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So I really really like this girl, but she has me eating out of her hand. I can't stop, she's a master of manipulation. Or maybe I'm just nuts about her. Any thoughts that could help me out? (link)
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awww lol well i have a question to ask you before you i answer that, do you think being like whipped is a bad thing? because if you don't then it's no problem. but if you do, this is where i come in. you're going to have to distance yourself if you feel too obedient. i hope i helped, oh and PS... if one of your friends brought this topic up and you didnt realize it yourself, punch them in the face or something.
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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost about a week. But the problem is, we could never have a decent convo on the phone. so my question is, i want some good topics to talk about on the phone. i already know all the basics about him...so please don't write that..
THNX IN ADVANCE (link)
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me and my boyfriend got so close by playing the game truth! you ask him a question and he answers it truthfully. he asks you a question and you answer it truthfully. it's fun. when that gets old start playing like you just tell him something that he doesnt know about you and then it'll be his turn. it's reeeeally fun.
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hi,what do you do to make a good kiss..any tips?? thanks (link)
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nothing technical, just go. just do it... it'll work.
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me and this guy i like talk every once in a while on IM and we always end up saying 'so....' then we like dont talk again until one of us has to go, i always try bringing up stuff but it never lasts long, any ideas to keep the conversation going? (link)
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don't say "so..." anymore it's lame. lol just be yourself and don't be awkward.
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OKAY i might be a tad paranoid, but im 13, female, and i have been going out with this great guy for eh 7 months now, well he comments this girl like more than he comments me on myspace, and he always is like, your a loser, or your stupid, and stuff, and he comments all her pictures and doesnt comment mine, and i know im being soo parinoid, but its bothering me, and he commented one of her pictures saying this one is the coolest. or this is the best, and does that mean he thinks it was pretty?,
i know for the 3rd time im very parinoid, but help me out here. :D
thanksooomuch (link)
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hey, you didn't mention if you had ever talked to him about it or not, but i'm guessing no. I dont know if this will be much help, but you have to talk to him about it. Ask him straight up. You should get at least something out of him. But make sure you let him know you're not okay with it.
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So... yeah.
I'm 16/F.. i'll be a senior next year (yes, i'm young for my grade.... 17 in september) and i've never had a boyfriend. I sort of had one freshman year, but it wa more of a... nothing, really. it was like we said we were going out, but we couldn't drive and we were like 14 and whatever. it was dumb.
Anyways, so i've only kissed two guys in my life. One was that not-boyfriend in 9th grade... and it was pretty much him jumping down my throat and i hated it. And the other was spin the bottle. Which was a good kiss, but it obviously didn't mean anything. The bottom line is, i really want a boyfriend.
And that sounds shallow, i know it does. I've always been the girl who's always saying, "i don't want to have a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend. I want it to mean something." And i still want it to mean something... but i just want it to happen sooner rather than later.
My friends always talk about who hooked up with who, most of them have already had sex, (with at least one person... in several cases more than that) and i really feel like i missed the boat. I'm not gorgeous. But i'm not ugly...i see weirder girls with boyfriends. And i mean, i'm not the most confident girl around, but i'm not completely introverted. I'm just not sure how to go about meeting someone and having a relationship that will last... at least until i go to college. Another problem, more like inconvenience, is that i don't drink. so i don't go to a lot of the parties everyone else goes to.
I know what i like in a boy. Funny, clever, smart, goodlooking... perfect? is that too much to ask? I had a dream last night. I was rooming someplace... a hotel or a dorm room or something. And there was this slim boy with dark hair next door. He brought me to his room and we just hung out. Played video games.. whatever. I dont' remember a lot, but there was a lot of laughing and smiling... a some cuddling. And i was so happy... probably the happiest i've been in a long time.
Is it so bad to want that feeling to be real? Am i too picky? am i asking too much?
How can a meet the boy of my dreams? litterally.
Any advice?
Thanks. (link)
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hey there. yeah, i'm younger than you, but i allllways feel like "i missed the boat". my friends and even other girls get boyfriends left and right, and i'm stuck here... just wanting one. it's probably a little strange how i'm practically giving myself advice, but just wait. "Good things come to those who wait." I'm sure you, like any other girl, would want a solid, good boyfriend rather than one you snagged who's an asshole.
Good Luck, Hope I Helped!
and have fun in VA.
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Ok. I am going to use real names because I don't feel the need to hide this.
I have a friend Taylor. We have been good friends for a while. I also have a best friend Dave.
Dave and Taylor were together, but not going out. They really liked eachother, understandable right?
Taylor "broke up" with Dave, then hated him for the last 4 months. For no reason at all, just wouldn't talk to him and made fun on him constantly. Dave hurt for a while, but finally got over it.
Dave and I have been extremely close ever since we met. Dave and I now are kind of, as you can say, together.
Ever since Dave and I have been together, Taylor has been trying to talk to Dave again, and asks me ridiculous questions about me and him and what we do. She said that him her and can only be enemies, or lovers. So what does that mean? If she is trying to talk to him, that might mean she wants to be lovers with him.
She insists she is over him and does not want him, but why is she constantly asking me about it? And flipping out on me about him. I think she still has feelings for him, which is understandable. But she has hated him for 4 months, and Dave would try to talk to her, but she was just such a BITCH to him that he got over her.
It's not my fault me and him like eachother, we cannot control feelings. I understand where she is coming from because it is her ex, but still, they are over, and she knows it.
I don't know what to do. I do not what to loose either of them. Taylor is just being very immature about this and said she might as well go hook up with my ex boyfriend Justin, so I would know how it felt.
Dave and I have been through A LOT together. Like, a mad amount of stupid shit we have done and gotten in trouble for. Taylor seems like it is right to bring those mistakes up to make me sound like a bad person.
I tried talking to her so many times.
Now I am thinking I should just end it wtih Dave so this whole thing would stop, no matter how much I don't want to.
Someone please help me, I really don't know what to do. (link)
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Dear kc, Taylor is selfish. Dave is the best thing that's happend to you all year. There is no way in hell anyone would want to see you end it with Dave, especially Taylor. She's just jealous because you and Dave DO have more history than her and Dave. KC darling, good luck.
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