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Sup, I'm Lyss. :]I joined Advicenators, because I have a knack for giving people advice. I've been through a lot, including mental and physical abuse, deaths of family members, friends that betray, and more. I help everyone, and I'll always give advice to anyone that asks for it.
I'll never reject a private question, unless it's inappropriate.
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okay so i like this guy and his birthday is coming up this week, and we're pretty good friends. he's turning fourteen, what should i get him or make him? we're not going out..at least not yet so it has to be friendly but special :) kthx for your help
ps. i need to get him something because my birthday's comming up after his and he said he'd get me something.
Get him something that would mean a lot to him. I'm still confused for what to get guys, in all reality. :]
But I've liked this guy for... ever, basically. He's really into skating and our favourite band is Avenged Sevenfold, so for Christmas this year, I'm getting him an Avenged Sevenfold skate deck. Something like that.
If he plays guitar, maybe you could get him a book of tabs and chords for one of his favourite bands. I've also done that for a guy that I liked. :]
Make a card for him, and include all the good times you've had.
Hope I helped. :]
first of all i think i spelled unrequited wrong but whatever. 13/f ok well i really, really, really like this guy A LOT! but there are a few problems. 1. he has a girflried 2. she is one of my friends 3. we (me and him) are really good friends 4. well we're always joking around and we're the kind of friends whose conversations go like: your ugly! your mom! go die! but we're always totally kidding 5. it's really complicated 6. even if he broke up with his girflriend, I don't think he would like me
so I don't know what to do. I REALLY REALLY REALLY like him! please give me some advice
Consider which is more important, how you feel about him, or your friendship with his him and his girlfriend.
I wouldn't do anything to break them up, because that could end really messy, and jeopardize your friendship with both of them.
I was in this position a while ago, and I waited until they broke up, and then I got really close to him.
If you think it's possible that he might like you, you may want to do that. But it is possible that he could only see you as a friend. Has he ever sent you signals that he might like you?
Wait and see how their relationship goes, and make decisions accordingly.
I hope I helped. :]
Okay i have this good friend of mine and well i wanna get closer with her before i ask her out, please advise a few ways i can do this without letting on that i like her
As a given, hang out with her more. Be more friendly towards her. Surprise her with something that she likes (my friend brought me flowers in the morning on my birthday before he asked me out). Talk to her more, and be more flirty; hug her more or pretend to be hurt when she doesn't hug you.
16/m
Hi- I had sex with my boyfriend about 3 months ago without realizing he had HIV.. I asked him..and he lied and told me he didn't have it..
So- When I went for my yearly doctor check-up(last week).. my doctor wanted to give me an HIV test because I'm homosexual..
and it came out positive.. and I know its from my boyfriend because he's the only one i've had sex with.. ever..
So should I be mad at my boyfriend? or should I be mad at myself because I didn't know he had HIV...
Also- my doctor told me that my HIV is going to result in AIDS in about 5 years..
Please help!
-Jason
If he didn't know that he had it, then you can't really be mad at him.
But if he did know, then you have every right to be mad at him.
Don't be mad at yourself, because he lied (knowingly or not) to you.
My best friend and me like the same guy but i dont want to tell her that i like him to. She talks about him all the time and it makes me sad becuase i have to keep my feeling inside. He asked her to homecoming so i dont know what to do. If i should tell her how i feel or just go on like nothing happen
I'm actually in the situation right now, except the boy that we both like is our other best friend, and he asked her to homecomming... it's kind of complicated. Haha.
When I told my friend that I liked him, and was going to tell him, she got very defensive about it, and said "Why would you do that if we like each other?" I thought that he had the right to know that I liked him.
I wouldn't go on like nothing happened, because chances are, you'll regret it later, and it'll be a huge sticky mess.
Talk to your friend, definitely. It all depends on her reaction. If she's fine with it, then more power to you. If not, then try to explain your point of view to her.
I can't tell you how my story ends, because I haven't had the chance to tell him how I feel yet. :]
I hope everything works out for you.
i like this guy, were both shy. so we dont talk much but he kinda likes me and i kinda like him. but he also likes this girl that is a complete slut and uses people. everybody jokes him for it and says shes just using him and she does stuff with other guys, all my friends & his friends tell him he should go out with me instead of her but how can i get him to really like me instead, & also what are ways of flirting without like completly flirting and ways to bring up conversations
I'm kind of shy, too, so I know what you're going through. Talk to him, ask him what he's doing on Friday, or over the weekend. Invite him to something that you and your friends are doing. Ask him what he's into, if he's into music, ask what artists he likes, and be interested in it.
Make him feel like you're someone that he can trust.
I just moved recently to another country far away fromo home for 2 years. I liked this guy in my class ALOT last year. We didnt know each other that well so i tried to become better friends with him. Then i the middle of the school year, he switched schools, but he was still in my neighborhood. On his last day of school at out school my friend told him that i liked him. So after that i always ran away when i saw him in my neighborhood(which i now know is really stupid) and because i waas so stupid, he hated me. He left this summer and i miss him alot. I cant talk to him because hes barely ever online and i dont even think he would talk to me if i IMed him. I dont have him phone number and i dont know where he lives. My friends all say to forget about him because they think he was acting like a jerk and ive tried and i dont think i like hiim anymore but i still miss him. Any advice??
It depends on how strongly you feel about him. If he's completely worth it, then you'll find a way to contact him, and maybe apologize for what you did.
If not, then I'd agree with your friends. Find someone else that you'll see more often.
There's this boy that I am on and off with. I mean I really like him but I have a tendency to find the tiny bad things in people and trip over it completely and normally that's why I have dumped him a lot. I don't know if I should give him a longer chance and stick with him or move on... But I do really like him and I always will and I know that I get jealous when girls flirt with him. What should I do?
If you really do like him, and always will, and if you get jealous when girls flirt with him, you should definitely give it a longer chance.
Don't concentrate on the bad things, however hard that will be, and just remember the good things about him, like what made you like him so much in the first place.
ahh i can't wait! i obsess over christmas bcause thats when i get to see my crush (at camp) i don't care about anything anymore, i dont care about how i look, or what i do.. all i care about is that during christmas i have to be perfect. nothing really matters for me anymore because it feels like only christmas matters! if that makes sense? haha i just want to see him so badly! so what's my question?
i have a few..
1) is this healthy?
or should i maybe get over it?
2) what can i do to make the days go faster?
more specifically: is it a bad idea to count the days?
will that make it so that it feels like time goes slowly, or the otehr way around.. like the days just fly by??
thanks advicenators :D
1) It's not healthy to not care about anything anymore. It's perfectly fine that you want to see your crush, we all can realate to that. :)
2) Talk to him on AIM or via myspace (if he has either, that is). Counting the days will most definitely make the days go by slowly. Get involved in a sport in your school, or spend more time with friends.