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This guy.
(Sorry this is so long)
I have a crush on this guy, and I have for a while. Like...ever since school started. I was doing this psychic board thing (Kinda like an oija board) and usually I never believe those things, but it kept insisting that he liked me, too.
So I kinda went along with it still not believing it, and kinda watched what he did around me. I started talking to him online and he gets really nervous and doesn't know what to say and won't talk a lot. In school, he looks at me and stretches in the middle of class and he'll accidently touch my leg or my desk or something and pull back his hand, blush, and say: "Oh, I'm sorry." And I always laugh at my jokes, because if I don't he'll look back at me and then kinda bow his head.
Anyways, my friend has had a crush on the guy since she was in Preschool. She's in 8th grade with me now. She's really jealous because I keep telling her I think he likes me, and finally she told me how much she likes him, and how they used to be best friends but then he became popular and they grew apart.
So whenever I talk about him she gets really jealous and hurt and yells at me to stop talking. I'm afraid if I go out with the guy she'll have a nervous breakdown, or be afraid to hang out with me anymore.
So my two questions:
1. Do you think this guy likes me? If so, should I ask him out?
2. Do you think if he does like me, SHOULD I ask him out? Or should I be considerate of my friend? Because she said she's never going to actually ask him out, 'cause she knows he would say no, but she doesn't want me going out with him.
What should I do?
Thanks!!! ♥
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Well, I really would have never talked about him in front of your friend. That just makes her more jealous than before. And secondly i think that it would be good for him to ask you out that way if you say yes it would the fact that he came to you and not that you went to him because your friend might think that your trying to steal her thunder or her crush.
I really do think that if he does ask you you probably need to discuss it with your so called friend because if she cares about you at all as a friend then she would be happy for you and just move on.
Good luck to ya!
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There is a good chance that he might like you, and the only way to find out for sure is to ask him, but I do think honestly that you shouldn't go out with him if he does like you because friends are far more important than boyfriends, and i don't think that this is worth losing a friend. I've liked somebody for three years and i know that if i knew one of my friends liked him and thought that he liked her i would be mad because you just don't do that to friends. I know that you can't help who you like, but I would suggest not talking about him as much in front of your friend. Hope I could help!
-Mallory <33
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I always say this but it's true- friends are there for a lifetime but guys come and go especially at your age. You've gotta ask yourself what would create the most hurt? 1) you not being able to go out with the guy you fancy or 2) your friend feeling betrayed because you started something with this guy when she fancied him and after she specifically said she didn't want you to go out with him. It is hard because no noe can help their feelings and who they fall for but at the end of the day friends should come first. Good luck
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