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For the second time in my life, I am dating a virgin. The last time I blew it by letting my sex drive push me to push him away. I need help on how to not get so bent out of shape about not having sex.
I have "toys". I use them. I pleasure myself often. I still want to have sex. Now, I am dreaming about my ex. I hate it. I hate my ex. Even if I met up with ex, it would only be for sex and undermine all the relationship I have been building with my current boyfriend.
I love him so much it hurts. I hope that he will propose to me next year, but I am becoming meaner and meaner. I try to pet myself with shopping or other pampering. I enjoy crosstitching and stuff. I need another clue. (link)
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i hear ya on the sexual frustration bit i get so sexually frustrated i could scream and i do also get really mean at times from lack of sex even tho you have toys they are no substitution for the real thing trust me and if he dont wanna give it up then you have to make a decision if he is worth the wait if so deal with the possiblility that you may not get sex or anything else you may need from him like a proposal i would let him know your feelings you have given him ample time to make up his mind then you have to make up yours is he worth it or not if not let him go if so wait if you feel you must go to your ex for a sexual encounter then be honest with him and yourself that is what it is and nothing more take care and good luck
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I'm 25/Female and stuck! I'm in a serious relationship, but still haven't completely gotten over my first relationship back in high school. That guy and I don't talk anymore, but he constantly visits my website, so I know he's at least thinking of me too. My question is, is it a bad idea to make contact with him, or am I setting myself for more trouble by just being silent? I guess it depends if you're practical or whimsical, and I'm a little of both. (link)
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if you cant get over him then you are stuck in the past find out about why he is visiting your website maybe he wans you back maybe he just likes your website you have to follow your heart it will lead you to the right decision take care
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I have a boyfriend that i love alot but he hits me.But he say he sorry and he won't do it again but he keeps doing it. He said if I leave him then he will kill me.I'm so scared that he's telling the truth .He's already put me in the hospital 2 times I don't know what to do.So I need help ASAP if anyone can help me please.My life is on the line!
Love Apple (link)
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YES APPLE DEAR YOUR LIFE IS ON THE LINE AND IF YOU STAY WITH HIM YOUR LIFE WILL BE IN CONSTANT DANGER MEN THAT THREATEN TO HURT YOU OR EVEN KILL YOU ARE USUALLY GOING TO DO IT ONE DAY MY ADVICE IS THIS GO TO THE POLICE AND TELL THEM ABOUT HIM THEY CAN REFER YOU TO A WOMAN'S SHELTER THEY HAVE THEM ALL OVER AND IF HE IS WILLING HE CAN GET HELP BUT IT WILL TAKE 200% EFFORT ON HIS PART YES GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM BY ANY MEANS YOU CAN YOU DONT HAVE TO BE HIS VICTIM HE WILL MOST CERTAINLY KILL YOU IF YOU ALLOW HIM TO ONLY YOU CAN HELP YOU PLEASE WRITE AGAIN AND LET US KNOW HOW YOU MAKE OUT TAKE CARE
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Ever since I was little I couldn't talk to people I didn't know. When I became older, I started having the same problem with girls. I had a few girlfriends early in high school, but they asked me. They weren't really my type either. They always wanted to party and do drugs. I didn't. I guess that I am the last of a dying breed. My freshman dance was 2 years ago and I didn't even think about going because I was to shy to ask anyone. I always use the excuse that I have a rejection phobia. I am the person that you see at a party that is hanging out with with his friends because no one likes talks either. I can't just go up to a girl and say, hey do you want to go and see a movie this weekend or something. I used to be fat through elementary school and 7 and 8 grade. Then I went to the gym and I went from 250lbs to 180lbs. I am 6'1 so this weight is better. Even though I look better I still don't have the courage to talk to girls. I always think that if I ask them, after they turn me down that they will go off and blab to their friends and make fun of me. I have asked a couple of girls out and they say that they like me as a friend or that they don't have time for a boyfriend and then a couple days later someone else asks them out and they say yes. This year the prom is fast approaching and I didn't ask anyone. Someone tell me how to get over this. I am 17. I don't play sports, maybe thats why. Girls want sports guys. And I don't hang out with the popular crowd because they are too fake. Help.
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Dear shy boy
well i have always heard it say nothing ventured nothing gained and i have heard it said if you are willing to try you have to eventually succeed so i would say at 17 we were all awkward except the popular kids but ask yourself what makes them popular clothes money that is all pretentious(fake) so i would say one day you will find the girl for you im sure there are girls who do not have dates for the prom ask one of your buddies if they have a sister that needs a date just a friendship date maybe they do make sure they dont hook you up with the school dork tho that would be mean let it be known to your buddies that you are available if they know any girls that would be right for you in the mean time hit the books and get the grades so you will not have to worry about taking a bit of time off when mrs right walks into your life do normal things like teenage things to get your mind off girls so much it will happen when it is suppose to happen and not before just make it be known to everyone that you are looking for mrs right or someone close to it well take care and i hope i have helped
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I am a 25 year old female, and the other night my boyfriend accidentally (he says) called me his ex-girlfriends (mother of his childs) name, while giving me a compliment. Is this a big deal, I can't help but be bothered by it. He says it was an accident, and that it's me he loves, and he doesn't know why he said it. What should I do? (link)
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i disagree with the rest of the ones that replied i would watch out for him and be in tune if he does it again bring it to his attention and say that is twice you have done tha would he like it if you called him by one of your ex's names i dont think so take care try not to take it to heart even though i no it is hard not too i would not like to be called an ex's name i have a boyfriend who has a child with an ex and if he called me stacy i would flip out well take care of yourself
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My ex fiencee, Tim, left me two days before my birthday. He left me at the worst time of my life. Since then we haven't talked much...and now he suddenly shows up and tries to apologize. I am so angry with him, but I still love him very very much. I want to hate him...I really do...but I can't. When he left, I started getting my life back into order, although it'd fall apart right after. I have a boyfriend now, but he means next to nothing to me. I don't want to let Tim hurt me again. He'd been my best friend for three years before we started a relationship.
*Alone by nature*
Abby (link)
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dear alone by nature Tim is a lost case there is a saying if you dont learn from history you are bound to repeat it so in other words if you did not learn from the pain that tim caused you then you are bound to repeat it leave him alone take care good luck
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Currently, I have been single for one month, but I still love that guy. We broke up becuase he said he needed time. But to all that there is this other girl with two kid and she is only 18 years old. She work with him and on New Years, I went to Cali for vacations, when I come back I heard that he picked her up becuase they are friends. I know he cares and loves me too but I feel so betrayed. What should I do?
Sincerly, Beautiful in Love (link)
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hello beautiful in love
well my advice is that if it is meant to be give him the time to figure that out if not let him go i would give him like a month deadline and let him no that is what you are going to do if he knows how you feel then he will respond either with the willingness to continue or he will not respond at all then you will have your answer take care and good luck
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