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What do girls my age (14) like in us guys? (link)
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well, being 14, of course, physical looks are one thing. BUT, if you're one of those guys who has less-than-average looks, don't despair! i have been attracted to several guys who weren't all that good looking, but drew me with their sense of humors, and they were just all-around charming. if you can't get a girl by looks, go for charming. gets me every time.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months and are going to celebrate our half year anniversary on August 28. The problem is I have no idea what to get him! I think he's getting me a promise ring, which is sweet beyond believe but I don't have anything to match it! When I bring it up though he just says "the only thing I want is you". Adorable, but not very helpful. I would be greatful for any suggestions, and I don't have a lot of money. Thanks a bunch! Em'lee
btw: he's a big music fan, is learning how to play guitar, and loves wild, death-defying stuff; if that helps any. (link)
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wow, this is a toughie. guys are hard to shop for. hm...are you any good at poetry? you could do that. let's see (gosh, guys have it easy), um...let me think...if he's a music fan, a cd? um...a framed pic of you two?..um..are you artistic?...maybe...cologne. do u two have any inside jokes? if you get something that reminds him of that, he'll think of you everytime he looks at it.
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im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?
o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp ! (link)
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don't feel bad cuz you've never had a bf. my sister is 16 and she's never been kissed or had a bf either. there's plenty of time for you. you'll never feel pretty, it's just a fact. someone else will always look better than you, it will seem. don't act all giggly around boys. just be yourself. if you're shy, the guys will just have to deal with that
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ok well i just asked a question about 3 guys. well u see i liked guy1 before i guy2 told me he kinda liked me. but guy2 is my best friend and idk wut i would do without him. and if he asked me out(which i have know clue if hes gonna) idk if i could say no. and that scrares me cuz ive always liked him on and off for awhile. but ive never wanted to like guy2 b/c ive told every one that i dont and i dont want to show that im wrong. but idk... i need help. i will rate.
P.S. ppl told me b4 to go out with them both but not serious. but i think i want a serious relationship. (link)
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whatever you do, DO NOT go out with both of them. that will lead to nothing but trouble. think about what you would do if guy2 and you broke up. would you still be friends? if you don't think you would, don't take that chance, and if he asks you out, say i don't want to ruin our friendship.
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i have known johnathan since the 3rd grade and he jus asked me out. I walked by and his friends were laughin cuz he said, I have butterflys in my arm. Then Adam (friend) said its supposed to be ur stomach. Adam said dude do u want me to ask her? Johnathan said, yea plz. then adam said will u go out wit him? I said, I said no, im sry but, we are just really good friends. every since then he hasnt talked to me. do u think hes mad? Iam a female and I am 18. (link)
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yeah, he's probably mad, or maybe he's just hurt. either way, don't mention the incident. he might not want to talk about it. it's always hard to be turned down, so when he starts talking to you again (or you talk to him) be extra sensitive.
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im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do? (link)
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get a friend to talk to him. ask them to be your messenger and ask him why he doesn't like you. then change those things.
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hey, i went out with this girl for all of my freshman year, and last year we broke up, and ive dated other people since then, but now things are heating back up with my ex, and i need to know the difference between her just trying to be nice, and flirting with me again....any help? (link)
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if she's just being nice, she'll say hi to you and smile when she passes you. if she's flirting with you, she'll go out of her way TO pass you and smile and say hi.
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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself (link)
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well, if your KNOW he likes you, then go ahead, tell him. if he doesn't know you like him, he may never make a first move. if he's already aware of your feelings, just act friendly and nice, and invite him to do stuff with you, which will clue him into the fact that your ready to start a relationship.
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im 14 and well ppl always tells me im pretty...but yet no one likes me...i mean if im so pretty why doesn't n e one like me? i mean i don't get it...and i have friends...so it must mean im not awful or weird...i think im nice...plzz help! i just really really dont get it....so could you help me please!?
~Melissa (link)
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So no one likes you. Big deal. It's not the end of the world, but if you're determined to figure out why, ask someone. Ask someone who doesn't hang out with you a lot, and who will give you an honest answer. I used to think I was super nice, until my bf broke up with me, and I asked his friend why. He said, "He thinks you're too mean to him, and you always say mean things.". So ask someone like that. And once they give you your answer, work on the things they said were negative.
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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Don't get defensive. Just ask them why they think that (a calm, cool, in-control voice is best), then explain why you like him, and what he's like. If they keep at it, ask them to stop. Give them an ultimatum. They need to stop nagging you. Your relationships need to be between you and the guy, not you, your friends, and the guy. Take a break from them for awhile, and have some alone time with your bf.
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mmk. i really like this guy i met on a cruise, and he lives about two hours away. he's 3 years older than me, and is in college. i realllllly want to date this boy, but i'm not sure if the distance will work out. BLAH. he's coming to visit me really soon, but i know i'll be attached when he leaves again. should i just call the whole thing off, and prevent any future heartbreak now, or should i atleast give this a chance. (link)
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If you think you can handle the worry that he's met another girl, and the stress of a long-distance relationship, then go for it. If he really likes you, and you like him, you two will make an effort to keep in contact. Give him a chance. You can always call it off if it doesn't work out.
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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!! (link)
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No, that's totally ok. Lots of people are too shy to tell people there feelings. What you can do, is start inviting him to places with you and your friends (Dairy Queen after school, plays, carnivals, etc.) If he takes you up on your offers, he's interested. If he doesn't, he's not. Either way you'll have your answer.
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