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Every guy that I like only thinks of me as a 'good friend'. What should I do? Should I act different, telling them that I like them doesn't seem to make a difference. I don't like being just everyone's friend,...I want more than that... (link)
Maybe you can give them hints that you like them more than a friend and want to be more than that. Let them know by flirting and just give them hints. If they're smart they'll catch on and hopefully they'll realize you want to be more than friends.


okay well i am having a bit of a problem choosing between the two guys i like. (just to let you know, im in the 8th grade && im 13.) okay well theres this one guy, let's call him fred. i really really like fred, and we flirt all the time. the thing is, everyone thinks that he likes one of my best friends. plus, i know his mom and sister because his sister dances at the same dance studio as me. im not allowed to have a boyfriend, so if i asked him out im afraid his mom would tell my mom =\ then theres this other guy, lets call him bob. he is one of my best friends brothers. he's a year older than me, and he's way more experienced than me. he told me that he likes me and thinks im hot. i havent told bob i like him yet because im afraid he'll ask me out, and idk what to say because i like fred && also bob wants a rly serious relationship and im not ready for that, but i rly like him. plus, wouldnt it be hard to choose between him and his sister? i know this is really confusing, and long, so im sorry. but my question is: should i ask out fred or bob? (link)
Aw.. that is really complicated. Do what your heart wants. It seems as if Bob wants more than you could give him, especially if he's more experiences he's going to want to do many things. And if you and Fred are 'best friends' getting into a relationship may hurt your friendship. Although don't mark my words on that because if you two are really good friends then nothing could destroy it. This is a really hard thing to do so I`m sorry that you're going through this. Maybe it would be better if you just stayed friends with both of them without getting into any relationships. There will come a chance when you'll find someone else. Or maybe stay friends with them and talk more than you do, and once you start to talk more you'll be able to tell what one you really like. Either way, just do what you want to do, don't let either of them prressure you into doing something you'll regret.

Best of luck!


I have a boyfriend and I have NO IDEA what to get or make him for Christmas. I've asked him, but he keeps saying he doesn't know! AHH! && Well he plays the guitar and I don't know I was thinking about making him a double necklace with 2 crosses on them, but then I'm not sure! What do guys want for Christmas?! Or good ideas for other gifts to make? Anything. Please.

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Thanks. :0) (link)
Just keep asking him what he wants that he doesn't have. Evantually he'll end up saying something and try not to make it obvious that that's what your getting him for Christmas. Maybe do a search online about guitars and see what you can get for him that has something to do with guitars that he doesn't already have :o)


okay , i like this one guy - hes my best friend - but there is this other guy that just loves me and i sorta like him too. and hes liked me for 2 years , yesterday i spilled everything out to him about what all i thought about him [ not in a bad way tho ] and we worked stuff out , but the whole time i was talking to the guy i like on the phone and he helped me alot ... WHAT SHOULD I DO ??

xox, --- (link)
Okay .. this is a really hard thing to do, because my friend is having the same problem. Go with your heart. I know you would hear this a lot but that's what you have to do. Listen to what youre hear is telling you, but it seems like I would go with the other guy.. Because he apparently cares for you that much not to give up after waiting 2 years. And if you did get with your best friend, there's always a chance it will ruin your relationship with him and after something happens between you guys, he might want to end your whole friendship. I hope I helped!




i'm trying to get close to this girl and talk to her more on aol so i can ask her out pretty soon. what kind of things can we talk about? (link)
I would try to ask her how she's been. Girls love to hear that guys care about what they did that day. They want to know that boys just don't care about themselves. Just try to keep the conversation going. Also, you can just tell her a little about you.




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