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cant choose between these 2 guys..
okay well i am having a bit of a problem choosing between the two guys i like. (just to let you know, im in the 8th grade && im 13.) okay well theres this one guy, let's call him fred. i really really like fred, and we flirt all the time. the thing is, everyone thinks that he likes one of my best friends. plus, i know his mom and sister because his sister dances at the same dance studio as me. im not allowed to have a boyfriend, so if i asked him out im afraid his mom would tell my mom =\ then theres this other guy, lets call him bob. he is one of my best friends brothers. he's a year older than me, and he's way more experienced than me. he told me that he likes me and thinks im hot. i havent told bob i like him yet because im afraid he'll ask me out, and idk what to say because i like fred && also bob wants a rly serious relationship and im not ready for that, but i rly like him. plus, wouldnt it be hard to choose between him and his sister? i know this is really confusing, and long, so im sorry. but my question is: should i ask out fred or bob?
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Aw.. that is really complicated. Do what your heart wants. It seems as if Bob wants more than you could give him, especially if he's more experiences he's going to want to do many things. And if you and Fred are 'best friends' getting into a relationship may hurt your friendship. Although don't mark my words on that because if you two are really good friends then nothing could destroy it. This is a really hard thing to do so I`m sorry that you're going through this. Maybe it would be better if you just stayed friends with both of them without getting into any relationships. There will come a chance when you'll find someone else. Or maybe stay friends with them and talk more than you do, and once you start to talk more you'll be able to tell what one you really like. Either way, just do what you want to do, don't let either of them prressure you into doing something you'll regret.
Best of luck!
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