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Ok well one of my friends told me about this site. We were talking and she was like "hey, Kasey you love helping people and your good at giving advice. You should take a look at this site." So I did and...well, you could probably guess the rest. Anyway, I love listening to people and trying to help them. So if you need someone to talk to...I'm here for you.

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I never know how I should respond to the "V" question when trying to get with a girl. If I say my truthful and say no, they are like "awww, that's sweet" And pretty much never hear from them again, but I don't want to lie and have it kick me latering down the line. What should I do in this situation?

Well, I think I guy being a virgin is an awesome thing. I think it cute...I know I just proved your point, but I think it makes a guy seem hotter. I don't know if your getting what I'm saying,but...For some girls know a guy hasn't had sex take the pressure off tehm. I mean they may feel that its not as big of a deal for you. I don't know many girls that ask about that but, just be stright about it. Be like yeah I just havn't found the right person yet. That make them aww.

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Hi ...mii boyfrend broke up wit me nd asked another girl out....nd she went out him....then another boy asked me out so now im goin out wit him.....but i still cant get mii ex out of mi head.....wat shoold i do?!?!?!??!
PLZ HELP!
signed love trouble

Well, it sounds like he has moved on. Why you try doing the same? I know thats easy to say and hard to do, but all I can say is that time will help. Try spending more time with your new boyfriend. You'll get so wrapped up in being with him you'll forget all about the old guy. Don't dwell on the past.

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hey i'm 13 years old and im not a geek or anything, and ithink i'm kinda pretty:-/.(i'm kinda skinny and 5 foot which i dont like, but anyways)
The only guys that have asked me out were kinda dorky, and only like one guy who i actually liked asked me out, but i misunderstood, not knowing that he liked me. This one guy who i sort of thought was cute asked me out, and I said yes, but he's kinda shy, and I don't know what to do, because he might be coming to my school, and he didn't really hang out with me or my friends when he visited, an everyone was making this huge deal about us, because someone found out. I think another guy who i might like might like me, who is really cute, but i just started going out with matthew, (and he's in 7th and im in 8th) and i don't ^really^ know him yet, and don't want to hurt his feelings(he showed me a poem about the last girl who broke up with him that was kinda creepy about how he hated her)
what should i do?(sry about it being so long!)
-needz advice!-

Wow...it sounds like you hormones are all over the place honey...maybe you should take a break from dating for a while give yourself a chance to cool down.

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okay... im a girl and 14 and i really like this guy & he liked me too and we went to homecoming and everything was going great... after homecoming, he said that he likes me too and that he wants to go out with me ((but he didnt technically ask me out yet)) so then a few days later we went to this party & he wasnt there... & the whole time i was thinkn about this other guy and kissing him and what not... but then we went to a school nearby at around 10 ish & lit off fireworks... that was a long story but the cops came & "gatherd" all of us "kids" to go back to the house the party was at. and the guy was just walking around looking for his cat & the cops told him to go back to the party too. okay so then we were all watching a movie & the OTHER guy that i was thinkn i wann'd to kiss and i were sitting on the chair and we started making out and what not... right in front of the other guy that i hella like that liked me too. & well.. needless to say.. he doesnt think things will work out with us.. he said he still likes me a lot.. but after that he couldnt EVER go out with me cause i hurt him so much. i kno i made a huge mistake expecially cause he means soooo much to me.. but what should i do cause i really want things to b right with us again.. a lot of time has passed and we r just now starting to BaReLy talk again... please help me out & dont call me a slut or w/e cause i've gotten plenty of that around school..

Just apologize, thats about all you can do. The rest would be up to him. You said a lot of time has past so tell him you've changed and your not like that anymore.

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hey..im in 10th grade and i havent had a serious boyfriend since 8th grade. I hate being single. I want to meet someone great, and it doesnt look lke thats ever going to happen, especially in my school. It just gets kind of depressing, especially around this time of year. What if I dont have another bf until after high school!? I cant wait that long..what can i do? if anything?
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Well, if you really want a boyfriend and there is no one at your school then try joing some kind of group (church, sports team, county play,ect.)If not try going to the movies or a skating rink with friends a try to pick some guys up. Now,I'm not telling you to go be a whore or anything, just go up to a guy and try to have a friendly chat...if things go well give him your number (or get his) and see where things go from there.

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I sit with the techers at lunch and some of my friends. Well, my friend Kayla asked me if I like this guy Johnny, who is a techer and in 12th grade. (Im in 9th). I told her i dont know him that well to like him. She told Johnny that I like him. I'm not mad at all! I thought it was funny because Johnny is really cool and thought nothing of it. Well, she told my other friend Kelsey who also sits with us that she thinks that johnny and I should go out. Kelsey thought we should and that we would make a cut couple. I sit beside Johnny everyday and he is really nice and funny. I think i am starting to like him but im afraid he doesnt like me back in that way. we talk on the computer almost everyday and have become friends and i dont want to ruin that. Kayla has stopped talking about me and Johnny going out but i can tell that she wants us to go, i think (lol) Kelsey wants me to go out with Johnny as well. The thing is i never had a boyfriend before and i dont know how to have a boyfriend (if that makes any sense!) Do you think i should see if something could happen between me and johnny? Or should i forget about having a boyfriend for right now? HELP!

Thanks so much!

HEC!

Well, before you do anything make sure you like him like him (you kow what I mean{I hope you do}). Like don't say you like him just because your friends say ya'll would be so cute togeather. Make sure its something you want and something that you a ready for. If it is and you are then just tell him. Or you oculd write him and note. Just be like "I'm kind of shy when it comes to this stuff, but I like you and I wanted you to know. Would you like to go to the movies or something." You can tell I have experience writting these letters. Make sure you tell him that its cool if he just wants to be friends. There is nothing wrong with being friends. Oh you give him the note, if its from one of your friends he might not believe you wrote it. If you can't work up the guts to give it to him put you phone number in it and then get a friend to give it to him.

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How Do You Know If You Found The Right Person You Want To Spend The Rest of Your LIfe With ????????

Hum...that a tuff question. I'm hoping your not like 12 or something. Anyway, some say you know its true if their the fist thing you think of when you get wake up and the last thing you think of before you go to sleep.

You know the rest of your life(hopefully you've got awhile) could be a long time. So if you fell you just can't live without that person and they take up at least 6/10 of you idel thinking time then maybe their the one.

I guess Just follow your heart...I know that sounds lame, but its better then flipping a coin.

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my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot

Hum...two weeks that kind of quick to drop the L word...(childish I know)...ever heard the saying "No guy is worth your tears and when you finally find one that is...he wont make you cry." It was completly childish of him to tell you that you started it and it was wrong of him to call you out "in fornt of god and everybody." In the title you called him "a jerk" so I think maybe you might have already mad up your own mind what to do. If not...think about it...do you really want to go out with a jerk?

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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him???

Well, it shouldn't matter what people think. Since you already know that there really is no point telling you. Anyway, no one will look at you weirdly (I don't think thats a word...sorry) or think diffrently of you. "Preppy" girls go out with "Punk" guys all the time. Its totaly cool since you both like eachother I would say "go for it."

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I met this guy about a few months ago that lives around my way. We started dating about three weeks after I met him. I thought he was someone that could just be someone to chill with time to time. Well all of a sudden he acts as if he's all into me. He have been telling me that he loves me and that he wants me to be his wife and that he don't want to ever let me go. I think he's a cool person to chill with, but I do not feel the same way that he do about me. The bad part is, is that I don't know how to tell him because I do not like to break people's hearts but I don't like to pretend either. I know that I have to tell him soon because Christmas is around the corner and I don't want him to get me nothing crazy. I just don't know how to tell him.

Well, if you don't feel the same way you shouldn't stick with it. For one, he'll just end up more hurt then he would if you just break it off now. Just tell him you think he is a great person and that he is totaly cool, but... 1) he just doesn't seem like your type (Ok I know thats old, but it does work...). He's cool to hang out with, but not what you are looking for in a boyfriend... or... 2) That he is moving a bit too quick for you and you arn't looking for anything too serious right now.

I think if its a one sided relationship (him loving you and you not loving him back) it would be better for the both of you to just end it.

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