So me and this guy are planning on going to a haunted house next weeked, the thing is I get scared really really easily and i don't want to look stupid. Me and him aren't going out but I kind of dout he likes me but I like him. Also It'll be kind of cold, what should I wear to still look cute? And how can I look mature and not freak out?
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I am the same exact way! In fact I had the same problem last weekend. My friends and I all went to a haunted house, but I get scared really easilly. I can't even watch like harry potter lol. Well anyway, I realized that it wasn't that bad, and when people jumped out at us everyone was screaming also. The guy you're going with also is probably taking you there for a reason. He most likely wants you to get scared so he can "protect you" by holding you or holding your hand. He probably likes you too! When you scream, don't make it seem like you're embarrassed after you do it. Instead, laugh. Also for what to wear:
Long sleeve shirt
Zipper up jacket over that
Sweatshirt
Leggings
Jeans over the leggings
boots
Hair in loose pigtails with a headband
All those layers may sound silly, but trust me they will keep you warm and no one will see what's underneath the sweatshirt and jeans.
Please tell me if this helped or not!
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i like this guy wat should i do??
Start by getting to know him better, talk to him in class or any other time you see him. If you can't think of anything to talk about bring up things like music, tv, movies, stuff that's happening in school, and stuff that's happening in the world. Remember to laugh if he says something funny, smile a lot, ask questions to things that he says, be friendly, and be outgoing. If you do these things then he will want to be around you more and that would be a great start on wanting to go out with you.
Hope I could help!
-Mallory
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I feel bad for duming her. I dumped her because i felt bad about dating her because my parents did not want me to.If i date her again i will feel bad for disobeying my parents. what can i do?
And if there is no hope for me what do people do to make themselves happier?
I think that you should tell her exactly what you just said. That way she will understand and not think that you don't like her. Tell her that you still have feelings for her, but now with your parents its' just not the right time to go out with her. Also tell her that you still want to hang out with her. If you tell her these things then I am sure she will be happier. Hope I could help!
-Mal
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(Sorry this is so long)
I have a crush on this guy, and I have for a while. Like...ever since school started. I was doing this psychic board thing (Kinda like an oija board) and usually I never believe those things, but it kept insisting that he liked me, too.
So I kinda went along with it still not believing it, and kinda watched what he did around me. I started talking to him online and he gets really nervous and doesn't know what to say and won't talk a lot. In school, he looks at me and stretches in the middle of class and he'll accidently touch my leg or my desk or something and pull back his hand, blush, and say: "Oh, I'm sorry." And I always laugh at my jokes, because if I don't he'll look back at me and then kinda bow his head.
Anyways, my friend has had a crush on the guy since she was in Preschool. She's in 8th grade with me now. She's really jealous because I keep telling her I think he likes me, and finally she told me how much she likes him, and how they used to be best friends but then he became popular and they grew apart.
So whenever I talk about him she gets really jealous and hurt and yells at me to stop talking. I'm afraid if I go out with the guy she'll have a nervous breakdown, or be afraid to hang out with me anymore.
So my two questions:
1. Do you think this guy likes me? If so, should I ask him out?
2. Do you think if he does like me, SHOULD I ask him out? Or should I be considerate of my friend? Because she said she's never going to actually ask him out, 'cause she knows he would say no, but she doesn't want me going out with him.
What should I do?
Thanks!!! ♥
I rate HIGH!
There is a good chance that he might like you, and the only way to find out for sure is to ask him, but I do think honestly that you shouldn't go out with him if he does like you because friends are far more important than boyfriends, and i don't think that this is worth losing a friend. I've liked somebody for three years and i know that if i knew one of my friends liked him and thought that he liked her i would be mad because you just don't do that to friends. I know that you can't help who you like, but I would suggest not talking about him as much in front of your friend. Hope I could help!
-Mallory
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ive had aboyfriend for 17 years and i think hes is going to dump me tonight or he might keep me should i be nervouse
You need to talk about it with him. If you've had him for 17 years and really love him than you can't let him just throw all of that away. Tell him that you two have been together for so long and and that you really love him (if you do) and he can't just throw all of that away. Than say that you're not really sure whether he loves you as much as you love him. I don't think you should be nervous... I believe everything happens for a reason in life - it's fate. If you two were really ment to be together I think that he would realize it and not dump you. If not and he dumps you, you may feel heartbroken, but that's just the way life is.
Hope I could help!
-Mallory
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Okay my question I had posted was
Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??
and I didn't mean.. "am i too old" i meant how old is too old for me too go out with.. so if u answered my last question wrong I am sorry I didn't state my question clearly and if u wanna answer again.. just do it!!
I would say you shouldn't go out with guys any older than 16. Older guys can sometimes not be the best to go out with. They are more mature so you may feel obligated and they will want you to do things with them that you may not be ready to do.
hope i could help!
-Mallory
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Ok, Recently i told this boy lets call him kyle i like him and i really have major feelings for him and he told me he has serious feelings for me we keep writing to eachother and flirting but i have a boyfriend... lets call him justin and kyle and justin sit at the same table at lunch and usually justin walks me to gym and he forgot about me and i forgot about him and is that a sign to break up with justin and go out with kyle? please help me i know this is confusing but i really need help! i'll rate high!
Well,it probably wasn't the best idea to tell Kyle your feelings about him since you were still going out with Justin. Do you still like Justin? If your confused whether you still like him or not think about this: Do you love to be around him? Does your heart pound when you're near him or you see him? If you were with him while you were crying could he put a smile on your face? If yes is the answer to these questions then you probably still like him. If no is the answer then you probably don't. Now, which guy would you rather be with... Justin or Kyle? If Kyle is the answer then dump Justin... it's not fair to be going out with him if you have feelings for Kyle. If Justin is the answer but you still like Kyle you have two choices - stay with Justin or go single. I personally think that the best decision would be for you to go single because its not fair to Justin or Kyle if lets say you stay with Justin but you still like Kyle becaue the guy you go out with should be the only guy in your heart.
Hope I could help!
-Mallory
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i'll rate 5's!! PLEAZZ HELLP MEE!!
I like this kid a lot. My friend is on his bus and they are both friends, she helped us become boyfriend and girlfriend. I think she may like him because she always talks about their inside jokes together. It started to annoy me, but i didn't tell her that. Then her and I started to get into fights for no reason but we always made up. One of the fights my friend michelle told her i was mad because i thought that she liked eric (my boyfriend.) She said she didn't though, so we made up. We haven't been getting into fights lately, but her and eric have recently gotten in a fight where they told each other they weren't going to be friends anymore. My friend was cursing about him behind his back and saying all these bad things about him like how rude he was. That upset me. Then one day on the bus she sat with him and when she came into school she said to me that she wasn't mad at him and then in a very dreamy voice she said "We sat together, we talkedm, and we laughed." I told my boyfriend about this and how i felt like she liked him and he said that he only liked me and i didn't have to worry about him ever liking her. I don't want to talk to my friend about it because we will get into another fight and i can't stand that. Now they are friends again. My friend told me that she had a dream that a really hot guy who looked like eric liked her and then today she told me that in the game sims she made me and eric be married and that i cheated on him and he turned out to be gay. Do you think my friend want likes him and wants him to like her? Do you think my boyfriend likes her? What should I do about this situation? I can't tell my friend how I feel and i won't dump my boyfriend because i like him too much. Please help!
i dont think that your boyfriend likes your friend, but i think that your friend likes your boyfriend. she probably hasn't told you so because she didnt want to hurt your feelings or for you two to get in a fight. you cant tell her who she can like and who she cant, her heart does what it wants. since shes your friend and all, i dont think that she wants to take him away from you, but she can't help liking him. imagine being in her position. lets say that your friend is the one going out with your boyfriend and you secretly like him. would you tell her about it? you probably wouldn't because you wouldn't want to hurt her feelings and you probably wouldn't want to take him away from her. I think your friend is just trying to be a good friend by not telling you so that you won't get mad. If the fights you have been getting into lately were about your boyfriend, try to stay away from that topic. Don't worry about her liking him, he doesnt like her and people can't control who they like. hope i could help!
-mallory
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I starting going out with this one guy from my school at a ski lodge. He called me at midnight and kept saying how much he loved me, and he only knew me for 12 hours? I dumped him the next morning becuase i found out he was going out with TWO other girls that i didn't know about, at the same time We were going out. he also told those two girls that he "never went out with me" and "NEVER would" I completly freaked out on him at lunch and even slapped him. He denyed everythingg! I also heard of all these gurls he apparently screwed. What can i say tomorrow to him at lunch to make him spit out the truth??
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if he ever called you on your cell phone and left a message, play back the message to him. if not, then if there were other people around when you guys started going out and witnessed it, then have them tell him that they saw it and heard it so theres nothing he can do about it. this is a tough one, hope i could help! good luck!
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This bitch lets call her Allie stole my crush from me. Then my friend Carley told her I liked him and Allie called me a slut to my face and now all my friends are turning on me. You don't know how bad I want this boy, and want my friends back. I mean I liked him first and this girl is younger then him. I'm so confused, what should I do?
first of all, always remember that friends are more important than boyfriends and crushes. boyfriends and crushes are nice to have but friends are always there for you. your friends are probably mad because you probably are acting jealous of Allie. Allie probably didnt truely mean to call you a slut, she was probably just mad that you like her boyfriend. i know sorrys are hard to do, but you'll realize how much better things will get in the end. even if you never really did anything mean or to harm anyone just say sorry for the heck of it, cuz sometimes people misunderstand things or take things the wrong way. first, tell Allie that you're sorry about the way you acted about her going out with your crush and that even though you like him, you don't mind (say you don't mind even if you do cuz that way your acting polite) if she goes out with him. next, apoligize to your friends. do this soon before its too late and they're all mad at you. say that your sorry that you acted jealous of Allie and tell them that you already apoligized to her. then say that friends are one of the most important things to you and that you dont want to loose them for anything.
hope that i could help and that everything goes well!
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Well, I was on the way to school, and my girlfriend came up to me and said she likes another guy. So she is deciding whether to go out with me or the other guy. should I even still go out with her? should I like her anymore?
you should brake up with her. even if she stays with you and still likes the other guy you should be the only one she likes and she shouldnt have to decide between you and another guy.
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(sorry for the length) Ok my boy friend and I have been together for roughly seven months. A week before we started going out we would stay up till like 4 or 5 in the morning talking with each other. Now he seems to be more interested in a comnputer game than in me. When we're both online at the same time he doesn't seem to want to talk to me much. Well a few months back his friend sent me this conversation they had about me and it really hurt me because my bf said some very hurtful things about me. I asked him aobut it and he had stayed home sick the day that conversation occured and was on a lot of medicne and he blamed it on that. After I read that conversation I thought my heart broke. I want to tell him that I love him and I want to know if he feels the same way about me, but I'm kinda afraid of what his response would be. What should I do?
if he truely loved you then he wouldn't say those things about you to his friend and he would want to talk to you online instead of playing games and not wanting to talk to you. he might be using you. even if you did talk to him about this i dont think it would help because he'd probably just lie. im not saying that you should definetly do this or anything but you may want to consider breaking up. it sounds like you want to keep holding on but if he keeps not treating you right then you gotta let go. remember the old saying, there are plenty other fish in the sea! one day you'll find the perfect one and he'll treat you better. hope i could help!
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I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿
yes! if your his girlfriend then you should be the ONLY one he likes.
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now, which isnt much, but his birthday is coming up very soon and i dont kno what to get him. What do i get?
I think you should take him to a really expensive and fancy resturant for a romantic dinner and buy him a really nice and expensive cologne.
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So Im really starting to develop a thing for a friend of mine, but it gets even worse than that. Im 18m shes 15f its not a huge difference but still. She also has a boyfriend putting me in an even tougher situation. Im also pretty sure she doesnt even think of me in anykind of romantic sense, even if she didnt have a bf. I really dont know what kind of advice to even ask for mostly im jsut venting and seeing what kind of comments/advice im gonna get.
dont say anything about ur feelings for her until she ends her relationship with her current bf. you dont want to be a reason for a bad breakup. when they do breakup, an idea for telling her ur feelings for her could be sending her flowers with a love poem attached. then at the end of the poem write would you like to be my girlfriend and then have yes and no written and write to circle one.
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Ok, My boyfriend and I got in a fight that got misunderstood and now my Boyfriend doesn't want to be with me anymore... I feel awful!! What should I tell him??? He knows it was misunderstanding but he doesn't belive me!! PLZ HELP SOON!!!
tell him exactly what happened from your point of view. then say that you truely love him (if you do truely love him) and that relationships aren't always a smooth road, there are bumps along the way. then say but we have to work through those bumps or else we'll lose everything. being in a relationship means trusting and understanding the other person through the smooth road and the bumps. after that say that you love him so much and you would never want to lose him for anything. when your finished telling him everything, if he doesnt want to stay with you then he obviously doesnt trust you and you should find someone better. hope i could help!
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Besides identifiable sexual attraction, how can one tell the difference between a crush and great love for a friend? If a friend really wants physical contact with another friend, but not necessarily sex, what is that?
Please answer. I really will rate.
maybe whomever you are talking about does have great love for you, but doesnt want to go as far as sex until marriage. i do also agree that if you really loved someone it wouldnt matter how much you were messing around w/ them, but that only occurs to some people which is fine. others like to save it until marriage. he probably wants to get close to you, mess around w/ you, but just not go to sex. hope i could help!
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ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx!
well thats pretty dumb to have had sex when hes eleven, i mean most people dont even think about it then, but considering you REALLY like him, you never know, maybe hes changed. i would say go out w/ him. if he starts gettin a lil too close to you and even just mentions sex, no matter what dump him for your sake and dont let him pressure you into anything. if he never mentions sex and goes just as far as u want.. then thats great and probably means that he really does like u. also if he wants u to like take your clothes off or feel you or something like that, then ya hes just using you and definetly dump him then. hope i could help!
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I have a prob. my bf knows how to kiss n wants to kiss me but ive neva kissed any1! i want to kiss him, but...
ok well go out w/ him to like a movie at nite, not mentioning the kiss. then rite when u have to leave, lean in, close your eyes, and kiss him. sry the way im explaining this isnt that detailed, but you'll just kno how to when you do it. its a natural kind of feeling and thing to do that cant really be taught, you'll just kno. hope i could help!
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theres this guy who i really like, but im not sure if he likes me back. i kno him a little and he seems to look at me a lot, but maybe thats just me thinking that. anyways how can i tell if he likes me or not?
ok if you have a friend that is going out w/ one of his friends or is good friends w/ him or one of his friends go out to like a movie or somethin w/ ur friend, him, and his friend and get to kno him better. talk to him looking into his eyes because if you dont make eye contact he could think your not really interested in talking to him. flirt w/ him a little, but dont overdue it and smile a lot. ask him open ended questions that he cant just answer w/ a yes or no and listen carefully to what hes saying so that he enjoys talking to you. at the end of the nite say that you had a lot of fun hanging out w/ him and u were wondering he he was interested in doing something again sometime. after you hang out w/ him a couple more times explain your feelings to him, but make sure to do it in person so that you can actually see how he reacts. hope i helped! if u need anything else just put it up here or instant message me
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