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Do i just want his attention? i want him to notice me BUT..
16, female
ive fallen for this guy, and i have had a thing for him for about 5 months now. he is my cousins good friend/neighbor and im always over at my cousins! before this kid nick had a girlfriend we flirted like crazy, i mean we would wrestle each other, flirt physcially like really bad and once i was trying to get something from him and we were in my cousins bathroom and he like picked me up and threw me over his shoulder and then like i was facing him, while he was still holding me and then he set me down but wouldnt let me go and i was standing behind him on the wall and he started like "grinding" kind of on me, with his butt touching me, it was funny. but we use to do stuff like that all the time. i just think he liked flirting with me but i kinda think he is attracted to me. well then he liked this girl and now they are going out, they have been for like 4 months or so and everytime me him and my cousins are together its weird for me, its like at first im shy, and i feel like i have to look perfect even though i know i dont have to and its the weirdest thing!! we kinda talk but not like before, because now he has a girlfriend and he cant be flirting like that. but everytime towards the end of the nights, he starts flirting with me a little bit and always takes the remote from me so i have to like touch him and stuff to get it, he always gets shotgun when i drive, he always like touches my hand (mostly accidently) when me and him fight over the radio station, tonight he was always trying to get a picture of me on his cell phone to me this is flirting but to him it may not be i always think of things differently maybe? i dont know. he notices the little things in me, like tonight he was like hey your hair looks lighter, why? and it was because i got it highlighted a couple weeks ago. and he notices when i do stuff like that, no other guys do :] i know he LOVES his girlfriend and never wants to lose her but it hurts me so bad to see him happy with her and talk about her like he does. i cant tell him how i feel because its the kind of feeling that i kinda forget about him/dont like him when i dont see him for awhile but right when i see him or know im gonna see him i get nervous and start liking him again. its like i want him to notice me, i want him to flirt with me even though he has a girlfriend. i want to get his attention even though its wrong since he has a girlfriend but im so use to the way it use to be like in the summer when we flirted like crazy. everyone we're around when we hangout thinks we are always going out by the way we act, and how we always flirt. my parents think we're going out because im always with him and my cousins, but really we're JUST FRIENDS..
i dont know..what do you think about this situation? what do you think nick is thinking. im going to see him again this weekend like in 2 days for my cousins friend party. i cant talk to him about my feelings, i dont want to ruin our friendship and make it awkward. i just need your point of view.
thank you very much <3
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I hope you dont mind if i be staight up with you....well its either he likes you and his girlfriend or he just thinks you are hot and he wants to get in your pantys because he is doing all kind of touchy feely stuff with you but its kinda on the sweet side he seems to care about you enough to notice little things but if you really like him just try and hint on little suggestions about how are him and his girlfriend doing or other stuff about the relationship or you and him....yall seem to have history he should understand...
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