good friend after all. Hope I helped!
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