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hey im emily and i am 14 years old....i love my bf very much and have a pretty good life ...most of the time...ok now i g2g now so bye

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ok so i've known this kid keith for like a year or something, we never really thought of each other as more than friends but thats all changed now. ever since i met him i've heard about him hooking up with a bunch of my friends. after me & keith started talking more he started to tell me he liked me and stuff, and i always gave him a hard time saying that i was only gunna b another girl he made out with , so i didnt talk to him for months, i just started talking to him again and he tells me he changed and hes not like that anymoree...and explains a bunch of reasons why he has changed and why he wanted too. i believe him. i really do. and then me & him went to the movies and made out and all that good stuff.. NOTHING ELSE. well a couple days later one of my friends..we'll call her kim..well kim i guess had a 'thing' with keith as she explained. and as her friend...lets call her kenzee explained. well i called keith and he tells me that kim totally bitched him out and i told him she bitched me out too. and i ask him if he had a 'thing' with kim and he told me sorta, well he admits to me that he likes her but he tells me he likes me too. keith and kim both got into a fight because of me and kim tells me that i ruined everything and that i go around bragging about kissing 'gorgeous' keith in her words. which i didnt. so, about two days later after that (me&keith are still talking) keith leaves me a message while im at cheerleading practice saying in exact words..this: "hey *****, whats up..well i just called to say hi...and whats up..well ill talk to you later oh and me and kim are 'really' cool now. well talk to you later bye hun love you." so i totally freaked out with jealously of course..well who wouldnt? and i called him and i guess he just got off the phone with kim..well yeah im soo jealous its unbelievable im scared hes just using me as like a back up or something like that or he just wants two girls..i dont know well can someone give me advice on what i can do? please thankss...i'll rate.

ok...talk it out with BOTH of them...that way NONE of tyhem can lie....ok? and if they do they would have plan3d it...but u CANT let them do that...just give them a note to han g out with you at the movies or some thing ...but meet at your house...and dont tell one that the other is going to be there...then when they get there say there is a delay and you need a talk with thm and if they lie you wont talk to them abgain...get to the bottom of it.,..and ...judgeing by how it gose....decide what you need to do.....well i hope this helps ..bye

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ok...i really like this guy...abd he likes me too...he told me him self...but i think h is too shy t ask meout...what can i do so he will ask me out? or do i have to do it myself? lol thank you and i do rate...as long as you dont bull shit me!

haha i wrote this one! lmao

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i have 2 questions...
1. what is the law about dating a person over 18 if your a minor? some people say its not illegal till u have sex some say its if you touch in any sexual way even kissing
2. i am 15 and the guy i like is 18 is that soo bad....

help if you can

1) it isnt illeagal if you dont have sex, if you do...he will get up to 5 yeaars because you arent old enough to have sex,,, so it would be call rape....he would also get put on the natiol sexual afenders list...which is a big list of people who raped or had sex with someone too young, if they get on the list, they are on for the rest of their life and wont be able to move any where with out telling the people who run the list and soo on...

2) no it isnt bad...my bf and me have the same age difference, only he is almost 17 and i am almose 14 ( we were born in the same month) and though some people think it is bad of you love him that shoudnt matter

well i hopethis hlps,,,and untill u are confortable with sex and every thing tell him to keep it in his pants lol bye and hope this helps

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well i lyk this guy, he lyks me too..and now we're going out.and now..i feel lyk im not free..i want to b free..i want to be single again..but i dunno wat to do, i really lyk him..should i break up w/ him?

it depends if you are the type that usually dosnt go out with people and just fools around with them then yes cuz then you could still have fun with this guy and stuff along with others with no comitment but if yu wanna break up with him just so you can chec out other guys then i dont think you should because i mean...the good lord gave us eyes for a reason!lol hope this helps &heart byebye

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what do you do wen your goin out wif a guy.. and your best guy friend who you really like and have always wanted to go out with him asks you out... i mean i rilly like the guy im going out with and i really like my best friend?? me and my b/f lets call him jon have been goin out for a couple weeks now and my best frind lets call him bob juz asked me out today?! i have always wanted to go out with bob but he never asked and now that im going out with jon , bob decides to ask me out! i dont want answers tht say well its up to you..i need advice..thnx!! i rate high!!!!!


i think you should stick with you bf now cuz if this guy really likes you he will like you when you are single too dont fall into traps like that bcuz sometimes guys just ask you out when you have a bf because they are jokin and they kno you will break up with your bf....im not sayin that is what this guy is doing but you never kno and you dont want to ruin the friend ship you have with your guy friend (if to say you went out and then broke up) hope this helps &hearts bye

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theres tis girl who is totally obbsessed with me, shes attractive looking but i dont really think that it would work, and besides i already have a girlfriend. i wanna tell her that i dont like her but she cried cuz i wouldnt tell her if i liked her so i dont want to totally crush her heart so is there a way that i can tell her i dont like her without her getting crushed into amillion tiny peices

ok this is really tuf but u gotta tell her that you have a gf right now but say it nicly so she dont get hurt and if she asks who dotn tell her cuz she might go start a b*tch fight woth her but ya i think that is the best thing to do in this situation

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well me and this guy were together.. but i never kissed him bc i didnt think i was ready.. now i just found out that he was playin with my head the whole time and that he has a gf... i wanna forget about him but he just stays in my head! all the things he told me and everything is stayin in my mind! i cant stop thinkin about him even though hes a scumbag! wat do i do??

gurl this guy dont deserve you and i think you sould make him jelouse next time you see him you should look really hott do your hair up nice and every thing and have one of your guys friends play as a date or just get a real ne and then just make hiim really jelouse trust me this works and it feels soooooo good ! hope this helps and have fun! bye

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HEY I KNOW THIS SOUNDS REAllY STRANGE, BUT I REAllY NEED HElP. IM ASIAN AND I TAN REAllY EASIlY, BUT ASIANS DONT lOOK GOOD TAN. IT lOOKS UGlY AND DIRTY OR SOMETHING. MY FRIEND IS SOO WHITE AND SHE lOOKS SOO CUTE AND PRETTY WITH IT. DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY WAY TO GET RID OF YOUR TAN EASIlY? NO PIllS OR ANYTHING? PlEASE HElP Ill RATE HIGH :]

use a really good sun tan lotion, spf 30 works really good ,,, hope this helps! byebye

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Alright, I'm in love. Starstruck. Head over heels. And not just the lust, or the initial fireworks, and infatuation. This is the real deal, and I know it because I no longer think forst of my own needs. I think first of his, and what he's thinking or feeling, and his perspective on life. There's always been something about him, even before he knew how I felt, that's made me feel secure, and I knew that even if he could never love me back, I wanted to be good friends with him throughout college and the rest of my life. (I'm going into my senior year of high school.) Now, we might be going to colleges far from eachother, and I know that it's a lot of work trying to keep a long-distance relationship working. It's certainly something I'm willing to do, but it's so incredibly hard even when I don't see him for a week, how will I handle maybe a month, even two at a time? I'm very afraid of losing the incredible closeness and trust that we have right now, even though it doesn't seem to be something that should be a concern. Having him by my side in life, and with whatever I do, because we have very similar interests, is something so special to me, and especially in college, having him there to help with classes and to study together and laugh about geeky questions (I guess we're very nerdy ;) ) is something that would really help, that I almost feel I can't do without. I don't really know what to do. (Okay, this site says I'm supposed to include my age and gender. I'm sixteen, and, as you probably gathered, female.)

ok... well if you do go to seperate colages i think you should definetly keep in touch... amd maybe if you can and have the time you can visit him...but i also think that this sepoartion wil make you guys closer when you are togather...cuz ou know what they say, distance makes th heart grow fonder, of worse comes to worse you can always call him or email him...it isnt as good as taling in person but it seems like tat is all you have for a choice,.,,,thats all i got ...hope i helped and hope you can keep him close bye!

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I'm not a very good kisser at all. On my last date, I could tell my boyfriend didn't want to say anything. I think it's because I'm not experienced enough to really know what I'm doing. Are there any tips (not just URLs that tell you the importance of good breath etc.) that anyone would like to share? Thanks so much!

xO* jAMiE

lol ok...u need practice...i know this sounds very weird but this is what my friend told me and now i am a excelent kisser...prartice on your hand or if you are on a date just kiss him....i mean what can it hurt right? like they say practice makes purfect! hope i helped bye

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can somebody please help me with ideas how to ask a girl out.

lol get her alone...like at the movies or just away from her friends...then tell a joke to lighten the mood.,...if she giggles u kno she likes u and then ask! hope i helped bye!

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ok well this could sound weird but does anyone kno how to give a handjob and head. like what to exactly do and the motions. lol sorry but thanks so much

lol no worries ok a hand job is when you mosve your hand up and down a guys cpck....and just like do stuff that would feel good.....ya...and a blow job is when you put the guys dick in your mouth and suck on it.....my friend say that to practice you could suck on one of your fingers and see what might feel good.....lol hope i helped bye!

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well..i rele like this guy..who happens 2 b my x..nd i kno he likes me bak..alot! but i think were both still alittle shy 2 go bak out..any suggestions?

ok if you like the guy just ask him out! this isnt the 80's any more kid gurls can do the job too! AND IF YOU ARE A LIL BIT SHY HAVE A FRIEND DO IT! HOPE I HELPED! BYEAND HAVE FUN!

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Well okay, I've seen my boyfriend twice in my whole life. I met him like 2-3 weeks ago. And then we met up again at some fireworks like a week ago. He asked me out there. I didn't wanna say no though because like I was like hmm what the heck, Ill give him a chance. So the day after he asked me out. He went away for two weeks*he comes back this coming Sunday* and he calls like 3 times a day. He kinda gets annoying though and everyboy that knows him thinks he's annoying too. Also he is a jerk at times. Like he'll make fun of me and my music and stuff. But i noticed he has a really sweet side underneath it all. No one else knows about this sweet side of his. So when I tell them, they think im crazy. Another thing is that he cant even say "I love you!" When he says it, it just doesn't sound like he means it. Well.. i guess I love him, but it's just hard ya know? I have no clue what to do. So please help.

P.s. To add on to this all, he's friends with my x-bf and my x-bf wants us all to hang out but whenever me and my x are together we're all like close and kinda act like we're goin out. because I love him still *he broke up with me because I kinda cut because of him* and he apologized for it and said it was a mistake. But it's kinda late now.. i dont knwow.... we're all gonna hang out when my bf comes back. But im afraid its gonna be weird. Please help me.

Sorry this is sooo effin' longg.

this sounds very furmilliar...lol ok i have been in your place too....and what you might need to do is tell yor bf that you need to take a break to get to know each other...now i am not sayin you cant ever talk to him again u need to if you really like him so you can see is he would make a good bf.....and as for the ex boy friend...i dont think it would be a very good idea to have you all to gather bcause it seems you might still have feelings for him and you definetly had feeling if you cut when you went out wit him(dont worrie been tere too...it gose away eventually) soo ya....i hope i helped....bye

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