What kind of guy just decides he wants to be with a girl after not talking to her in soooo long? I am afraid he (and you) expect things to be the same as they were before, but people change with time. Make him give you a reason to get back together and decide whether or not he is going to be serious or is using you so he won't be single. You know him better than I do so it's your decision of course! But I advise you to get with Brennon. After all, you have been crushing on him! lol... Hope I was helpful & not too annoying...

Leading up to doing it is kinda scary, yeah. But once you're actually kissing it's like the coolest thing in the world. The "scary" part is anticipating it. After that your instincts just pretty much take over and it's fun.

My exboyfriend and I were kinda like that too. He was being very hard to read and sometimes it seemed like he loved be, but other times it was like he flat out hated me. And he wouldn't answer any of my questions about how he felt. He'd say "I don't know" so finally I just asked him out because then he'd HAVE to answer yes or no. But enough about me. I suggest that you do something similar to what I did. It may be hard asking, but it's not as bad as driving yourself crazy over not knowing. (Trust me!) Then if he says yes, congratulations! If he says no, then you'll know that he doesn't want to be back with you and you can begin to move on. Just ask him out and (hopefully) he'll be honest with his answer. Good luck; I hope I helped!

Whoa... this is the third question I've been able to relate to today! Weird! My bf and I broke up during summer too. Never talked or ever even saw each other. Once school got back in he was flat out weird. Sometimes he would seem to hate me, other times it felt like we were still a couple. I'd ask him questions like how he felt about me, but that got me nowhere because he'd always say "I don't know." So finally I just got tired of wondering and wrote him a straight forward note. I asked him out, then added that I really liked him but wasn't sure how he felt and I wasn't sure how to find out besides this. So, we're back together now. We're not picking up where we left off, but we're rebuilding things and I'm really happy that we're together again. So I suggest that you're just straight forward with him. If you two were really close, you should be used to talking to him about personal feelings & stuff. That should make it easier to be open & honest with him. Also keep in mind that guys can be shy. Maybe he still likes you too. You'll never know if neither of you say anything. Go for it; no turning back. Good luck!

I had a similar problem with my ex. Even now that we're going out he still flirts with my friend. I know what you mean about the play fighting. I get so annoyed because any time she comes around, one of them starts something with the other and I'm left out. I think you have the right to be mad at her. I also think it would be good for the two of you to talk, though. (Before you backhand her and get in a fight then wind up with "Loser" written on your head with highlighter. lol!) Just tell her that whether she's flirting or not, it bothers you. One thing that would be nice to know is whether your ex thinks she's flirting. Maybe you can get her to talk to him and find out if he considers it flirting and if he likes her. He might even use this flirting to try and make you jealous. It's hard to know. Just hang in there. Things will hopefully get better because if your friend is a REAL friend, she'll understand how you feel. If you want to be really brave just go up to you ex and tell him you love him and see what happens. But I'm not even brave enough to do that. lol! Anyway... Good luck! I hope I was helpful!

Guys are just pains. They lead you on. They'll flirt just for the heck of it. Even if you're hot, they might not want to be tied down to you. See what I'm saying? He sounds like he was just having fun messing around with you.
Sorry. :(

It depends on what message you are trying to send him. If you're telling him you like him say, "You are so cool" or something. If you are doing it just for the sake of doing it, say "Hey" or something simple. Good luck with that...

Depending on what you're telling the guy, you might want to see his reaction. So in person would be the best. But if you just don't know how to get the words out, pass him a note but stay to watch him read it and let him reply. Then you are probably able to start a conversation. That's my opinion, anyway.

Looks & friends' opinions aren't good things to go by. If you're not close, I think you ought to start talking to him some more when you get the chance. Maybe write him a note or something. Don't confess you're feelings for him until you've confirmed that you really do have feelings for him. Good luck!

If you like him as much as you say, you should know the type of stuff he likes. So just casually talk to him when he's got nothing else to do. Don't just ask a 'yes or no' question because once he answers, he probably won't elaborate. Try to find something you have in common and let him get to know you better. Be patient and wait to ask if he likes you. Things like this take time. Good luck; hope I helped! By the way, I've been in your shoes before! It isn't exactly much fun.
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Well, Why do you like him? Try complimenting him on his good qualities. Get to know him and let him get to know you. Don't expect love at first sight. Be patient and wait to ask him out. Maybe he'll even ask you! Good luck! Hope I helped.

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