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I am a 13 year old boy.I have been giving people great and seriouse advice for a few years and a freind suggested an advice column. I'm sorta short and I have blonde hair and blue eyes. I am well known by many older kids because I'm an ameture snowboarder and I do alot of stuff that involves hangin out with kids. NOOOOOO DRUGS!!!!
I listen to alot of music like hip-hop and alternative and i play drums.

advice

Hey I was just wandering what you thought about this one. Sorry it might be kinda long but I really need your advice.

-Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks exactly today. He is like really stupid and kinda weird so I dont know what I want to do. Half of me wants to dump him and the other half doesn't. I know that he really really likes me and that if I break up with him he might even cry. Today on our field trip some of his friends were like joking around and told me that he dumped me (and I knew he didnt). He was like what?!? I would never dump her. And yesterday he bought me this really cute stuffed animal (dolphin) because he knows that I love dolphins.

-Please someone help me I really need it!!

Hey, your got yourself in a hard situation. I've been in it before ( except i'm a guy that had a grl realy like me ). The best thing to do is to break up with him but tell him he's really sweet and the dolphin was one of the nicest thing anyone's done for you. Just you don't feel you guys are a couple but ask if you can still be freinds. Best wishes.
Sincerely,
snowkid111

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So there's this boy I used to see at school a lot. Now he works at a grocery store in our town. Only he works early in the morning. I've heard a lot of really good things about him lately. Everyone says how amazingly nice he is. And considering nice guys are hard to find, I want to have a fair chance at this guy. But he also has a girlfriend (so I've heard.. from a boy who likes me..)

So I want a chance at him, but I've never spoken to him before, never had a class with him, and I dont have the slightest idea how to approach him and what to say.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

What you should do is slowly become very good freinds with him. You should walkl up to him and ask him for help ask the grocery store and say " Hey, look firmilier, do you go to ________ high?"
Then ask him for his screen name and slowly become freinds and eventually tell him how you feel. Good luck.
Sincerely,
snowkid111

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im 15 and theres this guy (also 15) and we both like each other. At least he says he likes me. right now we're kind of in a friends with benefits position, we dont want to go out becasue he smokes and drinks and i cant deal with that. the thing is, he tells me he wants to be more and that hes trying to quit, and i tell him i wanna be more too..... but the next day he goes tells all his friends that i wanna be more than friends and he leaves himself out of it., i just dont know if i can trust him, or why he does this. any advice?

Hey, if this guy smokes and drinks at 15, thats not a good sign. Tell him to quit in 1 week or you'll dislike him. He's already doing crap to you like you mentioned how you both wanna be more and he only told his freinds about you wanting to be. Think what it's going to be like later if he continues. 1 week to quit if he doesn't your best bet is to get over hm
Sincerely,
snowkid111

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Ok, theres this guy i like, hes a really shy guy till he gets to know you and stuff but anyways, theres this pretty girl that knows him pretty well cuz she has known him longer but she ask me if i thought he was cute and if i liked him and i told her i do and she started flirting with him a couple minutes later. like hitting him and giggling and picking on him and stuff. she was so flirting but...

she KNOWS i like him, and i thought she was my friend. how could she do that? what should i do..i dont have the courage to say anything. that and i dont wanna mess up our friendship but i have been trying to get him to like me and it was working so well, he did like me and then she started that and now i dont know. how can i get him to like me over her and get the point across to her that I like him and shes needs to back off without making her mad?

he is shy and so am I so im not sure about just talking to him cuz he like, never ever talks. but if she flirts with him again this wensday what should i do?

Hey, what you should do is be hang out with him alot and try to act yourself and he'll probably start liking you again. You could also tell some shit ass crap that girl did to make him get mad at her, but bring it up every once and a while and casually. DON'T OVER DO IT.

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I am a 28 year old male with 2girls 4,and9 been with their mom 10years very happy!!Asked her to marry me she said yes ,things were grate 4 amonth and now she cant stand me for the most part but still afectionate and also head strong on moving out pleas help loves ontheline!!!!!

Well if she's like that there's no way you can live a happy life with her. The best option is let her do what she want's but make a contract saying you get to see the girls every other weekend. Eventually you will find somebody else. Good luck.
Sincerely,
snowkid111

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Ok so I have a guy friend, and he's one of my best friends. We have a really good friendship, he's like a brother really. And I love him, and I'm pretty sure he knows it. But he's really hot n heavy with this girl, who I can't stand. She's one of those girls who are really pretty, and knows they are really pretty. I'm not sure what I'm trying to do really, it's just a problem, and it hurts. He'd never do anything to intentionally hurt me, I know that. I'm open to any advice! Thanks!

Hi, well if this girl knows she's pretty she's probably stuck up. ANd if your friend is a great guy he will see that and brake up with her. If shes not then wait, definatley don't bring it up too much around the boy. He'll get annoyed. I no, I'm a guy. But most of all, be yourself and he'll probably see your the better person.

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