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Okay I'm 13/f he's 14/m [ going to be 15 in January ] , we've dated off and on for 6 months. We were really serious for a long time back in June - September then when he went into high school [grade 9] and I'm still in grade 8 [we go to diffrent schools until next year] Amyways , I lost my virginity to him and a while after he started grtting stressed from highschool and smoking [ I smoke to ] and doing weed [ I do it too ] and he's changed some , but he's still the guy I used to be so serious with and he knows I really love him still and the problem is he's dating my bestfriend [it's not as bad as it seems] but he likes this other girl too .
So , he does like me though . So , I was wondering how I could try to get him to like me more.If it helps , he's pretty family oriented , I talk to his mom a lot , he's played baseball for 9 years , he dislikes school and he's really sweet and I can talk to him about anything .
Also , I know some of the chocies I'm making aren't the most amazing , but I'd rather not have lectures please , I get them enough from my friends and teachers.
All Help will be apreciated and rated
Thank you (link)
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Hey live and let live you know what you are doing is wrong but if you still want to do it thats on you you are your own person and i know that you are going to continue no matter what anyone says not unleess you make the decision on yourself to change
But maybe this guy needs reassurance let him know that you like him do the things that mad him fall for you in the first place it seems like you really like him and you know him pretty well so just do the things you know he likes justr ask to chill with him somtimes and build up the more than friends relationship again...
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16, female
ive fallen for this guy, and i have had a thing for him for about 5 months now. he is my cousins good friend/neighbor and im always over at my cousins! before this kid nick had a girlfriend we flirted like crazy, i mean we would wrestle each other, flirt physcially like really bad and once i was trying to get something from him and we were in my cousins bathroom and he like picked me up and threw me over his shoulder and then like i was facing him, while he was still holding me and then he set me down but wouldnt let me go and i was standing behind him on the wall and he started like "grinding" kind of on me, with his butt touching me, it was funny. but we use to do stuff like that all the time. i just think he liked flirting with me but i kinda think he is attracted to me. well then he liked this girl and now they are going out, they have been for like 4 months or so and everytime me him and my cousins are together its weird for me, its like at first im shy, and i feel like i have to look perfect even though i know i dont have to and its the weirdest thing!! we kinda talk but not like before, because now he has a girlfriend and he cant be flirting like that. but everytime towards the end of the nights, he starts flirting with me a little bit and always takes the remote from me so i have to like touch him and stuff to get it, he always gets shotgun when i drive, he always like touches my hand (mostly accidently) when me and him fight over the radio station, tonight he was always trying to get a picture of me on his cell phone to me this is flirting but to him it may not be i always think of things differently maybe? i dont know. he notices the little things in me, like tonight he was like hey your hair looks lighter, why? and it was because i got it highlighted a couple weeks ago. and he notices when i do stuff like that, no other guys do :] i know he LOVES his girlfriend and never wants to lose her but it hurts me so bad to see him happy with her and talk about her like he does. i cant tell him how i feel because its the kind of feeling that i kinda forget about him/dont like him when i dont see him for awhile but right when i see him or know im gonna see him i get nervous and start liking him again. its like i want him to notice me, i want him to flirt with me even though he has a girlfriend. i want to get his attention even though its wrong since he has a girlfriend but im so use to the way it use to be like in the summer when we flirted like crazy. everyone we're around when we hangout thinks we are always going out by the way we act, and how we always flirt. my parents think we're going out because im always with him and my cousins, but really we're JUST FRIENDS..
i dont know..what do you think about this situation? what do you think nick is thinking. im going to see him again this weekend like in 2 days for my cousins friend party. i cant talk to him about my feelings, i dont want to ruin our friendship and make it awkward. i just need your point of view.
thank you very much (link)
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I hope you dont mind if i be staight up with you....well its either he likes you and his girlfriend or he just thinks you are hot and he wants to get in your pantys because he is doing all kind of touchy feely stuff with you but its kinda on the sweet side he seems to care about you enough to notice little things but if you really like him just try and hint on little suggestions about how are him and his girlfriend doing or other stuff about the relationship or you and him....yall seem to have history he should understand...
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Okay, I have two questions. One is this one girl is soooo annoying me, spreading rumors and starting crap. I have tried my hardest to be nice to her, giving her Christmas cards, telling her that I like her accessories (I have to wear a uniform), and many other things. But she still doesn't like me, calling me a bitch behind my back and saying things that were not true. One day I just lost it, 'cause she was saying that I couldn't talk to my friend Crystal because she was her friend. So now, if I even see here, I wanna punch her. What should I do?
Second question is about the girl's boyfriend. I am the new girl at my school, and I was hearing that her boyfriend was saying that I am cute and that he liked me. This is probably where things went wrong with me and that girl. Because, I didn't know that she was dating him, and Crystal said that he does still like me. BUT, he has been saying that he doesn't like me and he doesn't treat me like he likes me, in fact, he treats me quite the opposite. He hits me, and says rude things to me. I don't who to believe. What should I do? (link)
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These people are just a couple of unhappy people who want you to be unhappy like them... forget about them firstly confront her say i heard you where going around spreading rumors about me and thats not funny i dont like your boyfriend if thats why you dont like me not unless your just jealous of me but if she continues tell a teacher or parent that this girl is being so arrogant and unthoughtful of your feelings if your not that nice goody goody girl just go and spread bad rumors about her and see how she likes that..and then forget about her loser boyfriend if he likes you then he wouldnt be so mean to you and just flirt with some other hot guy and see how he takes it you are to good for them they arent worth your time ...REALLY!!!!!
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im so upset and deppressed right now..... i was dateing my ex for nine months we got in an arguement and he told me we needed to take a break and i was fine, now he doesnt want to be with me anymore and he keeps telling me if things get better than it might change what can i do to make him love me again, p.s dont tell me to get over him cause i cant, i really love him and i lost my virgenity to him please help (link)
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You Can't make some one love you
just remeber the old times
spend more time with him tell him exactly how you feel talk about the argument tell him sorry for the things that you did wrong and eventually things will get better
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Okay. So there's this guy at school, who's in tenth grade. His name is Tyler, and I'm in ninth grade. We both know we like each other, but I only met him 2 weeks ago. And he was telling my best friend that he wants to ask me out TONIGHT! But the problem is, I like him and all but I feel like things are moving way too fast. So how do I let him down easily without shoving him away? (link)
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Tell him!!!!!!!!
what you just said tell him tat you think things are moving to fast but you like him you wont be doing anything wrong
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(14/f)
Well, my problem is that about 5-7 guys have asked me out since, like, october, and when you think about it, that's a lot. in december, i asked out the guy i liked, but he didn't really "like me like that." naturally, i was kinda upset, and it's been distressing me even more ever since i've been getting asked out, because i'm still trying to impress the guy who wouldn't go out with me, but it doesn't seem to be working, and i want to make sure he really is never ever going to really like me before i go out with anyone again. i'm also worried that i'll never get over it.
Help! (link)
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i was just going through the exact same thing i liked this guy and he said he only wanted to be friends even though he always flirts with me so just of couple of days ago i decided i was over him and acted like i wasnt interested in him any more he started liking me so i just gave him a chance my secret is to act like you are over him and the people who know you like him tell them that you are over him and tell yourself that also
Hope i helped
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okay so i used to get with this kid then we stopped and now i still like him and we get with eachother sometimes normally when i drink or am drunk , its not like hes takin advantage of me its just that i want to know if theres anything i can do to get with him when im not drunk? (link)
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first define "Get with"?
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15/f
So, I realize "love" between two people can make happiness for them and some degree of comfort. I haven't had a steady boyfriend for basically two years, so I don't understand what's so attractive about the whole thing.
Sometimes I will be sitting on the couch and I will see some show about people being in love and my chest will completely tighten and I will wish that it was me. But really, when I think about it I don't understand what is so fantastic.
I know that part of this may just be that I don't know the "right guy".. but why is being in love so great? What happens?
Thanks =) (link)
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Love.we think about it,dream about it,loose sleep worrying about it.when we dont have it we search for it when we discover it we dont know what to do with it.we fear losing it.it is our source of pleasure and pain but we cant predict wich it will be from one moment to the next.it is a short word,easy to spell,difficult to define and.... impossible to live without
thats what i think about the whole thing it is very confusing but it feels great to now you are loved by someone even if it is your mom
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Okay. There's this guy that I still love.. He was my first boyfriend and we were going out for two years.. Today would have been our 2 year anniversary if we hadn't broken up yesterday....He said he thought it would be in our best interest and I think it was too. ..But I do still love him and he says he still loves me. ...We just dont fit together like most would consider normal...We have lots of little fights...But thats not what this question is about.......My main problem is that we still love each other...Ive never had to deal with a breakup....We decided to remain friends, but its going to be hard to talk to him...Ive been crying since 2:30 yesterday afternoon...and its now 6:45 today...so over a day...and I still haven't stopped.....I need to know how to get over him while still remaining his friends...I feel like I'm going to die and like I've lost the only thing in the world that meant anything to me..Please help me through this
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let me tell you what 2 do in a situation like this the same thing happened 2 me like 2 months ago this boy i thought i was in love with broke up with me he said that he wanted to be friends and maybe it could work some other time i felt like crying but then i realized that he was not the one that god wanted because if it was we wouldnt have to fight about little things because we would no longer be two people we would two halves of a heart that have come together perfectly to make one whole your heart will remain broken until you find the right one for you and trust me you will it took me like 2 weeks to get over that guy it seemed like his half fitted with mine but when i really thought about it it really didnt so just breathe deeply and meditate think about all the bad thing in you two's relationship and also the good things think of how a relationship with that one special guy thats out there for you will be with none of those bad things and try to move on there are so many fish in the sea and trust me somone at your schoool likes you everyone on earth has some secret admirer
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okay this guy that i like has been cting weird. Well he used to talk to me and be really nice but now he doesn't talk to me a t all and he talks to my best friend like all the time......what is goin on does he like her or something but i mean he told me that he thought she was really wierd and also he has a girl-friend which he loves to death but i don't know why he doesn'ttalk to me anymore....what's going on? (link)
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maybe his girlfriend,who he is love with told him not 2 talk 2 u no more cuz she probally thought yall 2 had somthing going on soooooo i would just be like um(his name) why have you been ignoring me lately and if it has somthing to do with his girlfriend and a possibility that they might break up because of her insecurities with him around other girls just back off because that might might break up with him and break his heart and might make him mad at you or you can just talk to the girl and tell her you and whats his face has nothing going on yall are just good friends
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i have had past relationships, still a virgin tho, and we used to kiss alot.. but it kinda felt unatural like i didn't really want to do it but i did it anyways. my fiancee' and i haven't done anything like kissing, sex, or anything like that, so when we do kiss i want it to kind of impress him. so i was wondering if there were any tips to tease him a lil' with kissing and to be a good kisser.. i know practice and it'll come natural.. but i just don't want to seem like a total goof. thank you
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if you have ever watched the great movie john tucker must die to tease him you have to grab him by his head and stare deeply into his eyes for like 3 seconds then close your eyes and go 90 percent of the way and let him come ten
hope i helped
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ok theres this guy who im like best friends with, and we're always playin around and saying stuff like, "oh how's my boo doing today" or something like that. only i like him as more than a friend and im not sure hell take me seriously or if he likes me back, what should i do? (link)
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go up 2 him and be serious not playingwith him with a serious not a mad face but serious if he is talking 2 someone say can i talk 2 you for a sec and tell him your feelings say can we hang out sometimes as more than friends because i like you and i want 2 kno if you like me bak and i dont want this 2 mess up our friendship
hope i helped bye
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i like this cute guy. he's cute, funny, and smart. really what my problem is, is that i think he might have a gf. im new to his school and i have no idea whats going on with other ppl. at lunch he would finish his lunch and go sit with these other girls for like 2 minutes. but he will do this at every lunch with the same group of girls. he is in 3 of my classes everyday so i would like some advice on how i could get him to like me or even just what i should do about this situation. thx in advance.&hearts
P.S. im 13/f and i am wearing miniskirt to school tomorrow. (link)
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KEYWORD: Communicate
you should try 2 talk 2 him and ask him questions if you ever see him looking at you smile at him let him kno that you are interested
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