Me and my boyfriend have been together for two months now. We are really good together and we really love eachother. Last night i was talking with one of my ex boyfriends. He's a huge pervert and is always telling me to take my clothes off. I told my boyfriend and he seemed really mad, so i asked him. I go, Dan are you mad? He says, no i just love when guys say perverted stuff to my girlfriend. So me and dan got into a huge arguement I said sorry several times and at the end he said apology excepted. I left him a message on myspace saying how sorry i was and that i love him. He wanted to see what my ex was saying to me, but i refused to show him. He got mad at that also. I don't want him to say or do anything to my ex. I blocked my ex and i told Dan im not going to talk to him anymore. Which Im not going to. Dan is out today with his family and he wont be getting the message for a while now. I'm scared he's going to think to hard and this is going to end badly. He says that he loves me and no fight is going to change that. I'm scared, what should I do?
If he loves you as much as he says he does then you have absolutely nothing to worry about, this boy really likes you. He just needs to know that you're in this together that's all, tell him you love him, daily, whenever you see him, be very affectionate. Just try your hardest, he'll realize that you're there for him.
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I know this question isn't as important as most of these on here, but this bothers me! Ok, so there's this guy (haha classic opening line.) and we've kinda been talking and hanging out all summer, so uhm..yeah. let's just call him ian. So anyway, I was online tonight, and this guy who a long time told me he liked me (let's call him Charlie.) and he knows I don't like him, yet he told me to call him. Ok. One, I don't like him.& Two, I don't want to like you go behind ian's back or anything..not that we're going out. Charlie has talked to me before and told me to like meet him at Tacobell. (The only places to hang out around here are fast food restraunts, haha.) but you know I don't like him! and when he told me to call him, i told hima lie and said I couldn't. I really hate lying to people!! But I don't want to hurt his feelings and be like look charlie, I don't want to call you because I don't like you. and I don't feel like talking on the phone with you. I mean god I'm not a bitch! So does anyone know anyway I can get him to stop asking me to go places, without confronting him about it? and please, don't be rude.
Thank you so much!
Are you uncomfortable around him or anything like that?? Because if you are that could be part of the reason. But you could tell him, "Listen charlie, but I really am not... into you, if you know what I mean. I don't wanna be rude to you, but I really don't want to hang with you (and that's where the uncomfortable factor comes in)."
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I have had a crush on a guy from the first day i met him. me and him were pretty good friends we hung out on the weekends and at recess at school but this was about in 1st grade and Im now in 10th grade. we have stayed close through the years but as you know when u get older you split apart. Well things have changed when I got into 5 grade are parents got married. so now he is my stepbro and I cant get over my crush towards him at all. Its weird because everyone knows I like him and says its wrong but within the last yr. things have changed between us we have gotten more sexual and Im realizing I want out of all of this. so how do I get out of these feelings?
Is there another boy you like at your school? If so, try going after him, it might take your mind off your stepbrother. Or try doing more activities away from your house. Anything to keep your mind off him. In the summer try to hang out with friends at their houses more often. During school, try out for sports or after school activities.
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ok. i really like this kid.
& like i dont think he likes me.. but idno.. i wanna see what other people think
At this party..everyone screamed JACIS HERE! (thats me)
& my one friend, told me that the kid i like, got a really big smile on his face & looked at me & then looked down.
& then he was really shy around me.
like he'd talk to every girl but me.
(which i thought was bad but idno)
at this big dance..
all of his baseball friends were like..
are you jaci? do you like colin? or theyd just go are you jaci? & then smile at the kid i like, & he would just look down.
everyone said he looked over at me when i would be on rides or something & watch me.
& then at this like baseball field..
he was with this one kid.. & they kept whispering & the kid i like, would just say sshh shut up , she might hear you.
& stuff like that.
so do you think he likes me?
or no?
& if he does.. how can i make him tell me or something? without telling him i like him?
He likes you, no doubt. In order to get him to admit it to you, you have to tell him you like him first. He's shy and he doesn't know if you like him. He's scared to tell you because he doesn't know how you'll react. Just make the first move, you'll see.
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ughhh!!! im so sick of this. Ok well im soooo scared to say i love u too lets call him..T well hes well out he, had to fly and i hate when people really close to me fly and well i get so nervous until i hear from them again and i justheard from him like a min. ago. i was relieved but well im sad,scared,nervous,and sick if you know what i mean! but ever scnce friday before T left i wanted to you know say it before we got off the phone i would get so nervous and crap like that. but well i talk to my mom she said tell him i talked to my brother who had experience he said he doesnt love you back dont say it. Ok ive been told by ppl on this site to say it but for some reason i just cant i cant seem to get the stupid words out.!!! there is always like a hesitation or a quick bye before we get off, maybe its just me but im pretty sure its not! idont know what to do im like going to cry. im so confused and hurt and i hate it!! im so sick of it!!! please tell me what i should do!!
You're not ready to say it. Your brain is telling you to but your feelings say otherwise. Don't force yourself to do something you're not ready for, you're just.... caught up. You have mixed feelings and you're not quite sure what to do, give it time.
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Okay well, in the past I have had a good amount of boyfriends. Im turning 16 and I have had about 6. I dunno seems like a fair amount. Anyway, in the beggining of my relationships everything is great, I usually like them a lot and everything is just... well great! but then I lose interest in the guy and it usually occurs the second week of dating. And I quickly try and avoid the "boyfriend" at school or say i am busy for dates because I feel uncomfortable, like I dont understand! They do not do anything wrong and they are great people it's just weird. Although my last boyfriend and I lasted 3 months and I only started getting that feeling the 2nd month (I know i am horrible at breaking up with guys and I really wanted to make it work so I kept telling myself you like him a lot dont break up with him, wait it out, but whatever that was a failure) it feels like I am never going to find a soulmate that it right for me cuz then I will get a stupid funny feeling saying oh no you dont like him, break up, run away! It's harder than what it seems. And I am actually really scared because how am I supposed to fall in love and have kids and get a husband!?!?! :( this is like something i am terrified of and have been terrified of for a long time. Help please =/
I think the problem is that your brain tells you, you like him, but you really don't. That's why you get that uncomfortable feeling. You don't feel like you should be with him, I'm sure that as soon as you really find your soulmate you'll know. You won't get that uncomfortable feeling.
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i met this guy ages ago through a friend on msn...hes really nice and everything but i want to start flirting with him, as i really like him and he really like me..but the problem is i dont no how to! does anyone have any tips?
thanx a lot xxx
Play 20 questions, make the kissy face smiley at him. Joke around a lot, in a cute way. A lot of the time, you may be flirting but you just don't know it.
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i am a girl 14 and i like my neighbor who is 15 and i told him how i felt but he never said anything bac from then on it was really awkward between us but now i have been seein him more and he has become so much nicer he even IM's me now he go's to all my softball games and all that but i still don't know if he likes me or not he never told me what should i do?
He's coming around. He's excepting the fact that you like him. He was probably a little shocked at first because he probably likes you, but never had the nerve to tell you. Just be nice to him like you always are. If he does like you I'm sure he'll come out and tell you when he's ready. But that doesn't mean that it will be tomorrow. It could take a long time.
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my boyfriend and i had been going out since febuary 17, 2004 so a little over 2 years, everything was perfect we were madly inlove and it was so nice and great he helped me when i needed him and he would help me everything he was my prince charming!!! but anyway one night we were at a big party my good friend had this summer it was in june like june 10th around then, but anyway and there is this girl who loves my old bf i mean she would do anything in her power to try to break us up. she pulled out a bottle and demanded we play spin the bottle! i didnt want to because i figured she mad it so it would land on him and of course it did he told her he would only kiss me and thats it! and she jumped on him and started making out with him the worst part was he started making out with her back and i know because i saw his tongue involved. after my friend pulled the girl off of my bf he stared at me and i just started crying i usually dont cry but something made me want to cry!!! he came by me and hugged me and i pushed him to the ground he tried to apologize but i didnt want to hear it my best guy friend came over and hugged me and told me that he was a jerk and that everything was going to be ok. i didnt talk to my bf the rest of the night then next day i checked my email and there was 10 emails all with the same subject i dont like her is what they all said, so i told him i finally forgave him and things were good for about a week then he invited me over and i decided to go biiig mistake when he came to the door i noticed his friends b. and j. were there with there girlfriends who i knew and we were friends it was all good and everything was going great until his neighbor (who is the girl i hate who loves him) came over she and him flirted the whole time in front of me and then if it didnt get anyworse she started kissing him and touchin his tush again he just let her do it but this time i threw this soccerball on the ground at them while they were kissing and slammed the door on my way out. he chased after me and grabbed me \"babe i\'m sorry she just kisses so well i cant stop!\" i smacked him across the face and tried to get him to let go of me but he wouldnt \"im not cheating on you i love you and you know that\" he said \"do i\" i snapped back and kicked him in the nuts and walked off he told me he was sorry but i told him that we couldnt go out anymore and its been 3 days since i told him we couldnt go out now he wont stop calling me sending me emails practically stalking me telling me hes so sorry and loves me and wont do it anymore but i dont know i have to admitt i still love him but i dont want to be hurt anymore i really miss him but i dont like being treated like this please tell me what you think
Wow. I think you guys need to have a serious talk. You should tell him that he needs to stop whatever's going on with this girl. Well that is if you still want to be with him. If this girl keeps getting in your way with your boyfriend, tell her she needs to back off. You're letting her do this to you, and you're getting hurt. You shouldn't have to put up with that. On the other hand, your boyfriend has to learn when to say no. He's not helping himself out much here. He's keeping this going.
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hi-i need your help. i really like this guy. he cute, funny, and athletic. i've talked to him before but only had one conversation. he also smiles at me and stays around me but never told me that he likes me. its obvious that he likes me but i might not see him again. since the school year his over, he graduated and i have two more year left before i graduate. the only memory i have about him is our middle school year book. he is going to a different high school then me (because i am switching schools and it goes into a high school) and i've never seen him out side of school before. also my friends always talk about him. they say how weird he is and are mean to him but its too late for me to stop it. also i wouldn't want to look stupid if i stand up for him. they think that he is a geek but actually he is one of the coolest guys in our school. (he isn't nerdy looking or has glasses or any of that stuff) i have no idea what to do if i see him. the next time i see him could be in 2 years and i already might have gotten over him. please tell me what to do. thanks!
If you feel like you need to like him, or if you like him so much you're at bursting point then if I were you I would tell him. Also, tell your friends, but if you're embarrassed, casually slip it in when they're talking about him. That way they might not be as awed.
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ok so i kinda hang out with this guy && im pretty sure i like him! now my parents know what kind of guy he is.... hes kinda bad ass && girl happy! they dont want me w/ some1 like that. they told me "i shouldnt get to up close && personal" i see my crush like every weekend && everytime i see him i just want to cry b/c i know my parents dont want me to be with him!!!!!!!! im pretty sure my crush likes me too but i think he knows my parents dont want me with him.... i just dont know what to do! i want to date him so bad but i dont want my parents mad at me!!!
Well, you could sort of explain to them that you don't want anyone else. If you feel he's the one then tell them that. Explain to them how much you like him. If that doesn't work you could "not date him" as in, date him but not in front of your parents. But that's a risk. You might be caught, and I know you don't want that.
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Ok agian I am a 14/m in a wheelchair and I have this friend lets call her S and she and me talk almost once a week on the phone or online cause she is in minnesota for the summer and she has been asking me advice about this other boy that has a girlfriend but they both lik eachother and well after all of that talking with her I was sitting in my room going through the year book and I kept thinking "Why Can't I be that boy that she likes" and I have been having this crush on her and I am scared to tell her cause I don't want our friendship to go bad and have her mad at me cause I have had that happen before
What should I do?
Well, imagine that was you talking about the girl you like, to another girl, who came right out and told you that she liked you. How would you feel? If you told this S girl at the right moment, I don't think she would hate you.
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