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i love helping out ppl in any way i can.. i love the feeling i get when knowing I had helped someone in some way...i love seeing ppl happy and being able to be some cause of their happiness would mean alot to me than words can tell...

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i have a problem. Which might explain why im on this site ;]

This might be long...

My 12 year old brother hangs out with this 16 year old named Tyler. Well apparently tyler thinks im the hottest thing since microwave popcorn, which i am perfectly fine with haha :)

heres some problems:

-they live in indiana. Now i live in kentucky but i visit my dad every 6 weeks and during the summer i will be there for 3 weeks. If anything happens it will just be a fling, and im willing to take the chance on getting attatched.

--everyone thinks he is a player because he has a girlfriend and likes me and is interested in me. I dont think he is a player...he could always dump her for me, which dont get me wrong he has a girlfriend im staying away i dont play that game.

---a kid was recently bullying him and he beat him up at a baseball game in self defense and when his brother found out about it he beat the kid so bad they had to take him out in a wheel chair...but that dont make him a bad person...

-----when i heard about the above comment...i began freaking out. I just wanted to reach out to him and hug and comfort him...why??

so if you could just explain all of that for me i would be grateful!! :D

Sorry for the longness once again!!

well what i think is if you really like him then go for it.. its your choice!
it cannot mean he's a palyer just because he has a gf already..ppl can be jealous sometimes... maybe he's not happy with the relationship he's having at present????

it sounds like he likes you alot....
but just in case be careful cos if your develope strong feeling for him when you eventally end up going out and he ends up dumping you, you can get hurt...make sure he has genuine feelings and he's not just thinkin u as hot(that is lust).. but if your not looking for a serious commitment this is not going to matter of course....

but i feel the way you've written that you really care about him alot... so yeah, why not show it to him??? i mean why dont you msg him and tell him something like "hey i was really worried about that incident, i hope your doing alright??" or something similar???

you know you sound a bit a like me.. i had a crush with a guy a year ago..and a few months later he got caught a motor cycle accident... when i texted him he told me about it..(he was not seriously hurt) but i ended up crying when i got to know.. and its after that , that i realized i had strong feelings for him.. i think the way i texted back to him made him realize it too.. and he started calling me more and hangin out with me more... and now we're in a successful realtionship and we hope to get married in future


these articles will help you alot if your hoping to get him to fall in love with you...

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_make_a_guy_fall_in_love_with_you
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Guy-to-Like-You
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Get-A-Guy-To-Fall-In-Love-With-You&id=335523


GOODLUCK!! :D

TC

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how can i kinda like help a guy like me. lol it sounsd weird but i like this guy and i want to know what i can do to make him like me alittle more. cause idk if he likes me cause we never really hang out. but we kinda talk some on myspace.

here are websites that will help you a great deal
click on the links below
GOODLUCK!! :D



http://www.stopgettingdumped.com/secrets.html

http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Guy-to-Like-You

http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Guy-Like-You-(Especially-Made-for-Pre-Teens)

http://www.wallpaperama.com/forums/how-to-make-a-guy-like-you-t1462.html

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hey im 17 female.
my ex boyfriend of 2 years and i recently broke up, i see him talking with this other girl all the time, and i know this sounds ridiculous but his myspace song is
"staring down the barrel" by shinedown.

whats the meaning of that song. because both of our myspaces always songs that meant something to he both of us and i was just curious.
k thanks.

theres a website for music interpretations

http://www.lyricinterpretations.com/lookat.php/bands/Shinedown/c9a6324131d27a7


check it out and see

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i`ve been with him for 3 months now and things have been going not so swell lately. 3 months isnt alot but we spent every single day together for two months till he moved, so we are really close.. well WERE really close. im 19 and hes 23, he lives 45 minutes away but we manage to hangout alot. he has been really worried lately that i cheat and he gets mad when i go out because he thinks every guy will want me. which is ridiculous to me.



i really like him, i may actually love him and i want all of this fuss to stop. i care about him so much and everytime i tell him, he like doesnt belive me and it hurts. i have kind of felt like he has been mean to me lately and trying to drive me away so he doesnt have to breakup with me, and let me do it.

we are going to my lakehouse tomorrow for the night and i want to do nice things for him. people have told me to write him a letter or even a poem but i feel like he may think its cheesy/too soon for all of that.

do guys really like that kind of stuff? what could i do for him. minus dinner and stuff


thanks alot!

I know how you feel

I had the same problem.It started off like that in my relationship but later it got better..
he has been alot rude to me too unsure about me bieng honest to him... but i know deep inside he loves me alot..thats what keeps me going... but my love is a long distance one..I only met him once in 11 months since our relationship started..

Hey I suggest you try to convince him that you truely like him before dropping him out anyway...it could be just that he must be feeling very insecure becase in his eyes you must be the most attractive women or something like that... its called jelousy in love ;)

I think a poem would be great..I tryed the same (when i had the same prob as you) and i think my bf loved it...and try to get a private time together to talk out how you feel about him not understanding you.Look him in the eyes while you talk...

This should help

if he still thinks your cheating on him then i'd say you'll have to drop him cuz its not going to workout.the relationship would be a heartbreak..
anyway explain this to him too... so that he understands how you feel...

here are links for websites with love poems if you want to check them out to help you write one...

http://www.funmunch.com/love/love_poems.shtml

http://www.poemsforfree.com/lovepo.html

http://www.links2love.com/poetry_poems.htm


but i suggest you write a poem that is more entirely meant for him with your feeling and how you feel of not bieng truested etc....


send him an e-card too..here are links

http://www.101lovepoems.com/

http://www.123greetings.com

hope i helped

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How do you know if your boyfriend is loosing interest in you? and how can you talk to him about it to see if he is?

16/f

when you guy loses intrest in you , you'll know it when


he doesnt look you in the eye while talkin you.
He'll keep tryin to change the subject when you talk about how much you love him.
he'll be admiring other girls in front of you.




If this is so

give him up

You can get a better person who truely cares about you..:)..

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