I broke up with my bf of nearly 4 years about 3 months ago. He was emotionally and mentally abusive to me. I had been in councelling for a while and I thought I had nearly got over him. Well yesterday I decided to sign up for a dating site. I actually received about 4 responses to my profile. Instead of contacting these guys that wrote me; I got freaked out and deleted my profile. Does anyone know what is wrong with me?
There is nothing wrong with you! You just are not ready for that much attention yet, give it time. After you've been in a horrible relationship.. its hard to get in a healthy one. But you will do it, when your mind is ready. Just give it time.
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i like this girl but she one of my best friends and she only want to be my friend and nothing else what shall i do
Let me ask you this first.. Have you told her exactly how you feel? If not, then you should.. there is a chance that she may feel the same way. Now if you guys have talked about it and you know 100% she has no interest in you, then I'd say you better move on. You guys can stay friends, but find another girl that is dating material.
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Is facial hair on a 15/m attractive or is it showing that your a some kind of beast
Well, when I was 15 I thought it was corny for guys my age to have facial hair because it was kinda weird looking, but once you hit 18 or 19 it looks ok.
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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite awhile now hes going to the army and ina few days hes leaving for three months i dont know what to do im gunna be devasted any help?
I know it is hard to have someone you love leave, but if you two are ment to be then you will make it. Just keep in mind that he is worth waiting for and you'll be fine.
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i have a boyfriend that really does'nt treat me right he makes fun of me with his friends hardly ever spend time with me so i dumped him. but i miss him so much i feel soo empty inside. should i get back togther with him even after all he has done to me? but how bout he has moved on should i tell him i still like him?
-help me thank you
Dont' give him the joy of knowing that you still need him. He wants to hear you say that you need him to be complete, but that is a lie. You do not need anyone, you have to feel complete with just yourself. Have you ever heard someone say that you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else? Well its true! The relationship you were in also sounded like it could get dangerious in the future, so please stay away!
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I just got out of a 5 1/2 year relationship (we were engaged) in July and I'm finding it very hard to deal with.
I left him because after a while, I realized that it was more of a friendship. I love him very much but I guess I'm just not in love with him anymore. I didn't feel that SPARK or that passion.
He was my best friend for so many years and I guess a part of me just wishes I felt the same as him. I know he loves me and is in love with me and it breaks my heart to hurt him this way.
Sometimes, I just feel like running back to him because I want so badly to just take away his pain and make everything better but I know it wouldn't be fair to do that.
I just don't know how to deal with everything. I don't know how to move on and deal with the way I feel.
It's hard to explain. I just feel like a terrible person because I've made him hurt this way. Everyone tells me that I what I've done is for the best. Everyone supports me. I've been told several times that he just wasn't the one for me and it was obvious.
So in a way I know what I've done is the best for ME but it's just so hard to move on.
I don't know if I'm making any sense. If anyone has gone through this, how did you deal with the breakup? How did you get over feeling so horrible about hurting someone you care very much about?
I know this is hard for you and trust me, you make perfect sense. I went through something simular and I want to tell you that once you realize that you had to break it off with him you will be able to move on. You arn't a horrible person, what you did was for the best. You couldn't marry him and be unhappy for the rest of your life. I broke up with my fiancee a month ago, and I still think about him, but I know that what I did was the best for both of us, even if he didn't realize it at the time. I haven't had any contact with him, and I think that is also helping me get over the whole thing.
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k, so me and the ex. we dated for over 2 years. he broke up with me because he thought we were too serious. it's been about a month now, he's over it. i'm not. what are things i can do to completely get over it, besides hang out with friends (they all work a lot), find another guy (im not interested yet), or write. please help me.
Well I think you just answered your own question. Those are the basic things that you can do. I also sugest finding a new hobby, something you two never did together that you can do by yourself.
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hey...well my problem is that i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for a year now and i do love him..but the thing is that we're only in high school and i think i'll regret it if i dont go to dances and stuff with just my friends and not have to worry about a guy. but hes so sweet and we're perfect for each other. idk wut to do!!!
If he is such a wonderful guy, then I'm not really sure why you'd want to break up with him. The trouble about high school relationships is that girls hang on to the guy too tightly. Go have fun with your friends, leave your man at home. I'm not telling you to cheat on him or anything, but don't let him stop you from having fun with the girls.
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For the past 2 years I have gotten really close with this guy who is A LOT older than me. He's 36 and Im 14/f But latley we've gotten really close. Like were dating? I don't know. its not like he's a pervert or anything. But I've i guess fallen in love with me. We're both musicians and we share an amazing passion together. I can stop it whenever I want to , but i can't. I guess you can't help who you fall in love with. The thing is that no one knows about it and hes married! So im really confused. but if i tell my mom or anyone there goes my lessons with him and band and everything ive worked for. and i love him. what should i do and is this okay that were together?
Honey, I'm going to try to give you advice here without sounding too harsh. I realize it is hard to find someone that you really connect with, but this man is not the person you think he is. For one, he's married, which most likely means he isn't in love with you. He is also a criminal if he is having any type of a sexual relationship with you, even if it isn't actual sex. The best advice I can give you is to stay away from him for awhile because he does not love you.
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Ok well, here is the deal... I started talking to this girl online, we talked every day, and night, we eventually became liking eachother, so after a few weeks of joking around, I decided to ask if it could be 'for real' as a relationship, She is 14, and I am 24. I know it's a bit of a age different, and no, I am not a pedophile, I never usually like people younger than me, just it's.. She acts more mature and it's really easy to talk to her, and listen to her. We have really great conversations, but we never met, but then one day, we decided to meet, and she brought a few friends with her... the whole time she avoided me, yeah I was shy also, but I would've talked to her if she wasn't avoiding me, cause I could tell she didn't want to be there with me, I mean, she did, but she didn't... and I know she's had past relationship problems, but I guess, maybe I was just another problem in a relationship, and I really fell in love with her, before we even met and she means the world to me, I just don't know what to think, she only lets me talk to her, if I ask her on this, but she speaks as if she don't know me, and I don't know what to think, any advice? P.S. She talks to me still, but don't tell me her true feelings, and acts like nothing happened, but she don't talk as much or act the same.
My adivce is this, run now! I know you like her, but you are just waiting to get arested. If you think she could be in your life someday, then just talk to her online for a few more years and wait till she's legal. I know its hard, but it is the best thing to do to avoid ruining each others lives.
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Well I have dated this guy for about 3 months and i fell in lvoe with him but I had found out that one of my crushes from before liked me and i did stuff with him too and broke up with my ex because i felt so guilty. The thing is no one will ever treat me as well as he has or does but my feelings ffeel like they are fading yet I dont't want to lose him...I am so confused about what is going on and what i should do. I will always remember him and honestly NO ONE will EVER treat me well like he does
Ok first of all, I'm not sure how young you are, but you don't seam that old. I want to tell you that as teenagers, we fall in "love" very easy. If you broke up with this guy then it is probably for the best, but in the end you have to trust your heart.
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